Throughout my life, I have been perceived in many different ways, and as I have gotten older, my self-perception of my best qualities have evolved. My once embarrassing sensitivity and proneness to tears have developed into empathy and compassion for. My extreme shyness and quietness have become thoughtfulness and discipline. Though there are many words to describe me in the classroom or professional setting, the quality that I find most valuable in myself is my constant willingness to help others in need and provide service. This aspect of myself has and will continue to reflect greater positivity in the world, making an impact on others, which providing me with a sense of gratification and keeping me grounded by reminding me of the existing blessings in my life. My altruism has made me become a happier and humbler individual, and knowing that I can help the world, even if just a little, is by far my most important characteristic.
From my perspective, an individual’s character is evident when you see how they interact with those around them. Even the greatest amount of external beauty pales in comparison to a caring heart. As I have gone through life, I have experienced firsthand the effects of bullying and being around negative and selfish people who refused to help others. I have gone on to value, above anything else, those who are always willing to lend a helping hand and be there when you need them, and as a result I have internalized the love for that quality within myself. Whenever I see a friend or even a stranger who seems distraught, I feel like the least I can do is be there for them and provide them with any support they may need. This has evolved into people often coming to me for advice, trusting me with their deepest secrets, and thanking me for being in their lives, and knowing that I have made a positive impact on those around me is the best possible feeling. This has gone on to reflect itself outside of my personal life and into my volunteering. For the past year, I have been working with an organization called Kristi House that provides resources and therapy to children who have been sexually abused, also attempting to eradicate child abuse and trafficking. I have donated items, attended seminars, been a social media ambassador, and just recently I started a cookie business where 100% of the profits go to this organization. Every time I contribute and get thanked for helping, my heart feels full, and as someone who is very passionate about sexual assault, I feel that letting others know that they will survive is one of most rewarding feelings.
While being altruistic might not help me make the most money or become the most powerful person in the future, I know that I will be impacting the lives of many people no matter how I choose to express it, and that will provide me with a sense of accomplishment and fulfillment that cannot be bought. I will continue evolving to become a better person, and I will live knowing that I touched so many lives, which I feel is my purpose. In reality, I would simply be doing everything that I’m meant to do. My life and the lives of those around me will be positively impacted, and I hope to be sparking joy and hoped in those around me. My willingness to lend a helping hand and put others before myself is not only the most valuable trait within me, but others who too will make a difference.