On the one hand, Conrad is darker, and more angsty with communication issues. Throughout the show, especially in the beginning, he criticizes Bella and makes a negative comment most of the time he speaks. Not to mention the violent side of Conrad. In the first episode, he gets into a fight which leads to the police showing up. Additionally, Conrad said that he first viewed Bella as a kid and then realized he could date her. While this makes sense because they grew up together, Conrad only saw her like a sister but then changed his view to see her romantically. In my opinion, this is a little questionable, especially since they are like family. Conrad never had feelings for Bella until they grew up; this brings into question why Bella did not give up on her childhood crush after such a long time. Typically, the advice would be to move on and not waste any more time than she already had. Furthermore, Conrad knows that his mom is dying from cancer; even if he does not know specifically he still knows something is wrong. As previously mentioned, Conard has some communication issues he needs to work on. He does not confide in his brother, which would be expected from a sibling because Jeremiah shares their mom as well. Keep in mind, that not telling Jeremiah was a choice and that he chose to grieve alone. Whether or not Conard purposely withheld this information from Jeremiah, it all leads up to the events at the Debutant Ball. Jeremiah swipes his mom’s phone and finds out about the cancer; this causes Jeremiah to miss the dance with Bella and for Conrad to step in as the savior she needs. Instead of finding the reason for Jeremiah’s absence, Bella switches up and chooses Conrad over Jeremiah. This proves that Conrad has no respect for his brother because Conard accepts the kiss from Bella while Jeremiah is actively crying over his discovery. Overall, Conrad is not a good brother to Jeremiah and not the best choice for a partner.
On the other hand, Jeremiah fits into the happy, go-lucky, good-boy archetype. He’s a partier and brings happiness and laughter to those around him. Unlike his brother, Jeremiah can easily connect to people with this trait; this would be very useful, especially in this hypersocial world that we live in. While he is bisexual, Bella could accept this if she wants to. Jeremiah is not all good. When Bella and Conrad were about to kiss, Jeremiah shot a firework that interrupted the completion of the kiss. This firework nearly hit this couple in the process. However, the reason that Jeremiah is jealous is because he has feelings for Bella but knows he does not stand a chance. While he does possess some jealousy, it could be lessened with some time and effort. He is the younger sibling and he is used to coming in second which as a younger sibling, I can relate to. Even though Jeremiah does punch Conrad at the Debutant Ball, there are emotions behind the action; this is after Jeremiah finds out Conrad knew about their mom’s cancer. When Conrad told Bella he couldn’t say he loved her, Jeremiah chose not to intervene. While he could have been her “knight” at this moment, he decided not to because it was not his place. This shows respect for his brother, unlike Conrad. In general, Jeremiah is the more positive brother that Bella should choose. At the end of the series, Bella chooses Jeremiah; therefore, I win as a viewer.