Ella’s Gift Scholarship Essay
For most of my life, I have struggled with mental health and substance abuse. Recovery did not come easy for me; it took three trips to rehab before it finally stuck. The last time, I stayed for eight months, and that is where everything started to change. I finally accepted that recovery was not just about getting clean, it was about rebuilding my life, piece by piece. I graduated from drug court in 2017, and that moment was a turning point for me. I made a promise to myself that I would never go back to the life I fought so hard to leave behind.
Depression is something I still live with, but I have learned how to manage it in healthier ways. I discovered that staying busy and having purpose helps me more than anything. During my recovery, I found a love for art and woodworking. Creating something with my hands gave me a sense of peace and pride that I had not felt in years. When COVID hit, I turned that passion into a small business, which helped me stay grounded and focused during a time when the world felt uncertain. It also reminded me how capable I was when I stayed committed and put my energy into something positive.
Today, I am proud to say I have been in recovery for almost ten years. I am also a full-time student, a single mom, and a caregiver for my mother. Life is busy, but it is good. I am currently working toward my bachelor’s degree in construction management, and my goal is to become a construction project manager. I love the construction industry because it is about creating something lasting, something you can stand back and say, “I built that.” It is a lot like recovery. Both require patience, teamwork, and building a solid foundation before anything else can stand.
Education is a big part of my recovery story. When I decided to go back to school, it was a way to prove to myself that it is never too late to start over. I want to build a career where I can continue to learn and grow within a company that values hard work and integrity. My daughters are my biggest motivation. I want them to see that no matter how hard life gets, you can always rebuild and become stronger than before.
I stay on track in my recovery by helping others who are ready to get their life back. Giving back keeps me grounded and reminds me how far I have come. I talk to women who are new to recovery, and I try to give them hope that it is possible to create a better life. Spending time with my daughters, working hard, and staying focused on my goals help keep me balanced. I still check in with my therapist and attend support groups when I can, but life is full these days with school, work, and parenting. I have learned that recovery does not have to look the same for everyone, it is about doing what keeps you healthy and moving forward.
Winning this scholarship would mean so much to me. It would not only help me financially but also remind me that my journey and hard work are worth something. The struggles I have faced have taught me resilience, responsibility, and compassion; qualities I bring into everything I do. This scholarship would help me continue my education and give me the chance to build a stable future for myself and my daughters.
Like Ella, I have fought hard to overcome my challenges and find purpose through the pain. I believe the best way to honor that kind of spirit is to keep pushing forward, to never give up, and to use your story to inspire others. I want to continue doing that every day, through my recovery, my education, and my career in construction. We do recover!