
Joshua Childers
295
Bold Points1x
Finalist
Joshua Childers
295
Bold Points1x
FinalistEducation
Western Governors University
Bachelor's degree programMajors:
- Human Resources Management and Services
York Technical College
Associate's degree programMajors:
- Legal Support Services
Miscellaneous
Desired degree level:
Master's degree program
Graduate schools of interest:
Transfer schools of interest:
Majors of interest:
Career
Dream career field:
Human Resources
Dream career goals:
College Student Challenge Scholarship
Conflict in the workplace is inevitable, but when minor disagreements escalate into shouting matches, the environment becomes toxic and productivity suffers. In such a situation, even without formal authority, I believe I could bring talents, qualities, and leadership skills that would help restore balance and foster a healthier culture. My approach would focus on communication, emotional intelligence, and collaborative problem-solving.
The first quality I would bring is active listening. Often, arguments persist because people feel unheard or dismissed. By listening carefully to each side, paraphrasing their concerns, and validating their feelings, I could help de-escalate tension. For example, if two employees argue about task assignments, I could say, “I hear that you’re frustrated about fairness, and I hear that you’re concerned about deadlines. Let’s see how we can address both.” This simple acknowledgment can lower defensiveness and open the door to resolution.
Another talent I would contribute is emotional regulation. When tempers flare, it is easy to get swept into the emotional current. I can model the behavior I hope to see in others by remaining calm, measured, and respectful. Demonstrating composure in the face of conflict prevents escalation and signals that disagreements can be handled professionally. In many cases, people mirror the tone of the person they speak with; if I remain steady, it encourages others to do the same.
In addition, I would rely on my problem-solving mindset. Arguments about small matters often mask deeper issues, such as unclear expectations, uneven workloads, or a lack of communication. Instead of focusing on the surface-level dispute, I would ask questions that uncover the root cause. For instance, if employees are bickering about who should handle a routine task, I might suggest relating responsibilities in writing or rotating duties. By shifting the conversation from blame to solutions, I can help transform conflict into an opportunity for improvement.
My interpersonal skills would also play a key role. Building trust with colleagues before conflicts arise makes it easier to intervene effectively when tensions run high. I would try to connect with coworkers personally, showing respect for their contributions and empathy for their challenges. People who know I value them are more likely to accept my input during disputes. Trust is the foundation that allows influence without formal authority.
Another leadership quality I would bring is fairness and impartiality. In heated arguments, employees often fear favoritism or bias. By treating everyone equally and focusing on facts rather than personalities, I can help ensure that resolutions feel just. For example, if two employees accuse each other of not pulling their weight, I suggest reviewing objective workload measures rather than relying on subjective impressions.
Finally, I would emphasize team-building and positive reinforcement. Conflict drains morale, but shared goals and recognition can rebuild it. I encourage coworkers to remember the bigger picture: we all work toward the same mission. Celebrating small successes, thanking people for cooperation, and highlighting examples of effective collaboration can shift the culture from adversarial to supportive.
In conclusion, while I may not hold a supervisory title, I believe I can influence the workplace through active listening, emotional intelligence, problem-solving, interpersonal trust, fairness, and team-building. These talents and leadership skills allow me to de-escalate conflict, uncover root causes, and foster a more respectful and productive environment. By modeling calm communication and encouraging collaboration, I can help transform a work center plagued by arguments into one where differences are resolved with professionalism and mutual respect. Leadership is not about position; it is about the ability to guide others toward a better outcome, and that is the role I would strive to play.