Oprah Winfrey, one of the greatest black philanthropists and most unique humans of our time said this, “I don't think you ever stop giving. I don't. I think it's an ongoing process. And it's not just about being able to write a check. It's being able to touch somebody's life.”, I would agree with this statement and it's something I try to model my life after.
I am a first-generation, low-income, student-athlete from Tucson, Arizona, getting into arguably the most prestigious academic institution in the world and becoming a Captain of their basketball team is something that I believe sets me apart and makes me different. On top of this, being a role model to the next generation and founding a nonprofit organization that invests and pours into underserved youth from my hometown also makes me one of a kind. All of these accomplishments are great but I say this with humility, and none of this would be possible without God, my parents, and my mentors. For as long as I could remember, I was a leader and people looked up to me. I think some of this had to do with the natural talent and ability possessed, but a lot of it had to do with the amount of work I was putting in when nobody else was watching. This in turn allowed me to shine when the spotlight was on me. While everyone else was off having fun, partying, and doing whatever kids do, I was reading or training, perfecting my craft because that is what I loved to do.
I'm different because I embrace my uniqueness and don't try to be anybody other than myself. More often around me, I see people, friends, and colleagues trying to display themselves as someone they are not, and it's painful to see. I’ve made it a point to surround myself with authentic people who are only themselves, and the result of that has been finding an eclectic group of friends with entirely different interests from all different parts of the world. By being myself and by being such an anomaly I know I’ve made a difference in people's lives whom I don't even know. Everything I do is to ultimately be an example for my four younger sisters, who I encourage to aim for the moon and set lofty goals because they can be accomplished with hard work.
For those individuals who I have no idea they are watching me, I leverage my uniqueness to affect their lives in the same way I have been for the past 21 years. I will continue to do well and do good from the heart, push myself to grow each year, stay on the correct path, and keep breaking barriers that are supposed to be in place. If I allowed myself to stay boxed into my environment or become too caught up in what's going on around me I would never see myself in the position I am in now, and I know this is only the beginning. By embracing my uniqueness and continuing to be myself, I know that by God’s will I’ll continue to surprise myself, and everyone else, and when it's all said and done, I hope to give back to those who poured into me as well as pay the good deeds forward. Mrs. Gladys Ruth’s message should inspire us all to make the most out of this life we’re given and to utilize our unique abilities to bring the best out of others.