Everyone should always give their all in whatever they do and should be open-minded to new things. I learned that operating in fear or being scared to try something new leads to regret. The experience that taught me to be open-minded to new things is when I went to Japan in junior high. In 8th grade, I had the opportunity to go to Japan with my school. A large number of students were applying to go, and I thought that I wouldn't get chosen because I wasn’t special, especially compared to all the other kids' experiences. I wasn’t going to do the essay or interview, but my mom told me never to operate in fear, and my fear was being rejected because of not being good enough. She helped me realize that if I never try then I can't expect to be successful. Being open to trying new experiences pays off in the long run. One of my favorite quotes is from Wayne Gretzky, who says, “You miss 100% of the shots that you never take.” After I submitted my essay, I took the interview, and the next day I was on the list for the trip. From this trip, I learned that humans all over the world have different values, cultures, and experiences. Interestingly, we all come from different backgrounds but we're all humans and cut from the same cloth. I would have never had this experience if I wasn’t open to trying new things. In football, I learned to push myself even if I don’t think highly of myself, that I can do more than I give myself credit for. There were several times when I felt like giving up in practice. My football coach would add an extra sprint to conditioning when the practice was supposed to be done. Let go of the doubts, clear the mind, and focus on the task at hand. Even though I thought I couldn’t go any further, I realized that I actually could, which has helped me realize I’m able to accomplish anything I put my mind to. Another aspect of football that taught me to give my all was my experience in the weight room. When I finished all my bench press sets early lifting with one of my friends, we decided to do an extra set. My friend added an extra ten, and I told him there is no way I could rep this. He told me to push myself and that I could do it. I started to lift the weight that seemed heavier on every rep. Surprisingly, I was able to knock out all of the reps. Getting out of comfort zones is necessary to pass limits. I had to overcome my fear of not being good enough and I had to build confidence by believing in myself.
Now that I have learned these lessons, I know that refusing to take advantage of an opportunity that was given to me would lead to misfortune and shame. I can never truly succeed and won’t be happy with myself if I fold by not attempting. Not believing that I can make it to a certain college before I even try applying is absurd. If I don’t apply or have the mindset that I won’t be accepted then I would have already failed my goal. Stepping out of my comfort zone is nerve-racking and makes me anxious, but I am going to give my all and open myself up to the experience.