It's hard for me to believe that I am not in Ukraine right now, living in the shelter, suffering each day because of this horrible war. Yes, without God's mercy, I would still live somewhere near Kharkiv right now, and I would not have any dreams about education.
My life completely changed when I was 15 years old. My family received refugees status in the United States. At that time, living in Ukraine wasn't easy, sometimes we heard that there will be Russian attacks soon, but overall our life was pretty sustainable. As a teenager, I loved being with friends and thinking about life in bright colors. But everything changes; the first time in my life, I left my friends, grandparents, and other important people in my life. Here we are in the new country, confused and excited at the same time. Now it’s our new home. At first, everything was so interesting, so I didn't have time to think about the past. But autumn came and we went to school. I felt so awkward sitting in the classroom and trying to understand what the teacher was talking about. Many times I wanted to give up and move back but my family encouraged me to continue a new life. I tried to be strong and overcome the language barrier, but didn’t see the goals of education. At night, when no one saw me, I cried a lot, missing my friends and grandparents. But one evening, I suddenly opened the article about higher education in the US and saw how many opportunities are available for me as a student who will graduate from US high school. It opened my eyes and helped me realize what I can do. My dream to become a successful person is much closer to me. I started to get involved in school life, joined clubs, made new friends. I set up goals, passed the ELPA test, and started to get ready for college life. Being the first person in my family who will go to college made me more responsible. Meanwhile, I realized that living in this country gives me a lot of opportunities to help others. I began to see how many problems we have in our modern world, so I decided to challenge myself to help solve at least one. I saw that many children spent their lives in front of electronic devices without receiving any knowledge. I count it as an important problem in modern times, so I created my first book ¨7 DIY lessons to create unique hair accessories¨ that will guide girls on how to make hair accessories. I want other girls to learn this beneficial handiwork instead of playing games on their phones.
Life is going on but challenges are not over. A new and big challenge came into my life just a couple of days ago. War in Ukraine became a hard reality. While I need to continue to fulfill my dreams, my close relatives, friends, and formed classmates suffer. Each morning I woke up with a question "Are they still alive?". I cannot live a normal life when people who I love, sit in the shelters and cry out their pain. But at the same time, receiving an education became more important to me. I know that a good career will give me more opportunities to help others. I want to help people in countries like Ukraine; since I move to the United States my goal is to help children who lost their parents.
“Obstacles in the pathway of the weak become stepping stones in the pathway of the strong”. This quote motivated me through life. Every challenge is hard at the beginning but when you overcome them, you become much stronger. I believe that one day, I will share my experience as a motivational speaker on a big stage.
1. College education is a door to more opportunities to help others. My biggest inspiration is my dad, who always wanted to be financially independent and do what he is passionate about but lack of financial knowledge stops him from achieving his dreams. I look forward to a future where I can use my finance knowledge skills to help business owners and individuals like my dad achieve their career goals. I plan to pursue a finance degree for the next four years and afterward, work a few years in a successful and well-known company. After I have enough on-the-job training to feel confident in my abilities, I will open my own financial consulting company, which will help small businesses and individuals. I have a clear picture of where I will be in the next 10 years, and I know this degree is going to help me get there.
Pursuing a finance degree will shape me as an individual who always can help others to solve or overcome their problems. Having enough knowledge in the business and finance industry will help not only in professional life but in personal life too.
2-3. Funny to say but my everyday activities fulfill my curiosity inside and outside of school. I love receiving education, love my school, and teachers; learning something new made me feel that my life isn't wasted. Although I love learning outside of school, I still have a lot of hobbies because I am a creative person.
Since I was nine, I have been making hair accessories from ribbons and found this handiwork beneficial for my health. So, I decided to share it with others and wrote my first book "7 DIY Lessons to create unique hair accessories". Creating my own business was my passion since we move to the United States, so I try every opportunity to achieve my dreams. Also, I spend a lot of time helping my parents with everyday chores as well as practicing violin, piano, guitar skills. This isn't the end of the list. Many of my hobbies are just the way to help others. Creating party decorations, helping teachers in the bible school, babysitting my younger cousins are my hobbies and learning opportunities.
Giving others what I have is my rule. Helping others is my joy. Seeing other people smile is a motivation and encouragement for my life. I am so grateful that my parents taught me how not to waste the opportunities and resources I have right now. I want to become a successful person and help my parents live better life.