"Tautua nei mo sou manuia a taeao," the profound Samoan proverb, encapsulates the essence of selflessness and foresight, embodying the wisdom of the Polynesian culture. My Mama, a resilient and strong Polynesian woman, deeply ingrained this principle in me through her actions and teachings. Her name Epeleafiaelepeaiga, meaning "Fire will diminish, but families are forever." Her love for me was boundless, evident in the way she raised me with a perfect blend of discipline, compassion, and unwavering support.
Growing up, she tirelessly emphasized the importance of serving others and contributing positively to the community. Through her own acts of kindness and generosity, she showed me the impact that one person's actions could have on the lives of others. She instilled in me a sense of responsibility towards not only my family but also the larger community.
I feel so thankful for the chances life has given me, and I don't regret the decisions I've made, thanks to the opportunities I've had. My Mama or Grandma taught me that life is full of lessons, each one a chance to grow. When my family doubted me for going back to school in my forties, Mama, in her Samoan way, said, "Your students need you; to help them, you must be their teacher." When I got into the program, I shared the news with her over video call. Despite her stroke, her eyes spoke volumes, filled with pride and love. I promised her I'd finish school in two years and bring her to my graduation. Sadly, Mama passed away a few weeks later, and due to Covid restrictions, we had to say our goodbyes online. Losing her left a hole in my heart, and there were moments I wanted to quit school due to financial struggles. But I know I have a purpose; I've come this far, and I'll keep going for Mama, who believed in me when others didn't. I love you Mama!
The loss of my Mama or Grandma, the most important person in my world, has left an indelible void in my life. Their wisdom, love, and unwavering support were my guiding lights, shaping the person I am today. In their absence, I am compelled to carry on their legacy by pursuing my education with unwavering determination. Every lecture, every assignment, and every exam now carry a deeper purpose – to honor their memory through my academic achievements. I am driven by the knowledge that education was something they profoundly valued, and in completing my schooling and obtaining my degree, I am fulfilling their unspoken dreams. It is my way of expressing gratitude for the countless sacrifices they made to provide me with opportunities and to ensure that their belief in my potential was never in vain. With every step I take toward my educational goals, I am not only fulfilling my own dreams but also paying homage to the remarkable women who shaped my existence. Their spirit lives on in my pursuit of knowledge, motivating me to overcome challenges and persevere, just as they did throughout their lives.