Growing up as a Mexican-American girl in Laredo, Texas, with no family nearby, it’s always been just me, my mom, and my two younger sisters. All of our relatives live in Mexico; we’ve had no support system, just each other. My mom is a single mother who works long hours for little pay, and even though things have always been tight, she’s never stopped showing up for us. I’ve learned to be resilient, dependable, and driven, even when the odds were against me. That’s what makes me a “You Got It Girl.”
I’ve loved dance since I was seven. We didn’t have a TV, so I’d turn on the radio and dance in the shadows, watching my reflection and imagining myself on a stage. I’d wear a bathing suit and shorts, climb onto an old mattress, and pretend I was in dance class. I even taught myself how to do my left split at a young age, just from watching and trying. We didn’t have access to studios or coaches; I had imagination, determination, and heart.
I always admired the cheerleaders and dancers at school, but I knew deep down that joining a team wasn’t possible. We didn’t have a car, and my mom couldn’t afford the fees. I watched from the sidelines for years, wishing I could be part of something. When I got to high school, I applied to a Fine Arts school that offered free dance classes. I got in and finally had my chance. At first, I felt out of place. Most of the girls were advanced and already part of the Nixon Golden Spurs drill team; they had been dancing together since freshman year. I was a rookie senior, and many of the other seniors looked down on me. Some even talked behind my back, saying I was bad at dancing and wondering how I made the football dances, let alone competition, which was even harder.
The pressure was intense. I stayed up late learning dances, memorizing counts, and practicing in my room until I got it right. The co-captain was especially hard on me; she would call out my smallest mistakes in front of everyone. It hurt, but I didn’t let it stop me. I kept showing up, kept improving, and kept proving I deserved to be there. I earned a spot on the competition team and helped us win the national championship. I also performed a senior solo at my Fine Arts school; I started without technique and finished with confidence and tricks I never thought I’d learn.
And at our final football game, under the Friday night lights, with the music blasting and the crowd cheering, I was named Spur of the Week. That moment hit different. It wasn’t just an award; it was proof that all my hard work, all the late nights, all the tears and effort had paid off. I didn’t just catch up; I had improved, made myself proud.
That year taught me discipline, courage, and how to lead with heart. I didn’t just learn how to dance; I learned how to fight for myself. I faced judgment, exclusion, and doubt, but I turned those moments into growth. I became someone who shows up, even when it’s hard. “I didn’t come this far to only come this far.” That quote stayed with me all year. I didn’t just want to make the team; I wanted to prove that I belonged.
I admire my mom more than anyone. She sacrificed so much just to give me a memorable senior year. She’s never had help, never had rest, but she’s given me everything she could. “She believed in me, so I did.” I want to be the example for my sisters that she’s been for me.
This scholarship would help me transfer to a university with a dance team and a nursing program. I plan to walk on and continue dancing while studying to become a dermatology physician assistant. Gear, travel, and tuition are expensive; this support would help me keep chasing my dream. I want to help others feel confident in their own skin, just like dance helped me feel confident in mine.
Being a student-athlete means representing my story, my community, and proving that girls like me do belong. I didn’t grow up with privilege, but I grew up with purpose. And I’m ready to keep showing up, not just for myself, but for every girl who’s ever felt like she didn’t belong.