Education is one of the most powerful tools we have to reduce intimate partner violence. While laws and protective systems are vital, real and lasting change begins with awareness and understanding something only education can provide on a large scale. Intimate partner violence is often rooted in cycles of trauma, low self-worth, economic dependence, and generational silence. Education can break that cycle by teaching people especially young adults how to identify red flags, understand consent and boundaries, and recognize that love should never include control, manipulation, or fear. Through education, we also empower survivors to recognize their own strength and seek safe, supportive paths forward.
This issue resonates deeply with me because my life has been shaped by trauma, addiction, and painful lessons about what love and safety are not. I grew up surrounded by instability, and by the age of 13, I was already using methamphetamine to cope with pain I didn’t yet know how to name. My teenage years and much of my adult life were a blur of survival, toxic relationships, and struggle. For nearly three decades, I tried to find my way out of addiction, only to fall back into darkness over and over again. I lost relationships, the trust of my children, my marriage, and nearly myself.
In September 2023, after losing everything, I made a life-altering decision. I got on a Greyhound bus and entered treatment in Colorado. That bus ride was more than a change of scenery it was a decision to fight for my life, to heal from trauma, and to become the woman, mother, and community member I knew I could be. That journey brought me back to school, where I’m now studying business administration. Education has become a pillar of my recovery and my future.
But I’m not going to school just for me. My goal is to use both my education and my lived experience to create positive change for others. I want to be a mentor, advocate, and business leader who lifts up survivors especially women trying to rebuild their lives after addiction or abuse. I plan to launch a business that provides job opportunities and training for women in recovery. I also want to offer a safe, encouraging environment where they can grow, gain financial independence, and feel valued. I believe economic empowerment is one of the most effective ways to help someone leave and stay out of an abusive relationship, and I want my business to be part of that solution.
Beyond entrepreneurship, I want to be active in community outreach speaking to young people, sharing my story with honesty and hope, and helping break the stigma that keeps intimate partner violence and addiction hidden. I know what it’s like to feel voiceless, ashamed, and stuck in a cycle you think you’ll never escape. My education has helped me find my voice again, and I believe my story can help others find theirs too.
Education has transformed my life from surviving to thriving. It has given me clarity, structure, and purpose. I am no longer the woman who believed she couldn’t escape her past. I am now a woman who is building a future for myself, my children, and for others still looking for a way out. I plan to use my degree and my pain not only to better my life, but to build pathways of hope for others who deserve a second chance, just like I did.