As a single mother of two amazing children, Andree and Amari, pursuing higher education while working full time has been one of the most challenging yet rewarding experiences of my life. Every day, I balance the responsibilities of being a mother, a full-time school district employee, a college student, and an active parent involved in my children’s education and activities. Although the journey is not easy, it has strengthened my determination to create a better future for my family.
I work full time for a school district, a career that I truly value because it allows me to make a positive impact on students while providing for my own children. However, balancing a full-time job with college coursework requires careful planning and constant sacrifice. My workday does not end when I leave the office. Once I pick up my children, my focus shifts completely to being a mom.
My son, Andree, is active in both baseball and boxing. I make every effort to attend his practices, games, and competitions because I want him to know that I will always support his passions and dreams. My daughter, Amari, attends preschool and is at an age where she needs my attention, encouragement, and guidance every day. Being present for both of my children is incredibly important to me, even when my schedule feels overwhelming.
In addition to work, school, and parenting, I volunteer at my children’s school whenever I have the opportunity. Whether I am helping with classroom activities, school events, or other volunteer opportunities, I believe it is important to stay involved in their education. I want my children to see that education extends beyond the classroom and that giving back to our school community matters. Even though volunteering often means giving up what little free time I have, I know these moments make a positive difference in my children’s lives.
The biggest challenge I face is finding enough time for my own education. Most evenings are spent helping my children with their routines, preparing meals, getting everything ready for the next day, and making sure they have the attention they deserve. It is only after they are asleep that I begin my own homework. Many nights I stay awake until late at night completing assignments, studying for exams, and working on projects. There are times when I feel physically exhausted from the lack of sleep, but I remind myself why I started this journey. Every assignment I complete and every class I pass brings me one step closer to reaching my goals.
Being a single mother means there is no one else to share the daily responsibilities. I manage our household, finances, transportation, appointments, and every unexpected challenge that comes our way. There are days when I question whether I have enough time or energy to do it all, but I continue moving forward because my children are watching. I want them to grow up knowing that obstacles should never define their future and that perseverance can overcome even the hardest circumstances.
Despite these hardships, I remain committed to my education because I know it will open doors to greater opportunities. Earning my degree will allow me to continue growing professionally within education, provide greater financial stability for my family, and build a future where my children have every opportunity to succeed. More importantly, I hope my journey teaches Andree and Amari that dreams are worth pursuing, even when the road is difficult.
My children are my greatest motivation. They inspire me to keep going on the nights when I am tired, the mornings when I have little sleep, and the days when balancing everything feels impossible. I want them to remember not only that their mother earned a college degree, but also that she never gave up. Every sacrifice I make today is an investment in their future and a reminder that with determination, resilience, and hard work, anything is possible