Growing up in one of the poorest families, I’ve faced many burdens and obstacles that have shaped my determination to pursue a career in STEM. My interest in this field is deeply rooted in the struggles I’ve experienced and the desire to create a better future for my family and others in similar situations.
From a young age, I was the type of girl who often felt invisible, the one others didn’t want to talk to. Even in elementary school, where I was always at the top of my class, I struggled with loneliness. I would lie to my mom, telling her I had many friends, but deep down, I knew it wasn’t true. My isolation only grew worse when I began attending Wednesday church classes after school. It was there that I met a boy, much older than me—possibly five or six years older—who I now realize was the beginning of a very dark chapter in my life.
At just 11 years old, as I transitioned from elementary to middle school, this boy took an unhealthy interest in me. He would write me notes and eventually gave me his phone number. I was too young to see the warning signs, and I didn’t have the courage to tell anyone, not even my mom. Over time, he became more controlling, telling me to push my friends away and only talk to him. The relationship, if you could call it that, was toxic and damaging. He eventually handed me a box of razor blades and told me to go away and never appear before him again. That experience left me feeling completely shut off from the world, and I lost something within myself that I cherished deeply—my confidence, my trust, and my sense of self-worth.
These early hardships taught me about the darker sides of life, but they also planted the seeds of resilience in me. My mother, despite her love for animals and science, was unable to pursue an education due to financial hardships. She couldn’t even attend elementary school, and to this day, she regrets not being able to make a difference in the world through her passions. Watching her sacrifice so much, while we struggled to make ends meet, inspired me to take a different path. I knew I had to become someone who could make a difference, both for my family and for others who have been silenced or shut out by circumstances beyond their control.
I nearly lost sight of my dreams because I needed to find a job to support my mother and younger brother. But despite the financial challenges, I never lost my kindness toward nature, animals, and the sciences. I refuse to let our financial situation define our future. I want to make a difference—not just for myself, but for my family and others who face similar struggles.
Recently, life has become even more challenging. My stepdad, who has done nothing wrong, was taken away by the cops because he’s an immigrant, and he’s been in jail for about seven months now. This has left me with the responsibility of being the primary provider, both financially and mentally, for my family. I’m not saying this to vent, but to highlight that everything I do happens for a reason, and these challenges have only strengthened my resolve to push forward and continue my studies.
Now, I’ve graduated high school and need just three more classes to earn my associate’s degree, which I’ll complete in one semester. At 18 years old, I’m already working at Valley Regional Hospital as a Patient Care Technician, gaining valuable experience and establishing a foundation for my future. Though things were difficult at first, they’ve gotten better, and my mom is proud of me—but I won’t stop here.
I want to study biology, not only to teach at schools and shelters but also to pursue my long-held dream of becoming a veterinarian. I have a friend, Jared, who, despite being in similar circumstances, also wants to take biology to become an aviary vet. I always encourage him not to give up, and he hasn’t. Yet, due to financial challenges, even I sometimes feel like giving up—but I don’t.
So again, I’m not afraid to say that the things I’ve been through have had a profound impact on the way I think and approach life. These experiences have shaped my determination and resilience. I’m currently in a school program partnered with the college I’m attending, which has given me incredible opportunities. Thanks to my grades and humility, I was selected to become a tutor at the high school, where I help other students navigate their academic challenges. It’s a role that has allowed me to give back to my community, and it’s one I’m proud of.
One of the most amazing experiences I’ve had through this program was being chosen to travel to Washington, D.C., for two weeks. I met congressmen, asked them questions, and toured the city. It was an eye-opening experience that showed me the possibilities that exist beyond my immediate surroundings. These opportunities have made me realize that becoming a person of change doesn’t require wealth or a privileged background. What it truly takes is vigilance, determination, and the drive to achieve what others might see as impossible.
This is why studying and pursuing my education in the STEM field means so much to me. Through my work in science or medicine, I aim to break the cycle of poverty that has held my family back for generations. I want to be someone who brings light to those who, like my mother, were once shut out from opportunities due to their financial circumstances. By pursuing a STEM career, I hope to create meaningful change, proving that even in the face of adversity, it’s possible to rise above and make a lasting impact.