It is said that children are like sponges. They soak up every drop of water that is thrown at them no matter how small. As a child, I always watched my surroundings as carefully as I could. I learned everything on my own, including how to tie my own shoe when I was only 2 years old. As independent as I tried to be growing up, like every child I had someone that I looked up to, someone that I wanted to be. A role model is exactly that, someone that you look up to, someone you strive to be, and someone that you admire. There is only one person in my life that has always been there and I have noticed that I watched the most throughout the years, my mother. Some could even say that I learned my independence and headstrong nature from my mother.
I, for one, have always been a supporter of women, because of how independent my mother has taught me to be. One thing that I believe is that my mother is an inspiration not only to me but to all women. What my mother has taught me is that no woman should have to be a slave to her home and marry a man to be successful in the world. You are the only person that can scoop yourself up from the misery and hardships that life has presented to you. My mother came from a household where she always had to fend for herself. Her parents were drug abusers, which made her have to grow up quicker than most kids her age. She not only juggled taking care of herself at the age of 6 years old but an older brother with mental health issues. She learned to cook and work a grill, clean, do laundry, mow the lawn, and fix most things around the house, all at a young age. In her teenage years, she even learned how to build houses, work on cars, and tile roofs without any help. Therefore, she not only taught herself how to survive but to do things that even some men cannot do. With everything that my mother has juggled throughout her life, including becoming a single mom at the age of 19 years old, she never let anyone know that she was struggling. As a child, I have always seen my mother as the most powerful person in the world. Growing up, I watched as my mother got up every morning at 4:00 AM to work hard jobs on the pipeline and in the plants just as a man would, only put food on the table for me. She always looked so tired as she got ready for work but she always made the time to make sure that she looked presentable and ready for the day. Some days I wondered if my mother had ever done anything for herself. With this, I was inspired by her selflessness and strength even though everyone told her she couldn't. In this realization, I knew that I had to grow up fast, just as my mother did. I had to learn and discover things for myself so that I can prove that I am more than what I am told. Through her, I learned the way that the world worked. Most children believed that the world was all sunshine and rainbows but at a young age, I knew otherwise. For example, I knew the way that money worked and how hard it was to make enough money to shelter and feed yourself and a young child. I often helped my mother find ways to save money, such as, checking price tags and pointing out coupons in the store. Life is filled with things that are thrown at you from left to right and you must always be ready for the unexpected. Although I do not have many talents to work off of, I knew that I could take what little I had and make something of it. One of the main goals that I have had since I was in elementary school is to become an art teacher. Even though it is not a job where you can make a lot of money, it is a job where you can make a difference in young minds. Through my experiences growing up, there have been a lot of teachers that discouraged students of low-class families. I want to be the one thing in students' lives where they can go to feel safe, just as my mother did for me. I believe that students need to know that no matter what they struggle with they can reach their goals and make it out of the hole that life has dug for them.
To sum up, everything that has been said thus far, my mothers' story is inspiring to me because it is like the story of Cinderella. She is a woman that rose up from the soot and ashes that was her childhood and made it up to the top. The lesson she taught me is that young women should stand up for themselves and what they believe in before it is too late to change the circumstances that their parents have put them in. The best thing you can do for yourself is to discover your talents and use them to the best of your abilities so that you can reach your full potential. You are the only one that can pick yourself up and help reach your goals.