My life, my future, all altered in the course of a single day. I can still remember it, the minute I made up my mind, starting a new life and saying goodbye to them…my life with my family in Mexico. I made an important decision while I was in Texas visiting my older sister. I remember when we made the call, everything was arranged for me to live with her. All I needed was their consent. My mother was utterly devastated, she couldn’t imagine letting her baby girl go at the age of 13. My father, sitting in silence, tears filling up around his eyes, looked at me with a sense of accomplishment… or pride? It gave me chills, I’d never seen my father shed a tear in my life, it felt as if he were there in the flesh. He knew his 13 year old daughter was making a huge decision, the passion she had to follow this bright light of opportunity, leaning towards it, reaching. At that moment I wasn’t a 13 year old child, he understood I transitioned into a young adult and decided to treat me as such. He made me understand the sacrifices that would be made for my sake and the consequences that would follow, comprehending the immensity of the step I was determined to take. Immediately I agreed to all the consequences and responsibility coming my way. After a small moment I heard a gentle laugh from my father, tears running down his face, which followed with a gentle “yes”. After that “yes”, I knew it was up to me whether I made it worth something, something both my parents could be proud of. I asked my father what made him decide to let me stay, after a long pause he said “You have the same determination I had way back when I was your age, the same determination that could've gotten me somewhere if it wasn’t for my parents who were unsupportive, thought of my dreams as a joke, and didn’t have the financial help I needed. I too don’t have the financial help you now need, but my support… that’s something you will never lack”.
My father helped me discover the one trait I’m most proud of having… determination. My whole life has been driven by it, I’d say it did all of the work that’s led me to where I’m standing now. That determination allowed me to find a way to live and study in the country I was born in, the country that’s allowing me to have the education I’ve always wanted. One more year, my last year, and then it will be up to me whether I’ll have the chance, a chance to go to college… Most importantly, afford it. My life journey has been a rocky road for almost 4 years. The one rock blocking my way now is my financial distress, the same rock my father had when he was my age and is to this day struggling to get rid of. Now it seems to be tied around me, this very moment I am still determined to get this rock off me and pursue a career in Civil Engineering where I’ll have a chance to give back to the world, create a prosperous future for Earth. I’m determined to find a solution, determined to release myself of this financial weight that won't let me run… or give me the chance to fly. Spread my wings and fly into what I know is a future both my parents and I can and will be proud of.