One of the most critical issues facing our criminal justice system today is its systematic failure to protect children from abuse within family court. Courts continuously dismiss children's testimonies, ignore evidence of abuse, and force harmful practices like "reunification therapy" that force children back to their abusers. This is a crisis and it stems from outdated assumptions and methods like the stereotype that “keeping families together is always best”, regardless of the danger children face with abusive parents.
Hiding and trembling at fourteen, I experienced this failure firsthand. Crouched behind curtains with my twin sister, we knew that strangers could arrive at any moment to drag us back to our mother, the person meant to protect us, who had instead paid for our kidnapping. Months earlier, I had escaped to my father's house for safety, but my mother wanted us back through force, not love. She had kidnapped us before, driving for hours while screaming, degrading, and starving us. My mother had stolen everything from me: my body, my safety, and my trust when she assaulted and raped me, insisting that this was normal for a mother to do, that all mothers did this.
I filed police reports, attempted to get emancipated 4 times, was interviewed by DCFS, and went through experimental reunification therapy, all because I didn't want to be with someone who would hurt me. The legal system abandoned me, I had to turn to social media as my only weapon. I shared my story, the abuse, trauma, and twisted court orders that prioritized an abuser's rights over a child's safety. People listened. Strangers offered support. My posts spread, and suddenly I was no longer invisible. Social media became my shield; it couldn't stop my mother, but it slowed her down as her carefully constructed mask of a loving mother finally crumbled.
Advocacy became my entry into criminal justice. Through my platform, I connected with other kids trapped in the same broken system where family courts labeled abusers as "fit" parents. Sharing our stories, we turned pain into action and became advocates. We spoke to lawmakers until our voices shook, building a movement to fight against "reunification therapy"—a legal order that allows judges to legally kidnap children, and force them back to abusers .
I've testified, founded the FCYSC “Family Court Youth Survivors Coalition" to bring together survivors of reunification and help draft laws to prevent this from happening in the future. I have also helped to pass Kayden and Piques Law in Pennsylvania, and California to protect kids against alienation, and reunification therapy in child custody cases. My case is currently in the supreme court awaiting review, and I helped get it there. Through my efforts, I've educated lawmakers about the dangers of these programs and advocated for changes that prioritize children's safety over family preservation.
Despite our progress, I still lived in fear, clinging to hope that courts would protect me, but they didn't. Even as I fought to protect other children, no one would protect me. I am haunted not just by what happened but by the never-ending court battle: the constant fighting, interviews, police reports, hearings. The performance—acting like I am okay while I'm just fighting to survive, hurts more than anything.
Advocacy has taught me to navigate complex systems, communicate under pressure, and rally public support, all skills that are essential for a career in law. I've learned how to inspire action, connect authentically, and lead with conviction through adversity. Most importantly, I've discovered that survivors' voices carry power because we understand that what’s really at stake are lives, our lives.
In my future legal career, I plan to work on three fronts: reforming family court procedures to prioritize children's safety through mandatory training for judges; banning reunification therapy and reunification camps; and establishing specialized laws prohibiting the exploitation of children in custody cases.
I am still not free from my mother, but I will be. When I turn eighteen, I will finally be beyond her legal reach. I have lost years of safety, innocence, and childhood, but I never lost my voice. My story is more than just trauma; it is the foundation of the bold, compassionate person I am becoming. Every case I take and every law I change will ensure no child endures what I experienced. I won't allow the courts to look away.