“Mommy and Daddy, can we buy a new pair of shoes for my friend at school?” These are the words that my parents remind me of every so often. I spoke to them as a five year old and they use them as one example of how kind I have always been. My mother always says that I get it from my 79 year old maternal grandmother who has given her entire life to the service of others. As one of the few physicians on the island of St. Croix, where my family is from, she cared for her patients whether they had the means or not. Not only did she care for them in her small family medicine practice, she also traveled all around the island to care for those who were “shut-in.”
Perhaps I am an apple off of her tree, but not before my mother who is a 25 year public school educator. So, hailing from a family of service leaders, I get it honestly.
Helping my kindergarten classmate to get shoes that did not expose his toes was just the beginning. As a child of Caribbean parents, I didn’t receive an allowance because my island born parents believe that chores are a part of life and that me and my sister should not be compensated for them. They did want us to learn the value of money, so what they did compensate us for was our hard work in school. We were gifted with financial compensation with every report card that demonstrated and reflected hard work. Most kids would use their money to hang out with friends or to buy something they have saved up for, and I did that, but I also gave a portion to charity every single year at Christmas.
My high school participates in a Holiday Giving Project every November/December. They do this to provide assistance to families who are in need of basic life necessities such as food, housing, clothing, etc. Every year, since middle school, I have donated my report card reward to this charity event in the hope that it will help a fellow student at my school. My parents didn't allow me to give my kindergarten classmate a new pair of shoes, but they taught me how to help fellow community members. This is my way of providing many shoes.
Another example of how I have impacted others with my kind spirit is volunteering. In my school district, every high schooler is required to earn 75 student service learning hours prior to graduating from high school. To date, I have earned 220 hours of community service. I have earned these hours by volunteering at summer school, delivering mulch to my neighbors, and managing my high school varsity basketball team. This last example was extremely difficult for me because with basketball as my first true love, I would have preferred to be on the court playing with my teammates, but rather than sulking in isolation or moving on to something else, I put service above self and ensured that my teammates had the material, emotional, and moral support they needed from me on the sidelines.
With the help of this scholarship, I will prepare to leave the nest to deepen my studies and I take with me the values of kindness and service that have been modeled for me and that define me as a human who will use my character to make the world a happier and healthier place.