“A nurse saved my life.” This is main reason I see most people give for wanting to go into the nursing field. Whether it is their life or the life of a close friend or family member, that interaction with a nurse impacted them so much that they wanted to do the same for others. However, that is not my story. I have no family background in the health field nor did I have any one positive life changing event that drew me to the field of nursing. I wanted to become a nurse because I had the total opposite experience when dealing with nurses and doctors. After three extremely high risk pregnancies; many orthopedic injuries from sports; being a single parent on medicaid; counseling children in relation to DFCS; and working as a first responder, I have seen first hand that patient focused nurses who care for the community they serve are in desperate need.
I have years of experience in education, mental health counseling, and emergency care. While teaching, I was able to work in both urban and rural Title I school districts. This allowed me to work with children and families from drastically different cultural backgrounds, with different access to resources, and varying socioeconomic statuses. In working with mental health, I focused my care on children, teens, and young adults who had severe trauma or behavioral health issues because there were not enough counselors that wanted to work these cases. These clients were usually involved in intensive family intervention or required counseling after being removed from their family home by DFCS for various reasons. While working in emergency care, I served communities in metro Atlanta which is a melting pot of cultures and socioeconomic backgrounds. What I found to be the most important lesson learned in all of these experiences is that everyone no matter the circumstances wants and deserves respect and to be treated with love and care.
I strongly believe in the words of Gandhi, “Be the change you wish to see in the world”. I want to be that nurse that sees the worn down clothes, the bad personal hygiene, the uncontrolled hypertension or diabetes, the multiple hospital visits, the unfilled prescriptions, the biases and the misinformation and treats the person instead. The nurse that does not just work to get the patient out of their bed, but finds ways to help prevent them from being there in the first place. The nurse that shows compassion, care, and genuine concern because the patient is concerned and deserves to be treated with human decency. The nurse that helps the patient understand what's going on with their care without belittling or alienating the patient. The nurse who truly seeks to understand the patient’s perspective and point of view without judgment so that the patients can get the best care the facility has available no matter the situation. The nurse that advocates for their patient and encourages other nurses and providers to join them in doing the same.
I am passionate about patient care, patient advocacy, and patient education in order to change how underserved communities see healthcare and what resources they have available. The change I want to see is not easy. It will not occur overnight. However, I know the change I want will slowly, but surely come to pass. This is because I will do my best to be that nurse who continuously has that one positive, powerful interaction with that one person or family that will lead another person to want to be that kind of nurse as well.