Sunday, June 2009, down in East Tennessee. A family of five has been struggling but has always found a way to keep going. Unbeknownst to the three children, the parents have been accepting help from their regularly attended church as sometimes they wouldn't be able to have lunches or dinner. However, the parents couldn't just accept this help for free as their fear of owing would not allow it. To repay the church for their kindness, the whole family went in nearly every weekend to help in the food pantry.
Hi, my name is Felecia Morey. I am 20 years old and the middle child of two brothers. My mother and father have worked very hard to get to where they are today, but they will not credit just themselves. They always remember the little church we went to when they weren't working and the people who took us in as if we were their blood. Reflecting on my time in Tennessee, I can always find a memory of me and my family doing something to help our community. Packing meals for the Meals on Wheels program didn't register; this is considered a true act of kindness and selflessness to me. In all honesty, I truly believed this is what many did because who wouldn't want to help their neighbors? Not only did I volunteer at my church, but when I got a little older, I asked my dad if he could take me to our animal shelter. I love cats and dogs, and since our land was a prime animal drop zone, we curated pets weekly. Since money was tight, we surrendered nearly every single one. Surrendering some pets we had for months tore me apart, which led me to go to the shelter and continue the love and support for the animals I had raised and many more.
See, I never thought all the volunteering I had done would look good for me in the future. When I took a semester off in college, it didn't dawn on me that using my time to visit with residents at a senior living facility would continue to look good for schools or jobs. I just had time, and my mother asked if I would like to come in and help with activities. I love being creative, and I am very comfortable around the elderly and disabled elderly due to having family members in this state. So I thought, why not.
A large amount of my volunteering experience never was out for seeking credit. My parents raised me to be there for the people I cared for. This lesson has never left me.
As one of the three college students in my family, I am responsible for finding as much aid as possible. My mother has an autoimmune disease that caused a liver transplant in 2007. My parents consistently have medical bills as she takes many essential medications, doctor appointments, and biopsies. Doctors recently said she would need another liver transplant in a few years, leaving her to pray she makes it to all three of her children's college graduations. My brothers and I are working very hard to alleviate as much stress as possible. Not only does my mom have medical bills my dad has depression and anxiety, requiring him to take medication that can be costly. I also have major depressive disorder, general anxiety disorder, and obsessive-compulsive disorder. With my condition, I also require medication and therapy. My family does their best with the cards they are dealt, and I am working to do the same.