"It is men of desperate fortunes on one hand, or of aspiring, superior fortunes on the other, who go abroad upon adventures, to rise by enterprise, and make themselves famous in undertakings of a nature out of the common road." The father of Robinson Crusoe warned his son one side was too low for him, the other too high. Similar wisdom can be found within the Bible.
Throughout Ecclesiastes, the pursuit of earthly goods is vanity, chasing after the wind. In 1 Thessalonians 4:11-12, Paul instructs Christians to "aspire to live quietly, and to mind your own affairs, and to work with your hands...so that you may walk properly before outsiders and be dependent on no one." Reading this, I realized I was not aligning my desires with God's plan.
If I were the captain of my life, it might be easy to say where I see myself in ten years. But I am not the master of my decisions. I have put my yes on the table for God, choosing to trust His wisdom for my life. Right now, my one desire is to be married and train up my children to have a greater impact for God's kingdom than I will. Whether that life holds poverty, adventure, or Defoe's middle ground, I have no preconceptions, but know I must provide for my family.
At present, I believe that provision will take the form of founding and leading a startup, serving as both technical lead and guide for a small team: solving problems while cultivating the people solving them. This appeals to me not merely as preference, but as an extension of how God made me. During a Rube Goldberg competition at Wake Tech Community College, I discovered how deeply I enjoy leading a small group toward a shared solution under pressure, growing in integrity and meekness just as much as skill, creating relationships central to carrying out the Great Commission. Such a life, ten years out, would reflect responsibility and restraint: work ordered so it does not consume what it is meant to support, Sundays set apart, days begun early so I return home sooner to teach and raise my children.
Through First Tech Challenge robotics, I learned to navigate conflict while meeting engineering deadlines. Through dual enrollment, I discovered learning is valuable for its own sake, which is why I am graduating with an associate's degree I didn't need but wanted. My parents' upbringing in communist Romania and immigration to the U.S. impressed on me the importance of truth, hard work, and consistency, an understanding I intend to pass on to my children.
To move toward this future, I plan to join a Toastmasters club, build relationships beyond my field, and pursue internships and mentorship. But none of this can stand alone. Without daily prayer and time in Scripture, my ambitions would become self-directed rather than rightly ordered. Dependence on God grows the discipline and humility necessary for leadership and fatherhood alike.
Solomon writes in Proverbs 27:1, "Do not boast about tomorrow, for you do not know what a day may bring." Any vision I have set forth is not a declaration of what will be, but what I am presently being led to pursue. My responsibility is not to determine the outcome, but to be faithful in preparation, diligent in action, and steadfast in trust. If given the opportunity to lead, build, and provide, I will do so understanding these are gifts, not guarantees, seeking not to boast in tomorrow, but to walk rightly in what has been given today.