My name is Jaliah Buckley, and I am an adoptee. At the age of two, I was removed from my biological mother due to child neglect and mental health issues and placed with my aunt, whom I have always regarded as a mother figure. Throughout my life, I have witnessed various mental and physical illnesses within my family, ranging from alcoholism to cancer, but I didn't fully grasp the severity of these issues until high school. It was during this time that I began to understand the impact of losing family members, particularly in my senior year when I lost my aunt, whom I cherished as a grandmother figure. The experience was overwhelming, and I struggled to navigate my grief. I am still in the process of healing, focusing on educating myself not only about grief but also about mental illness.
Due to my family's dynamic, I have always felt a deep empathy for the children in my life who come from unstable homes. This sense of compassion guided me towards a career in social work. I have always believed that children deserve a safe space, and after completing high school, I was clear about my aspirations. Not only do I want to support foster children, but I aim to be a reliable presence for all kids who need someone—anyone—to listen to them.
I believe society often overlooks the mental health needs of children, particularly children of color, as well as the impact of their home environments. As a community, we should be working collaboratively to support these kids in our neighborhoods, towns, and cities. Unfortunately, I have witnessed many social workers who do not put forth their best effort for these children. They often treat their roles as just another job rather than a serious commitment that deserves genuine passion and dedication.
I have many ideas about what I want to achieve and how to get there. During high school, I took business management classes, which gave me valuable knowledge on starting a business. In the future, I hope to open a bakery that will host programs several days a week for foster children and low-income kids. These programs would include paid internships, teaching them how to start their own businesses, and baking. I believe that when everything else feels out of control, you can find stability in what you create in the kitchen. But for now, I plan to attend college and major in social work, while working towards starting my bakery from scratch. I aim to raise funds for my future business and for the children I hope to help.
This scholarship will not only ease my financial burdens but also serve as a vital steppingstone toward achieving my goals and dreams.