Dear Jasia, I hope that you've made it so far. I hope that you finally forgave your father for the heartbreak he gave you. As you may know, the mistakes he made ended up making you feel worthless. The lack of his presence made you question every good and bad thing about yourself. The most important aspects of your life, winning an award or making an incredible catch, seemed like nothing if he wasn't watching. But he never did. However, there was someone there at every game, your mom. She never missed an opportunity to make you feel like you were capable of anything. In a way, she was able to wash away the hurt your dad gave you and make you feel like she was all you needed. With every small victory, there was a celebration or a sweet treat. Never take your mother for granted. She may seem like a superwoman who can never feel pain or is unstoppable, but she is still human. She feels sadness, hurt, and anger; it is okay that she feels those things because she has had to be strong for so long. Since you were born, she has placed you on the highest pedestal of honor. She has never once doubted your abilities, even when you were your biggest hater. Most importantly, when you were on the edge of giving up, she would whisper sweet encouragements into your ear. Those sweet encouragements play in my head like melodies that I can't get away from. I hope that they're still like that for you. I hope you haven't let the negativity in your life drown out your mother's voice and her sweet encouragement. But if you have, that is okay. Promise me that you will find your way back to the happiness your mother gave you. Jasia, remember not to compare your progress or accomplishments with others. Everyone has their way of passage and commodities that got them where they are now. Not receiving the same accomplishments or people having an easier time at something does not mean you are worthless or unintelligent. However, it may feel like this sometimes. You have to stay focused and determined on your goals. Then, you will be appreciative of the hard work you've put in. You are amazing, inside and out. I hope that you grow your success into an indestructible empire. I hope that your heart is open to all people and your want for knowledge knows no bounds.