Maintaining a balance between work, school, and my personal life is very difficult to put it lightly. I am grateful that I have always been an extremely driven student and professional employee, however, maintaining that balance can be a definite struggle. I have had to find tips and tricks in order to keep myself sane while attending school full time, while also working more than one job full time, and also attempting to have a social life.
I am extremely grateful that I have an extraordinary support system of friends, family, and loved ones who have been incredibly understanding and patient with me while I have been finishing my degree. Additionally, I am lucky enough to work for small, family owned companies that have ben extremely flexible and understanding of my school schedule. Both of my employers recognize the importance of higher education and have regularly been willing to accommodate my ever changing schedule each semester. Without the grace and support from my employers, I would not have had the flexibility in my schedule to work and pay for my tuition and other expenses while also attending classes, completing assignments, and attending study sessions. My friends and family have been majorly accommodating as I have been attending school, often understanding that my classes would revolve around a hectic commute and schedule. Delaying plans and activities, rescheduling, or completing homework while spending time with loved ones became part of my normal routine.
I have a deep love for vintage cars and motorcycles, live music, and collecting vintage clothing. I also work as a freelance artist painting classic cars, motorcycles, and racecars. These activities are some of my favorite things to do, both on my own and with my friends and family. These activities have become a much needed way to distract myself from the stress of work and school, or the overwhelming stress of finals and studying. Spending time at car shows, drag races, swap meets, and estate sales have become favorite ways to relieve stress and get away from the computer screens that I spend all day in front of for both work and school.
Additionally, I have found that sometimes, it is impossible for me to do everything. While I am extremely lucky and grateful to have built an infrastructure for myself of supportive friends and family and enjoyable hobbies, sometimes it is all too much. I have embraced the value of resting and talking to someone when I am stressed. Sometimes that rest is as simple as taking a walk or taking a nap, sometimes it is as necessary as seeking the help of a therapist to help prioritize my stressors and balance out those issues. I have found that the most important thing is the willingness to step back and relax when I need to.