Growing up with a single mother showed me what real strength looks like. My mom had to carry the weight of being both a provider and a parent, and even when things were hard, she always made sure I had what I needed. Watching her handle responsibilities, make sacrifices, and keep pushing through difficult times taught me lessons that no classroom would ever be able to touch the topic on.
There were moments when life tested her. She faced hardships, losses, and had to keep moving forward even when it felt impossible and as if she couldnt do it no more. Through it all, my mom never let me believe that our circumstances would hold me back from anything. Instead, she taught me to stay focused, work hard, and keep my faith no matter what obstacles came our way. “Chase what you want Josh dont let nobody take your dream” is what she would always say to me and seeing her refuse to quit gave me the mindset to do the same.
Because of her, I’ve learned to appreciate opportunities instead of taking them for granted. I understand the value of hard work because I watched someone I love work every day to build a better life for not only her but me and my big brother. She taught me to respect others, stay humble, and always remember where I came from cause “can’t nobody take that away from ya”. Those lessons continue to guide me in school, in my community, and in the goals I’ve set for myself.
Growing up in Memphis also shaped who I am. I saw people with incredible talent who just needed someone to believe in them or give them a chance. That made me realize how important it is to keep others head up instead of only thinking about myself. My mom always reminded me that your character is measured by how you treat people, especially when you don’t have much yourself and it’ll take you a long way.
As I prepare to attend Tennessee State University and carry those lessons with me. I want to make my mother proud by taking advantage of every opportunity, earning my degree, and building a successful career. More importantly, I want to give back to the communities that helped raise me by mentoring young people, supporting local programs, and showing others that their circumstances do not have to limit any kind of goal they want to achieve.
When I think about the person I want to become, I think about my mom. Her resilience, determination, and unconditional love shaped the way I see the world. She taught me that success isn’t just about what you accomplish for yourself it’s about how you use your success to help others. Everything I achieve will be a reflection of the sacrifices she made, and that’s something I’ll never forget.