Obstacles are inevitable. People will always face all kinds of problems throughout their lifetime, but the way they choose to react to those obstacles will ultimately determine who they become in the future. For example, college is the beginning of a transition from childhood to adulthood for most people, and that transition is bound to come with plenty of obstacles for adolescents to face. These same teens who were just living at home worry-free are now living on their own, paying for their own things, making their own decisions, and so on. I am soon to be one of those people, and I have a lot of questions, worries, and anxious thoughts, but I also believe that everything will work out in time. I have good faith in myself and know I will be able to work everything out. All I have to do is keep my priorities in line, be smart with my decision making, and surround myself with the right people to stay in check.
For example, I know just how easy it is to get swept away by waves of procrastination, laziness, and distractions. These behaviors are all about mentality. They are a result of a weak mindset that simply needs to be turned around. All it takes to get rid of these challenges is a simple, meaningful affirmation to yourself such as, “I will finish this assignment today.” You just have to mean it, and that’s truly all it takes to get yourself back on track. Procrastination and distraction are two huge problems for college students when it comes to living on their own, as there is no one to tell them when to do their laundry, when to finish their homework, or not to stay out too late so they can study for their final the next day. I plan on overcoming these bad habits by planning out my day to day actions. I will be strictly managing my time, allotting myself time to workout, study, work, and have fun with friends and family throughout my week.
Likewise, working and financial planning are other big things adolescents struggle with when living on their own. Most need to pay off their tuition, living expenses, and other college bills, but also deal with a very low pay with a bad spending to saving ratio. Younger people tend to spend more on unnecessary things and end up with hardly anything to put into their savings or to pay off important bills. Fortunately, I am pretty good at saving at least 30% of my income as I have no bills to pay right now. When I am on my own, I plan on saving 10%-15% of my income, paying any college payments I owe, and spending anything I have leftover. As far as working, I know I must show up on time, present myself well, and treat everyone with manners and respect to keep my job. The only thing I might struggle with is finding a job in the first place, as I have a lot of competition with all the other college students also looking for work, but I will apply early and apply to a lot of places to secure a good job for myself.
Lastly, there are plenty of different kinds of people to meet in college. You have country people, lazy people, Godly people, animal loving people, and much more. A lot of times, it is easy for good people to fall into the wrong crowd and get influenced to build bad habits that become normalized. After a bad habit gets normalized, it becomes very hard to break, but not impossible. Again, though, overcoming bad habits is all about mentality. If you truly believe you can overcome it, you can definitely do it. When I go to college and live on my own, I am planning on joining a religious group, animal loving club, and education oriented club. I aim to fall into the right crowd that believes in Christ, puts studies before distractions, and loves animals the way I do, and at Texas A&M University, there are over 1,300 student organizations where everyone is bound to fit in somewhere.
In conclusion, there are many different obstacles that I may face living on my own, but with confidence and keeping my priorities in check, I can overcome them easily. Having a strong mentality and believing in myself will allow me to become successful in college and prepare me for beyond.