I asked my friend to drive like a normal person. We were heading home from school, and he had been drifting around corners for the past few minutes. I was annoyed more than scared. It felt reckless but not dangerous, the kind of thing teenage boys do to show off. He laughed and straightened out the wheel. Seconds later, we were hit from the side by an armored bank vehicle at an unprotected intersection. The impact was sudden and violent. Metal crunched. Glass shattered. My body slammed against the seatbelt. For a moment, everything went still. Then the panic set in. We checked ourselves. We checked each other. Somehow, miraculously, everyone was okay. But in that moment between impact and relief, I understood something I had only known abstractly before. One decision can change everything. One moment of distraction or impairment can turn an ordinary drive into tragedy.
That crash was not caused by alcohol. It was caused by speed and bad timing. But the lesson applies. When you get behind the wheel impaired, you are making a choice that affects more than just yourself. You are deciding that your convenience matters more than the safety of everyone else on the road. You are gambling with lives, and the odds are worse than most people think. According to the National Highway Traffic Safety Administration, someone dies in a drunk driving crash every 39 minutes in the United States. That is 37 people per day. Those are not just statistics. They are parents driving home from work. They are college students heading to class. They are kids in the backseat who trusted the adults to get them home safely.
The consequences of drunk driving extend far beyond the immediate crash. If you survive, you face legal penalties that include jail time, fines reaching tens of thousands of dollars, and a criminal record that follows you for life. You lose your license. You lose your freedom. You lose job opportunities because many employers will not hire someone with a DUI conviction. But the legal consequences pale compared to the emotional ones. Imagine living with the knowledge that your decision to drive drunk killed someone. Imagine carrying that weight every single day. Imagine facing the family of the person you killed and trying to explain why you thought it was okay to get behind the wheel.
The ripple effects touch everyone. Families lose loved ones. Communities lose teachers, doctors, students, friends. Emergency responders show up to scenes they will never forget. The societal cost of drunk driving in the United States exceeds 44 billion dollars annually when you factor in medical expenses, legal costs, property damage, and lost productivity. That number does not account for the emotional trauma or the lives cut short.
So what do we do about it? The solutions are not complicated. They just require us to prioritize safety over convenience. First, plan ahead. If you know you are going to drink, decide before you start how you are getting home. Designate a sober driver. Call a rideshare. Take public transportation. Stay where you are. Apps like Uber and Lyft have made it easier than ever to get home safely. Many communities offer free or discounted rides on holidays when drinking is more common. Use them.
Second, speak up. If you see someone about to drive drunk, say something. I know it feels awkward. I know you do not want to be the person who ruins the vibe. But discomfort is temporary. Death is permanent. Take their keys. Offer them a ride. Call them a car. When I asked my friend to drive like a normal person, I was trying to avoid a crash that had nothing to do with alcohol. But the principle is the same. If something feels unsafe, you have a responsibility to speak up, even when it is hard.
Third, change the culture. We need to stop treating drunk driving like a minor mistake. It is not funny. It is not cool. It is a choice that kills. Schools should bring in speakers who have lost loved ones to drunk driving or who have survived crashes themselves. Hearing those stories makes the danger real in a way that statistics cannot. Communities should organize awareness campaigns that make it clear driving drunk is unacceptable. We should celebrate designated drivers the same way we celebrate people who volunteer. Make it the norm to plan for safe transportation, not the exception.
In Williston, I think we could do more. Our town is small enough that everyone knows everyone, which means word spreads fast. We could partner with local restaurants and bars to offer discounted rideshare codes on weekends. We could organize a pledge campaign where students commit to never driving drunk and to always intervening if they see someone about to make that choice. We could work with law enforcement to host educational sessions about the real consequences of DUIs. We could create a peer led program where students share their own stories about close calls or losses, making the issue feel immediate rather than abstract.
On a larger scale, ignition interlock devices should be required for all offenders. Some companies are developing cars with built in sensors that detect impairment and prevent the vehicle from being driven. We should invest in those technologies and make them standard.
I was lucky. My friend was lucky. The people in that armored vehicle were lucky. We walked away from a crash that could have been much worse. But luck is not a strategy. Luck runs out. The only real solution is making better choices before we get behind the wheel. Drinking and driving is not an accident. It is a decision. And every single one of us has the power to decide differently.