Resilience is one of the many qualities that make me strive to work hard. Having challenges in life is a struggle for everybody. Some people will have an obstacle to face in their life and never get over it, they will stay stuck in the same place. Resilience is a huge factor that has helped me bounce back from an obstacle. It helps me to bend back into shape after every hit I have taken, and get me ready for another one. The challenges I have had in life have made me realize who I truly am, and the ability I have to overcome them. The two great challenges I have faced so far were a sport-ending injury and becoming a father. I got injured in my freshman year of football. At this point in my life sports were everything to me. After the injury, I was advised not to wrestle that year. At the end of the season, my knee was blown out again. I went to have my second surgery on it, and when I came out of the recovery room the doctor informed me that I would no longer be playing sports. I was heartbroken hearing that news, but I realize now how it opened other doors for me. I set a new goal to improve my education. I started to take college classes as a sophomore and strived to get the best grades that I could obtain. I have done so, taking more and more college classes as I went along. I have now almost completed my generals, and want to finish my degree in college.
I became a father on August 15, 2021. Knowing that I was going to be a dad was a huge part of my life. Still being in high school, I didn’t expect that it would ever happen. It came with struggles of its own, like telling your parents for the first time. Nothing had prepared me for the day she actually arrived though. It was a life-changing experience, and I now know that I have to be somebody for her instead of myself. Challenges keep arising from having her, but no matter how hard they may be, I will come out on top because of what I have learned and the never-quit attitude that I have acquired.
The traits that I have acquired are ones that will get me through whatever needs to be done. I will do anything in my power to not fail the challenges I am presented with. I have overcome some of the hardest things people are faced with in life, and I stick to them. I do not give up.
There are many motivational factors that I have had in my life. One was my knee injury, another was becoming a father. Becoming a dad motivated me to become a better person and pushes me to find a good career so I can take care of my daughter. However, the greatest motivation I have had in my life is my parents.
My father has been a motivational factor in my life since I was a little boy. I would watch everything he did, always wanting to be just like him. He was there for me in everything, sports, schooling, anything you can name. He taught me the importance of working hard. I always would hear him say that whatever you put into something is what you are going to get out of it. He has taught me how to accomplish countless projects, and how to do the stuff that nobody else wants to do. Some of his famous sayings to me are, “Knuckle down and get it done” and “If you are going to sweep the floor, then be the best floor sweeper there is.” These sayings made me realize the importance of any job. It also motivated me to do the best I can at any task that I perform.
My mother is possibly the greatest motivation I will ever receive. She will do countless things for anybody and will never ask for anything in return. She is the most selfless person I know and will always put herself last. She makes sure that I have stuff done on time, and is always getting me to do more than is needed. I used to resent her for this, but as I get older I realize that she is only doing it to better me. She pushes me to accomplish everything I start, even if finishing doesn’t make sense. She taught me that you should never quit something that you started or something that you said you were going to do. In this last year, she has been the person I have looked up to the most. She is with me every step of the way until I complete something. This is how I know that I will complete the future that is ahead of me.