There are moments in life when you realize that what you have been given—your opportunities, your support system, and even your struggles—are not meant to be taken lightly. Wrestling has been that realization for me since I was nine years old. It has never just been a sport; it has been the foundation for who I am. Through wrestling, I have learned discipline, resilience, and the ability to keep pushing forward even when things feel impossible. Those lessons have shaped not only how I compete, but how I live. Attending Bergen Catholic High School introduced me to a brotherhood that extended far beyond the mat. I was surrounded by teammates and friends from different backgrounds, each with their own challenges and stories. That environment taught me accountability, respect, and the importance of showing up for others. It showed me that success is never achieved alone, it is built through trust, sacrifice, and support. Now, as a student at Wilkes University, I have found another brotherhood within my wrestling team. Being part of this program has only strengthened my ambition to grow; not just as an athlete, but as a person. Wrestling continues to demand the best from me every day, and in return, it has given me a mindset that refuses to settle. I carry that same drive into the classroom and into my future goals, knowing that the habits I build now will define the life I create. My journey, however, has not been without challenges. My family has never had the financial means to make things easy. They have sacrificed more than I can fully express to give my brother and me the opportunity to pursue our education and athletic careers. Watching their perseverance has fueled my own. It has made me determined to do everything in my power to lessen that burden, which is why I actively seek scholarships and opportunities to support my education. I do not take any opportunity for granted because I understand what it costs to create one. Beyond my own goals, I am deeply committed to making an impact on others. As a life coach for at-risk and struggling students through the Teen Revival Project, I work to guide young people toward better decisions and stronger futures. I believe that the same values wrestling has given me, discipline, accountability, and resilience can change the trajectory of someone else’s life. Being in a position to mentor and support others has strengthened my sense of purpose and reinforced my responsibility to lead by example. The legacy behind this scholarship is one that represents more than achievement, it represents character, impact, and the lasting influence one individual can have on others. That is the kind of life I strive to live. My ambition is not only to succeed for myself, but to create opportunities, inspire growth, and give back in meaningful ways. Wrestling has taught me how to fight through adversity, but more importantly, it has taught me why that fight matters. I am driven by the understanding that nothing is guaranteed, and every opportunity is earned. With that mindset, I will continue to push forward, make an impact, and carry the values that have shaped me into everything I pursue.

When my Nana was diagnosed with a glioblastoma, everything in my world stopped. I remember sitting in the living room when my parents told us (I was young), and the air just went still. Our family is incredibly close, and she wasn’t just a grandmother, she was the glue that held all of us together. She was the person everyone went to for advice, comfort, or just a laugh on a bad day. Hearing that she had brain cancer, and such an aggressive form of it, was like hearing that the heart of our family was slowly breaking. Watching her go through that fight was one of the hardest things I’ve ever experienced. She went through three brain surgeries, chemo treatments, and constant pain, but what still amazes me is that she never once complained. Even when she was sick, she was always more worried about everyone else. At her funeral, I’ll never forget standing there and seeing this long line of people waiting to share how she had touched their lives. One after another, people told stories about how she prayed for them, brought meals when they were struggling, or even visited them in the hospital; all while she was battling her own illness. That moment completely changed me. I realized how much of an impact one person can make just by being kind and selfless. She was the definition of strength, faith, and compassion. Losing her was devastating, but it also gave me a purpose. Since then, I’ve made it my goal to try to live like she did; putting others first, staying strong even when things get hard, and trying to make people feel seen and supported. I carry that mindset into everything I do. As a wrestler, I’ve learned discipline and resilience, but I’ve also learned how to be there for my teammates; picking each other up after a tough loss or pushing one another to get better every day. Coaching younger wrestlers has allowed me to pass those lessons down, and I always think of my grandmother’s patience and kindness when I work with them. Outside of wrestling, I’ve tried to bring people together through leadership. As president of both the Fishing Club and the Crazies Club, I’ve focused on creating spaces where everyone feels included and connected. I think that’s one of the best ways to honor my grandmother’s memory; by uniting people, making them feel like they belong, and spreading positivity no matter the situation. Through all of this, I’ve realized that helping people doesn’t always have to mean curing a disease. Sometimes it’s just about being there, showing up, and giving people hope. That’s what my grandmother did, and it’s what I want to continue doing throughout my life. In college, I plan to major in business because I want to learn how to build something meaningful; maybe an organization, foundation, or community project that supports families dealing with brain cancer. I want to combine what I learn in business with the leadership and empathy I’ve developed through sports and mentoring. This scholarship would not only help me pursue that education, but it would also carry forward my grandmother’s legacy. Her strength taught me that life isn’t just about what you accomplish; it’s about how you make people feel along the way. I want to be the kind of person who leaves that same mark. The kind who helps people heal, stay hopeful, and remember that even in the hardest moments, love and compassion still win.

Choosing to major in Business was not just a decision I made in a classroom—it was one shaped by the world I saw around me growing up. My mother is a school teacher and my father is a supervisor at an automotive insurance company. Both of them are hardworking, generous people who give more than they have at times—whether that’s for their family, their students, or their community. I’ve watched them juggle bills, make sacrifices, and work long hours, often for organizations that benefit more from their efforts than they do. That reality lit a fire in me: I don’t want to live a life where work consumes me, where making money means giving up the freedom to enjoy it. I chose business because I want to rewrite that script—not just for myself, but for others like my parents. Studying Business is about more than just numbers or profits; it’s about understanding the systems that shape our everyday lives. I’m pursuing a degree in Corporate Finance at Wilkes University because I want to learn how money works, how companies grow, and most importantly, how I can build something of my own. I want to become an entrepreneur. I’ve always been drawn to the idea of creating—not just products or services, but opportunities, communities, and a new way of living where success doesn’t come at the cost of well-being. For me, entrepreneurship is a path to freedom. It’s about owning the results of my labor, making choices that align with my values, and using business not just to profit, but to serve. I’ve worked in jobs where I felt like a cog in a machine, doing the work while someone else reaped the benefits. Those experiences taught me what I don’t want. Now I’m focused on building a life that gives back, where my work creates value I can see and share. But I also know that I can’t just jump into entrepreneurship without preparation. That’s why I’m taking my education seriously. I’m learning how to manage money, evaluate risk, lead teams, and create strategies that last. Every class, every project, and even every mistake is part of the process. I’ve also been tutoring with my mother's business, The Teen Revival Project, where I use my “reach before you teach” approach to connect with students before diving into academics. It’s a reminder that relationships are the foundation of any good business—and life. That experience has helped me develop communication and leadership skills that I know will be vital when I run my own company one day. Ultimately, I want to use what I learn to help people like my parents—people who work hard but are often overlooked in the systems they support. Whether it’s through financial literacy programs, affordable services, or job creation, I want to build a business that lifts others up while giving me the freedom to live fully. That’s the future I’m working toward. This scholarship would help me stay focused on that goal. It would ease the financial pressure of college and allow me to invest more time and energy into becoming the kind of leader and entrepreneur who makes a real difference. I’m not just studying business to make money. I’m studying it to understand it, master it, and use it to create a better life—not just for myself, but for everyone I can reach.

Choosing to major in Business was not just a decision I made in a classroom—it was one shaped by the world I saw around me growing up. My mother is a school teacher and my father is a supervisor at an automotive insurance company. Both of them are hardworking, generous people who give more than they have at times—whether that’s for their family, their students, or their community. I’ve watched them juggle bills, make sacrifices, and work long hours, often for organizations that benefit more from their efforts than they do. That reality lit a fire in me: I don’t want to live a life where work consumes me, where making money means giving up the freedom to enjoy it. I chose business because I want to rewrite that script—not just for myself, but for others like my parents. Studying Business is about more than just numbers or profits; it’s about understanding the systems that shape our everyday lives. I’m pursuing a degree in Corporate Finance at Wilkes University because I want to learn how money works, how companies grow, and most importantly, how I can build something of my own. I want to become an entrepreneur. I’ve always been drawn to the idea of creating—not just products or services, but opportunities, communities, and a new way of living where success doesn’t come at the cost of well-being. For me, entrepreneurship is a path to freedom. It’s about owning the results of my labor, making choices that align with my values, and using business not just to profit, but to serve. I’ve worked in jobs where I felt like a part in a machine, doing the work while someone else reaped the benefits. I struggled with not having things I really wanted against a sea of affluent peers, who never let you forget. Although it felt humiliating at times, I remained humble. Those experiences taught me what I don’t want. Now I’m focused on building a life that gives back, where my work creates value I can see and share. But I also know that I can’t just jump into entrepreneurship without preparation. That’s why I’m taking my education seriously. I’m learning how to manage money, evaluate risk, lead teams, and create strategies that last. Every class, every project, and even every mistake is part of the process. I’ve also been tutoring with my mother's business, The Teen Revival Project, where I use my “reach before you teach” approach to connect with students before diving into academics. It’s a reminder that relationships are the foundation of any good business—and life. That experience has helped me develop communication and leadership skills that I know will be vital when I run my own company one day. Ultimately, I want to use what I learn to help people like my parents—people who work hard but are often overlooked in the systems they support. Whether it’s through financial literacy programs, affordable services, or job creation, I want to build a business that lifts others up while giving me the freedom to live fully. That’s the future I’m working toward. This scholarship would help me stay focused on that goal. It would ease the financial pressure of college and allow me to invest more time and energy into becoming the kind of leader and entrepreneur who makes a real difference. I’m not just studying business to make money. I’m studying it to understand it, master it, and use it to create a better life—not just for myself, but for everyone I can reach.

Choosing to major in Business was not just a decision I made in a classroom—it was one shaped by the world I saw around me growing up. My mother is a school teacher and my father is a supervisor at an automotive insurance company. Both of them are hardworking, generous people who give more than they have at times—whether that’s for their family, their students, or their community. I’ve watched them juggle bills, make sacrifices, and work long hours, often for organizations that benefit more from their efforts than they do. That reality lit a fire in me: I don’t want to live a life where work consumes me, where making money means giving up the freedom to enjoy it. I chose business because I want to rewrite that script—not just for myself, but for others like my parents. Studying Business is about more than just numbers or profits; it’s about understanding the systems that shape our everyday lives. I’m pursuing a degree in Corporate Finance at Wilkes University because I want to learn how money works, how companies grow, and most importantly, how I can build something of my own. I want to become an entrepreneur. I’ve always been drawn to the idea of creating—not just products or services, but opportunities, communities, and a new way of living where success doesn’t come at the cost of well-being. For me, entrepreneurship is a path to freedom. It’s about owning the results of my labor, making choices that align with my values, and using business not just to profit, but to serve. I’ve worked in jobs where I felt like a cog in a machine, doing the work while someone else reaped the benefits. Those experiences taught me what I don’t want. Now I’m focused on building a life that gives back, where my work creates value I can see and share. But I also know that I can’t just jump into entrepreneurship without preparation. That’s why I’m taking my education seriously. I’m learning how to manage money, evaluate risk, lead teams, and create strategies that last. Every class, every project, and even every mistake is part of the process. I’ve also been tutoring with my mother's business, The Teen Revival Project, where I use my “reach before you teach” approach to connect with students before diving into academics. It’s a reminder that relationships are the foundation of any good business—and life. That experience has helped me develop communication and leadership skills that I know will be vital when I run my own company one day. Ultimately, I want to use what I learn to help people like my parents—people who work hard but are often overlooked in the systems they support. Whether it’s through financial literacy programs, affordable services, or job creation, I want to build a business that lifts others up while giving me the freedom to live fully. That’s the future I’m working toward. This scholarship would help me stay focused on that goal. It would ease the financial pressure of college and allow me to invest more time and energy into becoming the kind of leader and entrepreneur who makes a real difference. I’m not just studying business to make money. I’m studying it to understand it, master it, and use it to create a better life—not just for myself, but for everyone I can reach.

Caregiving has played a central role in my life, shaping my values, my goals, and my perspective on the world. I have had the privilege and responsibility of caring for my grandfather, a man who was once a proud and respected head wrestling coach at a prominent high school. Under his leadership, his team achieved tremendous victories, and he was a figure of strength, both physically and emotionally. However, since the passing of my Nana to Brain Cancer, he has been left alone, grappling with the weight of his grief and his declining health. At present, my grandfather is dealing with Diabetes and the physical exhaustion that comes with age, making it increasingly difficult for him to manage his daily life. As his primary caregiver, I help him in numerous ways. I assist with managing his medications, ensuring he sticks to a healthy diet, and helping him maintain his physical and emotional well-being. Beyond these tasks, my role extends to supporting him financially, as his medical bills and other living expenses continue to add up. Despite his incredible legacy, my grandfather now struggles financially, and it is up to me to help navigate these challenges. As he’s physically and mentally fatigued, I try to be a source of strength for him, offering not just practical assistance but also companionship. At times, I even help him stay mentally active by engaging in conversations that bring back fond memories of his wrestling days. This caregiving experience has had a profound impact on me, both personally and professionally. Through caring for my grandfather, I have learned the true meaning of resilience, patience, and empathy. Balancing my caregiving responsibilities with my own academic and personal goals has tested my time-management skills and my ability to prioritize. I have learned to be organized, responsible, and proactive, qualities that have translated into my academic life. Caring for my grandfather has also strengthened my passion for helping others and has sparked my desire to pursue a career where I can make a difference. The act of giving back to someone who has sacrificed so much for others has inspired me to do the same in my own life. Moreover, this experience has deepened my understanding of what it means to face challenges head-on. Watching my grandfather struggle with the physical and emotional toll of his illnesses has taught me the importance of perseverance, not just for him but for myself as well. I’ve come to realize that the way we face adversity shapes our character, and the lessons I’ve learned through caregiving will continue to influence the choices I make in the future. Receiving this scholarship would be an invaluable opportunity for me, both personally and academically. It would allow me to focus more fully on my studies and future career goals without the added stress of financial uncertainty. As a caregiver, the burden of financial responsibility often falls on me, and a scholarship would alleviate some of this pressure, allowing me to better balance my responsibilities. With this support, I could invest more in my education, which would, in turn, enable me to pursue a career that will allow me to continue helping others—whether through caregiving or other forms of service. Caregiving has shaped me into a more compassionate, resilient, and goal-oriented individual. It has reinforced my commitment to making a positive impact in the lives of others. With the help of this scholarship, I would be able to continue my education and pursue my dreams of helping others, while ensuring that I can also provide the care and support my grandfather deserves.

Caregiving has played a central role in my life, shaping my values, my goals, and my perspective on the world. I have had the privilege and responsibility of caring for my grandfather, a man who was once a proud and respected head wrestling coach at a prominent high school. Under his leadership, his team achieved tremendous victories, and he was a figure of strength, both physically and emotionally. However, since the passing of his wife to brain cancer, he has been left alone, grappling with the weight of his grief and his declining health. At present, my grandfather is dealing with diabetes and the physical exhaustion that comes with age, making it increasingly difficult for him to manage his daily life. As his primary caregiver, I help him in numerous ways. I assist with managing his medications, ensuring he sticks to a healthy diet, and helping him maintain his physical and emotional well-being. Beyond these tasks, my role extends to supporting him financially, as his medical bills and other living expenses continue to add up. Despite his incredible legacy, my grandfather now struggles financially, and it is up to me to help navigate these challenges. As he’s physically and mentally fatigued, I try to be a source of strength for him, offering not just practical assistance but also companionship. At times, I even help him stay mentally active by engaging in conversations that bring back fond memories of his wrestling days, providing him with moments of joy amid the hardships. This caregiving experience has had a profound impact on me, both personally and professionally. Through caring for my grandfather, I have learned the true meaning of resilience, patience, and empathy. Balancing my caregiving responsibilities with my own academic and personal goals has tested my time-management skills and my ability to prioritize. I have learned to be organized, responsible, and proactive, qualities that have translated into my academic life. Caring for my grandfather has also strengthened my passion for helping others and has sparked my desire to pursue a career where I can make a difference. The act of giving back to someone who has sacrificed so much for others has inspired me to do the same in my own life. Moreover, this experience has deepened my understanding of what it means to face challenges head-on. Watching my grandfather struggle with the physical and emotional toll of his illnesses has taught me the importance of perseverance, not just for him but for myself as well. I’ve come to realize that the way we face adversity shapes our character, and the lessons I’ve learned through caregiving will continue to influence the choices I make in the future. Receiving this scholarship would be an invaluable opportunity for me, both personally and academically. It would allow me to focus more fully on my studies and future career goals without the added stress of financial uncertainty. As a caregiver, the burden of financial responsibility often falls on me, and a scholarship would alleviate some of this pressure, allowing me to better balance my responsibilities. With this support, I could invest more in my education, which would, in turn, enable me to pursue a career that will allow me to continue helping others—whether through caregiving or other forms of service. Caregiving has shaped me into a more compassionate, resilient, and goal-oriented individual. It has reinforced my commitment to making a positive impact in the lives of others. With the help of this scholarship, I would be able to continue my education and pursue my dreams of helping others, while ensuring that I can also provide the care and support my grandfather deserves.

Wrestling has always been a big part of my life, particularly when things have not been going well. Being a Junior at Bergen Catholic High School, wrestling has been my means of dealing with the hardships that my family has faced financially. Growing up, I was taught that if I wanted something, I would have to work for it, and I have been doing just that. It hasn't been easy. At Bergen Catholic, I was surrounded by a group of students who were from rich families, and many of them seemed to have everything just handed to them. My family never had much money. They always worked hard just to get by, my mom worked four jobs with four children and still money was tight. We never had the choice of taking things for granted, and I knew from an early age that every decision I made had a direct impact on the finances of my family. I watched my parents sacrifice their own needs to provide us with what we required, and it was clear that I would have to earn for myself if I desired anything extra. I knew this would involve hard work, dedication, and determination as my parents had already illustrated. I have been a wrestler all my life. Wrestling showed me that things don't come easily. Each practice was a battle and each match was a mission. I had to push myself to the limit, but that's what I liked about it. Wrestling also taught me that the only option was to continue showing up and giving it my best shot, even when it felt like everything was going against me. The only two things that truly mattered were my work ethic and my will to keep going. Wrestling instilled in me the feeling of being in charge of my life and that no matter what went awry, it wasn't really over. But wrestling isn't all about personal growth—it's also about growing others. My mom's passion for serving others really influenced me. She started a cold case club with her students, and we research missing people and cold cases, trying to bring closure to families who have waited too long. In addition to our work on the cases, we also serve the community on a regular basis. We donate to the poor and donate clothes to poor children. I think it is important to be generous and share what one has with others. This wish to help others who are near me has been my life's philosophy, and it has helped me become what I am today. Having accomplished the work at wrestling, I could see that it was not just strengthening me physically in sports, but it was also educating me on how to survive in life. I knew how to navigate through the school system, with wrestling, and everything in life. It wasn't an easy life, but dealing with other human beings did teach me a natural lesson of never quitting, no matter what. There were times when I felt like the underdog, but pushed myself to run for class president. I knew I had a lot to offer. I wanted to prove that I was more of a role model than most. Wrestling kept me grounded. It taught me that I could do anything with determination. My future goal is to start a wrestling club with my siblings—three brothers and one sister. We all wrestle and have a love/hate relationship with the sport. We would like to expose young people not only to what wrestling is about and how to wrestle, but also how to deal with those hard situations that life puts in front of us. We have an objective of making them realize that wrestling is not all about winning, but also about learning how to push through the hard times and grind through when it gets tough. We want to make them realize that regardless of what the situation is, there will always be a reason to keep trying to get better, both on and off the mat. Through wrestling, I've also learned the importance of giving back, and I wish to instill this in others. Whether it's helping others who are in need, offering assistance to a friend who is down, or helping to bring justice to families with our cold case work, I wish to educate others that wrestling is not about personal victory—it's about elevating others while you go up. Looking back, wrestling has gotten me through some of the roughest times of my life, such as the financial hardships my family faced. I've learned how much work goes into things, the strength in not quitting even when times get rough. What I've learned on the mat has remained with me, and now I would like to share those lessons with others. Through my passion for wrestling and my commitment to giving back, I would like to encourage others to overcome their own challenges and become successful—not just on the mat, but in life.

As a young child, I remember my mother staring at my grandmother in shock with her face locked in that position, and then very quickly followed by an incredibly profound sadness that just lingered. My nana was the glue of our family. She was the one to bless us with attention, love, and the comforts that made us feel special—laughter, treats, and stories of our family history. We were spoiled by her constantly, and I never expected anything different than that she would be around all the time, a constant presence in my life. But the moment she got diagnosed, everything changed. My brother and I were now going to be deprived of those special moments of being pampered by her, and it was as though something priceless had been snatched from us. It hurt to see her losing strength and being unable to do the very things that gave her so much energy. I recall feeling so helpless, knowing that I couldn't do a thing to stop the disease from gradually devouring her away from us. From stories that my mother told us and from what I can remember, I have no doubt at all that Nana would have been my fiercest defender. She was a strong defender of the people she loved, never hesitating to speak up for what was right, and I have no doubt that she would have stood up just as fiercely for me. She was a tough woman, insisting on respect, but she was also a soft, loving person who made everyone feel loved. I reflect on the lessons that she would have instructed me when I was young, the love and the discipline that she would have bestowed upon me equally. We lost her prematurely, and that is what has left us with emptiness in our hearts. My poppy is now a widower, just barely scraping by financially to get by and is clinging desperately. Years of nursing drained him, and Nana's death left him just barely keeping up with daily tasks shattered by grief. His psychological pain is more than I can even attempt to comprehend, and to see him struggle as he must grieve is what pulls at my heart. Cancer invaded our family. We saw that woman who always used to be such a rock to our family fight a great fight but lose the fight. From the experience, I have realized how frail life is, how every second of time is invaluable, and how critical it is to keep dear ones and those nearest to us within the heart. Through it, I came to realize that love is potent but time limited. I have come to realize that we should never take anything for granted—most of all the people who surround us. Pain of losing Nana is still vivid in my memory, but it also serves as a reminder to live every day to the fullest with love and gratitude since we do not know how many more days we will share with the people we love.

As an undergraduate at Wilkes University, I have had many opportunities to reflect on my past actions, my current situation, and my future aspirations. Through these reflections, I have come to realize that the essence of life is ensuring that we are good human beings. I was raised to be conscious of the struggles others face. For example, if I see anyone in need of food or clothing, I make sure I am proactive. Additionally, I make an effort to be there for people, whether they need a simple favor, a listening ear, or sound advice. Growing up in a family that faced financial adversity, I learned early on the value of hard work and resilience. There were times when cutting weight came easy, as we were never really stocked with groceries. My parents worked tirelessly to provide for our family, often making personal sacrifices to ensure we had what we needed. My mom worked four jobs and still does just so my siblings and I have the best education possible. Financial stress was a constant in our household, and I knew that every decision I made would impact my family’s ability to afford opportunities like education. Despite these challenges, I was determined to succeed. I was raised to appreciate the importance of education, and I also understood that every step I took in my journey would require extra effort to overcome the obstacles that came with our financial situation. As a student athlete, my upbringing has greatly influenced the person I have become. Wrestling has been a central part of my life, largely due to the example set by my grandfather. In the 1970s, he founded Bergen Catholic Wrestling, growing it into the powerhouse program it is today. His legacy earned him induction into the Hall of Fame—not only for his success in elevating the team, but also for being a father figure to many of his students. Wrestling is in my blood, and when my brother Daniel started wrestling for Lakeland Jr. Wrestling, I knew I had to follow his lead. It was one of the best decisions I ever made. The sport taught me discipline, perseverance, and the importance of teamwork. In my freshman year at Wilkes University, I was hesitant to take honors classes because I feared the intensity of wrestling and the toll it might take on my academic performance. However, I decided to push myself. From then on, I consistently made honors and was inducted into the National Honor Society. I made sure to remain humble, recognizing that my success was not just mine—it was the result of my parents’ hard work and sacrifices to make our lives better, all while raising four children. Now as a sophomore at Wilkes University and reflecting on my past, I understand that my life’s journey has been shaped by the financial struggles my family faced, but also by the unwavering love and dedication of my parents. Their resilience and determination have taught me that while financial adversity may limit opportunities, it cannot limit potential. I carry that lesson with me as I continue my academic and athletic journey at Wilkes University, striving not only to be the best version of myself, but also to help others along the way. My hope is to one day open a club with my siblings, who all wrestle (three boys and one sister). We all love wrestling so much that would like to be the coaches who uplift our wrestlers and teach them that being a winner is not only on the mat, but in life itself.

Selected Paragraph (from Meditations by Marcus Aurelius, Book 4, Paragraph 3): "When you wake up in the morning, tell yourself: The people I deal with today will be meddling, ungrateful, arrogant, dishonest, jealous, and surly. They are like this because they cannot tell good from evil. But I have seen the nature of good and the nature of evil, and the nature of the wrongdoer, who is my brother, not by blood, but by reason. And so, none of them can hurt me. No one can implicate me in ugliness. Nor can I be angry with my brother, or hate him. We were born to work together, like the feet, the hands, the eyelids, and the rows of the upper and lower teeth. To work against one another is unnatural. To feel anger at someone, to turn your back on him, these are unnatural." In this passage, Marcus Aurelius offers a profound contemplation on the nature of human relationships and the role of the Stoic philosopher in navigating them. His central premise is that individuals, especially those who act negatively or harmfully, are constrained by their own lack of understanding of virtue and goodness. Their wrongdoings are not personal attacks, but rather manifestations of their failure to discern right from wrong. This insight forms the basis of the Stoic approach towards others: instead of being angered or offended by negative behavior, the wise person recognizes the shared human condition and remains unperturbed by it. Aurelius' emphasis on acknowledging the flaws of others, before engaging with them, reveals a deep commitment to self-discipline and acceptance of the imperfections inherent in human nature. When he describes people as "meddling, ungrateful, arrogant, dishonest, jealous, and surly," he is not simply listing common shortcomings, but pointing to the core of human behavior: the absence of moral clarity. For the Stoic, such behavior is not to be taken personally, as the wrongdoer's actions reflect their own moral confusion, not an intentional harm to the individual targeted. Aurelius introduces an important distinction here, suggesting that those who wrong us are, in fact, our "brothers," not in the biological sense, but in a rational one. This connects to the Stoic idea of the interconnectedness of all human beings through reason. The irrationality and immorality of others do not diminish our shared nature, but rather reveal the struggles of the human experience. This perspective compels the Stoic to respond with compassion and understanding, rather than anger. Anger, for Aurelius, is unnatural, as it disrupts the harmony between individuals, much like how discord among the body's parts would disturb its proper function. Aurelius' choice of metaphor—comparing people to parts of the body working in harmony—underscores his vision of human interdependence. Just as the feet, hands, eyelids, and teeth must cooperate for the body to function, so too must humans work together in society. The idea of turning against one another or harboring anger is, therefore, a violation of the natural order. Anger not only harms the individual feeling it but also disrupts the communal fabric. This Stoic perspective transforms the experience of being wronged into an opportunity for self-mastery. Instead of reacting emotionally, the Stoic individual focuses on how to respond virtuously—aligning themselves with reason and harmony rather than succumbing to the chaotic impulse to retaliate. The key takeaway from this passage is the Stoic ideal of equanimity in the face of adversity. Aurelius encourages us to accept the flaws of others without allowing them to disturb our inner peace. This perspective does not deny the existence of wrongdoing or the impact of negative behavior; rather, it shifts the focus to our response to it. The wrongdoer, in Aurelius' view, is not our enemy, but someone whose ignorance of virtue we must recognize and meet with understanding. In this way, Stoicism teaches a radical form of empathy—one that arises not from shared feelings but from shared reason.

As a current Undergrad at Wilkes University, I have had many opportunities to reflect on my past actions, my current situation, and my future plans. With that said, I realize that the essence of life is making sure that you are a good human being. I was raised to be someone who is cognizant of the shortcomings of other people. For example, if I see anyone begging for food or clothing, I make sure that I am a person who does not ignore the needs of the unfortunate. Additionally, I go out of my way for anyone who needs me whether they simply need a favor, a listening ear, or rational advice, I make myself available. Because I am a wrestler, my time has been completely taken up by this sport. Many students dedicate just three months to their sport per year, but I wrestle all year round to maintain my commitment and to push myself to my limits. Outside of high school sports, I am active in my community. I am a youth wrestling coach, where I volunteer my time to the junior athletes. I help coach the young children and the less fortunate during the time in my schedule that allows me to commit. We were always a struggling family financially, but my parents worked so hard to make sure me and my siblings never went without. It has taught me fortitude and has been a privilege seeing life through that lens. My mother is a high school English teacher, who turned her curriculum into a True Crime curriculum in order to help her students become more engaged. As a result, we started a Cold Case Club, where we try to help solve cold cases and find missing people and children in order to find justice for families and victims. This work has been the most rewarding, as families, who felt they had nope, start to feel that people care and there is a light in the hearts of people who care. This is ongoing, so in any free time that I have, this is what I am doing to help research and find new evidence. At times, we just console the families and allow them to vent their emotions about their situation. It's hard to say how much time is put into each of these things, as there is no set time. I try to dedicate as much time as I can to these endeavors. It has been difficult being a student athlete and keeping up with what I have dedicated myself to, but any chance I have, I try to ensure that I keep my commitments.

As a current Undergrad at Wilkes University, I have had many opportunities to reflect on my past actions, my current situation, and my future plans. With that said, I realize that the essence of life is making sure that you are a good human being. I was raised to be someone who is cognizant of the shortcomings of other people. For example, if I see anyone begging for food or clothing, I make sure that I am a person who does not ignore the needs of the unfortunate. Additionally, I go out of my way for anyone who needs me whether they simply need a favor, a listening ear, or rational advice, I make myself available. I believe these attributes are what also makes a good attorney. I was taught to be a good person and to ensure that my fellow humans are taken care of, if it is within my ability to do so. My mother and I typically clean out closets and ask others for any extra clothing, supplies or food they may have for students who are at a disadvantage. My mother, a high school teacher, brings many of these items to the less fortunate students in her school. When she tells me the reactions and gratitude that her students illustrate as a result, I feel overwhelmed with joy, as I know I had a hand in helping humanity. She also runs The Cold Case Club at the high school, seeking justice for victims and their families. I am on this team and we explore all avenues and questions surrounding missing children, adults and cold cases. I enjoy being a part of something big and sending a message that even though I haven’t experienced it firsthand, it still matters and should. With that being said, there are many victims whose families want answers. In one case, my mother’s podcast, “Suspect Zero,” covered the Tiffany Valiante case, where a young girl was killed by a train and the NJ Transit deemed her death a suicide. The facts surrounding her case are undeniably questionable and do not make sense. The family knew that there needed to be a better outcome, but because NJ Transit doesn't have the resources or know-how on investigating murder, the case was closed. The family hired a lawyer to help fight for Tiffany's justice. Their lawyer is doing this work pro bono and fighting diligently for Tiffany and her family. There would be no justice without him. The importance of this man in their lives supersedes everything else for them. They feel validated, and the closure they seek can only come from this kind hearted soul who knew immediately that this case needed to be reopened. My family went to visit Tiffany's parents, who were begging for help. We offered some more clues into the murder of Tiffany, along with some suspects who were lurking around them. I want to continue to use my degree to help people in any facet of life.

As a current Undergrad at Wilkes University, I have had many opportunities to reflect on my past actions, my current situation, and my future plans. With that said, I realize that the essence of life is making sure that you are a good human being. I was raised to be someone who is cognizant of the shortcomings of other people. For example, if I see anyone begging for food or clothing, I make sure that I am a person who does not ignore the needs of the unfortunate. Additionally, I go out of my way for anyone who needs me whether they simply need a favor, a listening ear, or rational advice, I make myself available. As a student athlete, I know that my roots and how I was raised dictates the person I have grown to be. My grandfather started Bergen Catholic Wrestling as a club in the 70’s. He grew the program into the powerhouse it is today. My grandfather was inducted into the Hall of Fame for not only his ability to take the team to the highest levels of success, but because he was a father figure to many of his students. Wrestling is in our blood, so when my brother, Daniel started wrestling for Lakeland Jr. Wrestling with the Recreation Department, I knew I had to follow his lead. It was a great decision. I not only loved the sport even more, but I navigated through some tough matches, good coaching, and teammates who cared. While on the Varsity team with my brother, we were honored by the Mayor of Wanaque for winning the championship. It was a great year to have done that with my brother. With that said, none of this came without a cost. I have used wrestling and training to push myself through much adversity that life has thrown at my young life, as well as my family’s. When I filled out my application to Bergen Catholic H.S, I knew that it was going to be a struggle financially. I also knew that if I didn’t keep my grades as high as I did, my parents would reconsider my attending there. Wrestling was seven days a week and I knew I had a tough road ahead of me. During Freshman year, I was hesitant to take any honors classes because of the intense training. I also didn’t want to lose my scholarship, so I played it safe. After the first semester, I was shocked to see that I made the Principal's list. In addition, I made all the Honor’s lists every year and was inducted into the National Honors Society. I tried to remain a humble person who showed gratitude to the school, as well as my parents for pushing through their own adversity in order to make our lives better with four children in tow. I was also acknowledged as one of the hardest working student/athlete in the school. As I am now a Freshman in college, I am working on improving myself every day. I want to be a leader to others. It is important to be a leader who transforms another person’s life, perspective, or trajectory. I pay attention when I am being asked to help. I make myself available whenever I can and I try to get involved even if I am not always asked to do so. I find the need and I help to make it happen, because I can and God gave me the gifts to do so because overcoming my own adversity wasn’t something I did alone.

As a current Undergrad at Wilkes University, I have had many opportunities to reflect on my past actions, my current situation, and my future plans. With that said, I realize that the essence of life is making sure that you are a good human being. I was raised to be someone who is cognizant of the shortcomings of other people. For example, if I see anyone begging for food or clothing, I make sure that I am a person who does not ignore the needs of the unfortunate. Additionally, I go out of my way for anyone who needs me whether they simply need a favor, a listening ear, or rational advice, I make myself available and know that my future business will involve the same. I am part of a Cold Case team on this team and we explore all avenues and questions surrounding missing children, adults and cold cases. I enjoy being a part of something big and sending a message that even though I haven’t experienced it firsthand, it still matters and should. There are many victims whose families want answers. In one case, my mother’s podcast, “Suspect Zero,” covered the Tiffany Valiante case, where a young girl was killed by a train and the NJ Transit deemed her death a suicide. The facts surrounding her case are undeniably questionable. The family hired a lawyer to help fight for Tiffany's justice. Their lawyer is working pro bono and fighting diligently for Tiffany and her family. There would be no justice without him. Part of how lawyers make the world a safer place is by creating a safe environment. With crime increasing and removing a sense of security, it's important for lawyers to facilitate the difference between right and wrong by adding a sense of security to society. Without lawyers, society wouldn't be able to diplomatically respond to a situation using mere facts and solutions. As a rising attorney, I would not only create that sense of security, but I would also work a pro bono program for people who are unable to pay such a large retainer. Many times people don't follow through because of the cost of an attorney. I want to take things a step further and not only offer peace of mind, but also a financial peace as well for people who qualify. The efforts of one lawyer can undoubtedly change everything for their client, actually changing a destiny, whether through ties to family or school, or possibly by overturning a decision to remove a child from their home when there was no safety danger. The role of a lawyer takes on so many meanings for a variety of situations. Lawyers create that bridge between the legal system and society. If the lawyer is ethical and uses their knowledge for the greater good, then their role becomes even more valuable. When people feel as though we “are all in this together” then the goal becomes clear. When looking at the Tiffany case, much of the family's peace came from knowing there was someone fighting for the justice of their child. By doing the work pro bono, it solidifies the role of the attorney as not just a hired professional, but someone who took stock in Tiffany's death. That can go a long way for a family who can't get their child's death out of their minds. This is the kind of lawyer/entrepreneur I want to be. If life takes me through that journey, then I will make a promise to keep society safe and show the passion I have for every case I cover.

As a current Undergrad at Wilkes University, I have had many opportunities to reflect on my past actions, my current situation, and my future plans. With that said, I realize that the essence of life is making sure that you are a good human being. I was raised to be someone who is cognizant of the shortcomings of other people. For example, if I see anyone begging for food or clothing, I make sure that I am a person who does not ignore the needs of the unfortunate. Additionally, I go out of my way for anyone who needs me whether they simply need a favor, a listening ear, or rational advice, I make myself available. I was taught to be a good person and to ensure that my fellow humans are taken care of, if it is within my ability to do so. My mother and I typically clean out closets and ask others for any extra clothing, supplies or food they may have for students who are at a disadvantage. My mother, a high school teacher, brings many of these items to the less fortunate students in her school. When she tells me the reactions and gratitude that her students illustrate as a result, I feel overwhelmed with joy, as I know I had a hand in helping humanity. She also runs The Cold Case Club at the high school, seeking justice for victims and their families. I am on this team and we explore all avenues and questions surrounding missing children, adults and cold cases. I enjoy being a part of something big and sending a message that even though I haven’t experienced it firsthand, it still matters and should. Moreover, I have been an assistant wrestling coach helping and volunteering my time to the younger, junior wrestlers, who are not only in need of wrestling technique, but a person to look up to as well. I try to be a role model for many of these young wrestlers and have been asked to train them at their homes because of the trust that I have built and relationships I have made. I enjoy coaching these kids because it also means that I can help set them in the right direction with God as my coach, but also gives me an opportunity to teach them to work for themselves and others. Part of how lawyers make the world a safer place is by creating a safe environment. With crime increasing and removing a sense of security, it's important for lawyers to facilitate the difference between right and wrong by adding a sense of security to society. Without lawyers, society wouldn't be able to diplomatically respond to a situation using mere facts and solutions. As a rising attorney, I would not only create that sense of security, but I would also work a pro bono program for people who are unable to pay such a large retainer. Many times people don't follow through because of the cost of an attorney. I want to take things a step further and not only offer peace of mind, but also a financial peace as well for people who qualify. It is important to be a leader who transforms another person’s life, perspective, or trajectory. I pay attention when I am being asked to help. I make myself available whenever I can and I try to get involved even if I am not always asked to do so. I find the need and I help to make it happen, because I can and God gave me the gifts to do so.

As a current student at Wilkes University, I have had many opportunities to reflect on my past actions, my current situation, and my future plans. With that said, I was raised to be someone who is cognizant of the shortcomings of other people. For example, if I see anyone begging for food or clothing, I make sure that I am a person who does not ignore the needs of the unfortunate. I believe these attributes are what also makes a good attorney. My mother, a high school teacher, brings many of these items to the less fortunate students in her school. When she tells me the reactions and gratitude that her students illustrate, I feel overwhelmed, as I know we had a hand in helping humanity. She also runs The Cold Case Club at the high school, seeking justice for victims and their families. I am on this team and we explore all avenues and questions surrounding missing children, adults and cold cases. I enjoy being a part of something big. With that being said, there are many victims whose families want answers. In one case, my mother’s podcast, “Suspect Zero,” covered the Tiffany Valiante case, where a young girl was killed by a train and the NJ Transit deemed her death a suicide. The facts surrounding her case are undeniably questionable and do not make sense. The family knew that there needed to be a better outcome, but because NJ Transit doesn't have the resources or know-how on investigating murder, the case was closed. The family hired a lawyer to help fight for Tiffany's justice. Their lawyer is going this work pro bono and fighting diligently for Tiffany and her family. Part of how lawyers make the world a safer place is by creating a safe environment. With crime increasing and removing a sense of security, it's important for lawyers to facilitate the difference between right and wrong by adding a sense of security to society. Without lawyers, society wouldn't be able to diplomatically respond to a situation using mere facts and solutions. As a rising attorney, I would not only create that sense of security, but I would also work a pro bono program for people who are unable to pay such a large retainer. Many times people don't follow through because of the cost of an attorney. I want to take things a step further and not only offer peace of mind, but also a financial peace as well for people who qualify. Attorneys hold people responsible for their wrongdoings. They protect the rights of citizens, businesses, and the accused. Getting a good lawyer can change the game for many people. A good lawyer will be so passionate about a case that they cannot sleep until they have found justice. They become the victim and fight for those rights. An experienced, educated, and genuinely caring attorney will encapsulate a platform of security that can give society hope, for many this could be enough. The efforts of one lawyer can undoubtedly change everything for their client, actually changing a destiny, whether through ties to family or school, or possibly by overturning a decision to remove a child from their home when there was no safety danger. T Lawyers create that bridge between the legal system and society. If the lawyer is ethical and uses their knowledge for the greater good, then their role becomes even more valuable. If life takes me through that journey, then I will make a promise to keep society safe and show the passion I have for every case I cover.

As a current Undergrad at Wilkes University and a student athlete, I have had many opportunities to reflect on my past actions, my current situation, and my future plans. With that said, I realize that the essence of life is making sure that you are a good human being. I was raised to be someone who is cognizant of the shortcomings of other people. For example, if I see anyone begging for food or clothing, I make sure that I am a person who does not ignore the needs of the unfortunate. Additionally, I go out of my way for anyone who needs me whether they simply need a favor, a listening ear, or rational advice, I make myself available. As an aspiring lawyer, I plan to use my skillset to benefit the less fortunate. My mother, a high school teacher, tells me the reactions and gratitude that her students illustrate as a result, I feel overwhelmed with joy, as I know I had a hand in helping humanity. She also runs The Cold Case Club at the high school, seeking justice for victims and their families. I am on this team and we explore all avenues and questions surrounding missing children, adults and cold cases. I enjoy being a part of something big and sending a message that even though I haven’t experienced it firsthand, it still matters and should. Moreover, I have been an assistant wrestling coach helping and volunteering my time to the younger, junior wrestlers, who are not only in need of wrestling technique, but a person to look up to as well. I try to be a role model for many of these young wrestlers and have been asked to train them at their homes because of the trust that I have built and relationships I have made. I enjoy coaching these kids because it also means that I can help set them in the right direction, but also gives me an opportunity to show how wrestling is not only a sport, but a discipline and mindset. Teaching them to work for goals is not only crucial to the sport, but also effective in their lives as well. As a student athlete, I know that my roots and how I was raised dictates the person I have grown to be. My grandfather started Bergen Catholic Wrestling as a club in the 70’s. He grew the program into the powerhouse it is today. My grandfather was inducted into the Hall of Fame for not only his ability to take the team to the highest levels of success, but because he was a father figure to many of his students. As a result, I not only loved the sport even more, but I navigated through some tough matches, good coaching, and teammates who cared. While on the Varsity team with my brother, we were honored by the Mayor of Wanaque for winning the championship. It was a great year to have done that with my brother, but also all my teammates, who I am still in touch with today. It is important to be a leader who transforms another person’s life, perspective, or trajectory. I pay attention when I am being asked to help. I make myself available whenever I can and I try to get involved even if I am not always asked to do so. I find the need and I help to make it happen, because I can and God gave me the gifts to do so. Making myself available and volunteering has fulfilled my life in so many ways.

As a current Undergrad at Wilkes University, I have had many opportunities to reflect on my past actions, my current situation, and my future plans. With that said, I realize that the essence of life is making sure that you are a good human being. I was raised to be someone who is cognizant of the shortcomings of other people. For example, if I see anyone begging for food or clothing, I make sure that I am a person who does not ignore the needs of the unfortunate. Additionally, I go out of my way for anyone who needs me whether they simply need a favor, a listening ear, or rational advice, I make myself available. I believe these attributes are what also makes a good attorney. I was taught to be a good person and to ensure that my fellow humans are taken care of, if it is within my ability to do so. She also runs The Cold Case Club at the high school, seeking justice for victims and their families. I am on this team and we explore all avenues and questions surrounding missing children, adults and cold cases. I enjoy being a part of something big and sending a message that even though I haven’t experienced it firsthand, it still matters and should. There are many victims whose families want answers. In one case, my mother’s podcast, “Suspect Zero,” covered the Tiffany Valiante case, where a young girl was killed by a train and the NJ Transit deemed her death a suicide. The facts surrounding her case are undeniably questionable and do not make sense. The family knew that there needed to be a better outcome so the family hired a lawyer to help fight for Tiffany's justice. He took the case pro bono. Part of how lawyers make the world a safer place is by creating a safe environment. With crime increasing and removing a sense of security, it's important for lawyers to facilitate the difference between right and wrong by adding a sense of security to society. As a rising attorney, I would not only create that sense of security, but I would also work a pro bono program for people who are unable to pay such a large retainer. Many times people don't follow through because of the cost of an attorney. I want to offer a financial peace as well for people who qualify. Attorneys hold people responsible for their wrongdoings. They protect the rights of citizens, businesses, and the accused. Getting a good lawyer can change the game for many people. A good lawyer will be so passionate about a case that they cannot sleep until they have found justice. They become the victim and fight for those rights. An experienced, educated, and genuinely caring attorney will encapsulate a platform of security that can give society hope, for many this could be enough. The efforts of one lawyer can undoubtedly change everything for their client, actually changing a destiny, whether through ties to family or school, or possibly by overturning a decision to remove a child from their home when there was no safety danger. . Lawyers create that bridge between the legal system and society. If the lawyer is ethical and uses their knowledge for the greater good, then their role becomes even more valuable. This is the kind of lawyer I want to be. If life takes me through that journey, then I will make a promise to keep society safe and show the passion I have for every case I cover.

As a current Undergrad at Wilkes University, I have had many opportunities to reflect on my past actions, my current situation, and my future plans. With that said, I realize that the essence of life is making sure that you are a good human being. I was raised to be someone who is cognizant of the shortcomings of other people. For example, if I see anyone begging for food or clothing, I make sure that I am a person who does not ignore the needs of the unfortunate. Additionally, I go out of my way for anyone who needs me whether they simply need a favor, a listening ear, or rational advice, I make myself available. I was taught to be a good person and to ensure that my fellow humans are taken care of, if it is within my ability to do so. My mother and I typically clean out closets and ask others for any extra clothing, supplies or food they may have for students who are at a disadvantage. My mother, a high school teacher, brings many of these items to the less fortunate students in her school. When she tells me the reactions and gratitude that her students illustrate as a result, I feel overwhelmed with joy, as I know I had a hand in helping humanity. She also runs The Cold Case Club at the high school, seeking justice for victims and their families. I am on this team and we explore all avenues and questions surrounding missing children, adults and cold cases. I enjoy being a part of something this big. Moreover, I have been an assistant wrestling coach helping and volunteering my time to the younger, junior wrestlers, who are not only in need of wrestling technique, but a person to look up to as well. I try to be a role model for many of these young wrestlers and have been asked to train them at their homes because of the trust that I have built and relationships I have made. I enjoy coaching these kids because it also means that I can help set them in the right direction, but also gives me an opportunity to show how wrestling is not only a sport, but a discipline and mindset. Teaching them to work for goals is not only crucial to the sport, but also effective in their lives as well. As a student athlete, I know that my roots and how I was raised dictates the person I have grown to be. My grandfather started Bergen Catholic Wrestling as a club in the 70’s. He grew the program into the powerhouse it is today. I not only loved the sport, but I navigated through some tough matches, good coaching, and teammates who cared. While on the Varsity team with my brother, we were honored by the Mayor of Wanaque for winning the championship. It was a great year to have done that with my brother, but also my teammates, who I am still in touch with today. We continue to volunteer and give back to the program. It is important to be a leader who transforms another person’s life, perspective, or trajectory. I pay attention when I am being asked to help. I make myself available whenever I can and I try to get involved even if I am not always asked to do so. I find the need and I help to make it happen, because I can and God gave me the gifts to do so. Making myself available and volunteering has fulfilled my life in so many ways.

As a current Undergrad at Wilkes University, I have had many opportunities to reflect on my past actions, my current situation, and my future plans. With that said, I realize that the essence of life is making sure that you are a good human being. I was raised to be someone who is cognizant of the shortcomings of other people. For example, if I see anyone begging for food or clothing, I make sure that I am a person who does not ignore the needs of the unfortunate. Additionally, I go out of my way for anyone who needs me whether they simply need a favor, a listening ear, or rational advice, I make myself available. I believe these attributes are what also makes a good attorney. I was taught to be a good person and to ensure that my fellow humans are taken care of, if it is within my ability to do so. My mother and I typically clean out closets and ask others for any extra clothing, supplies or food they may have for students who are at a disadvantage. My mother, a high school teacher, brings many of these items to the less fortunate students in her school. When she tells me the reactions and gratitude that her students illustrate as a result, I feel overwhelmed with joy, as I know I had a hand in helping humanity. She also runs The Cold Case Club at the high school, seeking justice for victims and their families. I am on this team and we explore all avenues and questions surrounding missing children, adults and cold cases. I enjoy being a part of something big and sending a message that even though I haven’t experienced it firsthand, it still matters and should. With that being said, there are many victims whose families want answers. In one case, my mother’s podcast, “Suspect Zero,” covered the Tiffany Valiante case, where a young girl was killed by a train and the NJ Transit deemed her death a suicide. The facts surrounding her case are undeniably questionable and do not make sense. The family knew that there needed to be a better outcome, but because NJ Transit doesn't have the resources or know-how on investigating murder, the case was closed. The family hired a lawyer to help fight for Tiffany's justice. Their lawyer is going this work pro bono and fighting diligently for Tiffany and her family. There would be no justice without him. The importance of this man in their lives supersedes everything else for them. They feel validated, and the closure they seek can only come from this kind hearted soul who knew immediately that this case needed to be reopened. My family went to visit Tiffany's parents, who were distraught and begging for help. We offered some more clues into the murder of Tiffany, along with some suspects who were lurking on the Facebook page. Her lawyer was more than inviting when offering the information. He accepted our explanations and believed we were on to something. Part of how lawyers make the world a safer place is by creating a safe environment. With crime increasing and removing a sense of security, it's important for lawyers to facilitate the difference between right and wrong by adding a sense of security to society. Without lawyers, society wouldn't be able to diplomatically respond to a situation using mere facts and solutions. As a rising attorney, I would not only create that sense of security, but I would also work a pro bono program for people who are unable to pay such a large retainer. Many times people don't follow through because of the cost of an attorney. I want to take things a step further and not only offer peace of mind, but also a financial peace as well for people who qualify. Attorneys hold people responsible for their wrongdoings. They protect the rights of citizens, businesses, and the accused. Getting a good lawyer can change the game for many people. A good lawyer will be so passionate about a case that they cannot sleep until they have found justice. They become the victim and fight for those rights. An experienced, educated, and genuinely caring attorney will encapsulate a platform of security that can give society hope, for many this could be enough. The efforts of one lawyer can undoubtedly change everything for their client, actually changing a destiny, whether through ties to family or school, or possibly by overturning a decision to remove a child from their home when there was no safety danger. The role of a lawyer takes on so many meanings for a variety of situations. Lawyers create that bridge between the legal system and society. If the lawyer is ethical and uses their knowledge for the greater good, then their role becomes even more valuable. When people feel as though we “are all in this together” then the goal becomes clear. When looking at the Tiffany case, much of the family's peace came from knowing there was someone fighting for the justice of their child. By also doing the work pro bono, it solidifies the role of the attorney as not just a hired professional, but someone who took stock in Tiffany's death. That can go a long way for a family who can't get their child's death out of their minds for even a second. This is the kind of lawyer I want to be. If life takes me through that journey, then I will make a promise to keep society safe and show the passion I have for every case I cover.

As a current Undergrad at Wilkes University, I have had many opportunities to reflect on my past actions, my current situation, and my future plans. With that said, I realize that the essence of life is making sure that you are a good human being. I was raised to be someone who is cognizant of the shortcomings of other people. For example, if I see anyone begging for food or clothing, I make sure that I am a person who does not ignore the needs of the unfortunate. I was taught to be a good person and to ensure that my fellow humans are taken care of, if it is within my ability to do so. My mother, a high school teacher, brings many of these items to the less fortunate students in her school. When she tells me the reactions and gratitude that her students illustrate as a result, I feel overwhelmed with joy, as I know I had a hand in helping humanity. She also runs The Cold Case Club at the high school, seeking justice for victims and their families. I am on this team and we explore all avenues and questions surrounding missing children, adults and cold cases. I enjoy being a part of something big and sending a message that even though I haven’t experienced it firsthand, it still matters and should. Moreover, I have been an assistant wrestling coach helping and volunteering my time to the younger, junior wrestlers, who are not only in need of wrestling technique, but a person to look up to as well. I try to be a role model for many of these young wrestlers and have been asked to train them at their homes because of the trust that I have built and relationships I have made. I enjoy coaching these kids because it also means that I can help set them in the right direction, but also gives me an opportunity to show how wrestling is not only a sport, but a discipline and mindset. As a student athlete, I know that my roots and how I was raised dictates the person I have grown to be. My grandfather started Bergen Catholic Wrestling as a club in the 70’s. He grew the program into the powerhouse it is today. My grandfather was inducted into the Hall of Fame for not only his ability to take the team to the highest levels of success, but because he was a father figure to many of his students. I not only loved the sport even more, but I navigated through some tough matches, good coaching, and teammates who cared. While on the Varsity team with my brother, we were honored by the Mayor of Wanaque for winning the championship. It was a great year to have done that with my brother, but also all my teammates, who I am still in touch with today. It is important to be a leader who transforms another person’s life, perspective, or trajectory. I pay attention when I am being asked to help. I make myself available whenever I can and I try to get involved even if I am not always asked to do so. I find the need and I help to make it happen, because I can and God gave me the gifts to do so. Making myself available and volunteering has fulfilled my life in so many ways. I will use this scholarship to pay for my college expenses in order to get my degree and help more people in need.

I have had many opportunities to reflect on my past actions, my current situation, and my future plans. With that said, I realize that the essence of life is making sure that you are a good human being. I was raised to be someone cognizant of the shortcomings of other people. For example, if I see anyone begging for food or clothing, I make sure that I am a person who does not ignore the needs of the unfortunate. Additionally, I go out of my way for anyone who needs me whether they simply need a favor, a listening ear, or rational advice, I make myself available. I believe these attributes are what also makes a good business owner. I was taught to be a good person and to ensure that my fellow humans are taken care of if it is within my ability to do so. My mother and I typically clean out closets and ask others for any extra clothing, supplies or food they may have for students who are at a disadvantage. My mother, a high school teacher, brings many of these items to the less fortunate students in her school. When she tells me the reactions and gratitude that her students illustrate as a result, I feel overwhelmed with joy, as I know I had a hand in helping humanity. She also runs The Cold Case Club at the high school, seeking justice for victims and their families. With that being said, there are many victims whose families want answers. In one case, my mother’s podcast, “Suspect Zero,” covered the Tiffany Valiante case, where a young girl was killed by a train and the NJ Transit deemed her death a suicide. The facts surrounding her case are undeniably questionable and do not make sense. The family knew that there needed to be a better outcome, but because NJ Transit didn't have the resources or know-how to investigate the murder, the case was closed. There would be no justice without their lawyer who is working pro bono. The importance of this man in their lives supersedes everything else for them. Part of how business owners make the world a safer place is by creating a safe environment. As a rising attorney/business owner, I would not only create that sense of security, but I would also work a pro bono program for people who are unable to pay such a large retainer. Many times people don't follow through because of the cost of an attorney. I want to take things a step further and not only offer peace of mind but also financial peace as well for people who qualify. When people feel as though we “are all in this together” then the goal becomes clear. When looking at the Tiffany case, much of the family's peace came from knowing someone was fighting for the justice of their child. By also doing the work pro bono, it solidifies the role of the attorney as not just a hired professional, but someone who took stock in Tiffany's death. That can go a long way for a family who can't get their child's death out of their minds for even a second. This is the kind of lawyer I want to be. If life takes me through that journey, then I will make a promise to keep society safe and show the passion I have for every case I cover. Because my major is Finance, I am trying to incorporate the two degrees and lifestyles so that when I become a business owner, I can model this for my team.

I was taught to be a good person and to ensure that my fellow humans are taken care of if it is within my ability to do so. My mother and I typically clean out closets and ask others for any extra clothing, supplies or food they may have for students who are at a disadvantage. My mother, a high school teacher, brings many of these items to the less fortunate students in her school. When she tells me the reactions and gratitude that her students illustrate as a result, I feel overwhelmed with joy, as I know I had a hand in helping humanity. She also runs The Cold Case Club at the high school, seeking justice for victims and their families. I am on this team and we explore all avenues and questions surrounding missing children, adults and cold cases. I enjoy being a part of something big and sending a message that even though I haven’t experienced it firsthand, it still matters and should. With that being said, there are many victims whose families want answers. In one case, my mother’s podcast, “Suspect Zero,” covered the Tiffany Valiante case, where a young girl was killed by a train and the NJ Transit deemed her death a suicide. The facts surrounding her case are undeniably questionable and do not make sense. The family knew that there needed to be a better outcome, but because NJ Transit didn't have the resources or know-how to investigate the murder, the case was closed. The family hired a lawyer to help fight for Tiffany's justice. Their lawyer is doing this work pro bono and fighting diligently for Tiffany and her family. There would be no justice without him. The importance of this man in their lives supersedes everything else for them. They feel validated, and the closure they seek can only come from this kind-hearted soul who knew immediately that this case needed to be reopened. My family went to visit Tiffany's parents, who were distraught and begging for help and there was no better feeling than humanitarian work. With my degree, I want to continue doing this type of work through any business I pursue. I would like to extend my services to people who are not able to afford it and be a person who understands the struggles of others and helps to make it more manageable by any means necessary.

As a current Senior at Bergen Catholic High School, I have had many opportunities to reflect on my past actions and my plans for the future. With that said, I realize that the essence of life is making sure that you are a good human being. I was raised to be someone cognizant of the shortcomings of other people. I go out of my way for anyone who needs me whether they simply need a favor, a listening ear, or rational advice. I believe these attributes are what also make a good attorney. I was taught to ensure that my fellow humans are taken care of if it is within my ability to do so. My mother and I typically clean out closets and ask others for any extra clothing, supplies or food they may have for students who are at a disadvantage. My mother, a high school teacher, brings many of these items to the less fortunate students in her school. When she tells me the reactions and gratitude that her students illustrate as a result, I feel overwhelmed, as I know I had a hand in helping humanity. She also runs The Cold Case Club, seeking justice for victims and their families. I am on this team and we explore all avenues and questions surrounding missing children, adults and cold cases. I enjoy being a part of something bigger. With that being said, there are many victims whose families want answers. In one case, my mother’s podcast, “Suspect Zero,” covered the Tiffany Valiante case, where a young girl was killed by a train and the NJ Transit deemed her death a suicide. The facts surrounding her case are undeniably questionable and do not make sense. The family hired a lawyer to help fight for Tiffany's justice. Their lawyer is doing this work pro bono and fighting diligently for Tiffany and her family. There would be no justice without him. The importance of this man in their lives supersedes everything else for them. They feel validated, and the closure they seek can only come from this kind-hearted soul who knew immediately that this case needed to be reopened. Part of how lawyers make the world a safer place is by creating a safe environment. With crime increasing and removing a sense of security, lawyers need to facilitate the difference between right and wrong by adding a sense of security to society. Without lawyers, society wouldn't be able to diplomatically respond to a situation using mere facts and solutions. As a rising attorney, I would not only create that sense of security, but I would also work a pro bono program for people who are unable to pay such a large retainer. Many times people don't follow through because of the cost of an attorney. I want to take things a step further and not only offer peace of mind but also financial peace as well for people who qualify. When people feel as though we “are all in this together” then the goal becomes clear. When looking at the Tiffany case, much of the family's peace came from knowing someone was fighting for the justice of their child. By also doing the work pro bono, it solidifies the role of the attorney as not just a hired professional, but someone who took stock in Tiffany's death. This is the kind of lawyer I want to be. If life takes me through that journey, then I will make a promise to keep society safe and show the passion I have for every case I cover.

Ironically, my mother has been teaching me about the law of attraction and how to remain positive about my life and what I want out of my life. As she has recently been instilling small ideas in my head to understand how this works. Since I've started, strange, but miraculous things have been happening. I prayed for college money to allow me to pursue my goals and my coach showed up at my door to tell me I won a 1500 scholarship. Although not enough, I was so appreciative and suddenly realized that I have the power to dictate what the universe has to offer me. I've also noticed that nature is the source of all our needs. I have been learning how to forage various plants, as well as how to ground myself in nature to help heal my own body. When humans begin to realize how powerful we are, especially when working together, the opportunities are endless. With that being said, my house is the equivalent to a treehouse. We live on a lake that has offered much to our family, both mentally and physically. The universe has given much abundance and unless we are aware of what it has to offer, we are at a disadvantage. To be ignorant to what has been given would be a detriment. Humans have the ability to heal through nature and it's gifts. My grandmother passed away from brain cancer and before she died my mother felt helpless. She wanted to save her, but didn't know what to do. After educating herself on the healing properties the universe provides, she regrets not knowing this before. There are so many ways to encourage this education. Our school systems should be teaching children at a young age how to survive in nature and heal themselves naturally. Working on our mental and physical state is crucial for our survival. If more people were made aware, the energy we spend in the negative mindframe would dissipate and we could live more positively. I would work at instilling this mindset into the minds of the young. I would have benefitted from learning how the universe and nature work in complete sync with the human body. We don't even realize how much we rely on those two things for survival. Kids today are way too focused on material wealth, when it's rwsllybsterijgvusvin the face everyday..,and it's free.

As a current Senior at Bergen Catholic High School, I have had many opportunities to reflect on my past actions, my current situation, and my future plans. With that said, I realize that the essence of life is making sure that you are a good human being. I was raised to be someone who is cognizant of the shortcomings of other people. For example, if I see anyone begging for food or clothing, I make sure that I am a person who does not ignore the needs of the unfortunate. Additionally, I go out of my way for anyone who needs me whether they simply need a favor, a listening ear, or rational advice, I make myself available. I was taught to be a good person and to ensure that my fellow humans are taken care of, if it is within my ability to do so. My mother and I typically clean out closets and ask others for any extra clothing, supplies or food they may have for students who are at a disadvantage. My mother, a high school teacher, brings many of these items to the less fortunate students in her school. When she tells me the reactions and gratitude that her students illustrate as a result, I feel overwhelmed with joy, as I know I had a hand in helping humanity. She also runs The Cold Case Club at the high school, seeking justice for victims and their families. I am on this team and we explore all avenues and questions surrounding missing children, adults and cold cases. I enjoy being a part of something big and sending a message that even though I haven’t experienced it firsthand, it still matters and should. Moreover, I have been an assistant wrestling coach helping and volunteering my time to the younger, junior wrestlers, who are not only in need of wrestling technique, but a person to look up to as well. I try to be a role model for many of these young wrestlers and have been asked to train them at their homes because of the trust that I have built and relationships I have made. I enjoy coaching these kids because it also means that I can help set them in the right direction, but also gives me an opportunity to show how wrestling is not only a sport, but a discipline and mindset. Teaching them to work for goals is not only crucial to the sport, but also effective in their lives as well. As a student athlete, I know that my roots and how I was raised dictates the person I have grown to be. My grandfather started Bergen Catholic Wrestling as a club in the 70’s. He grew the program into the powerhouse it is today. My grandfather was inducted into the Hall of Fame for not only his ability to take the team to the highest levels of success, but because he was a father figure to many of his students. Wrestling is in our blood, so when my brother, Daniel started wrestling for Lakeland Jr. Wrestling with the Recreation Department, I knew I had to follow his lead. It was a great decision. I not only loved the sport even more, but I navigated through some tough matches, good coaching, and teammates who cared. It is important to be a leader who transforms another person’s life, perspective, or trajectory. I find the need and I help to make it happen, because I can and God gave me the gifts to do so.

My family struggles financially. I used to complain and make my parents feel badly that we didn't have enough to do a lot of what the other kids in my affluent high school were doing. What I failed to recognize was the very fact that I made it to an affluent school while my parents worked two jobs each, was something I didn't appreciate at the time. Looking back, I would hear my mother cry in her room because of the challenges she faced. We are still experiencing the same as we enter college. I have 20k to pay per semester and the college wants a 2000 dollar payment a month. My parents are killing themselves. I can remember my mother needing legal advice and the lawyer asking for a 400 dollar an hour retainer. My parents raised me to be resourceful and figure out how to do things on a minimal budget. With that being said, after law school, I want to make legal advice, as well as legal help available to struggling families. I want to offer pro bono services to give back to the community and to humankind. Lawyers are there to help, but that help always comes with a huge price tag. I want my clients to know that there are people out there who are willing to help. My goal is to provide as much help as I can, while still being reasonable about my own finances. I believe people need to start helping others to gain the true rewards that life has to offer. This is an important cause for me because I know how my own family needed help and no one used their law degree for anything other than making sure their bill was paid first. I'm not unrealistic about being paid, but I'm also not unrealistic about how our society is suffering from unnattainable goals. Humankind needs to kick in and show their true superpowers. All other causes will be addressed once we understand how to unselfishly make the world work. I look back now with an acute understanding of the importance and value that my parents instilled in me and my siblings. We didn't have much, but what we do have are caring hearts, understanding minds, and attainable goals. I'm proud of how far I've gone and have confidence on where I am going. I appreciate having an open mind and and open heart.

It has been a long journey as a student athlete. Wrestling for one of the top wrestling high schools in NJ challenged every belief and hope I had in the sport. Many overly inflated students and coaches didn't take the time to see the value in wrestlers that didn't make it to states, but failed to recognize that actual coaching would have built on kids who could have made it, instead of burning out the kids already being used for the wind and school recognition. I have been an assistant wrestling coach helping and volunteering my time to the younger, junior wrestlers, who are not only in need of wrestling technique, but a person to look up to as well. I try to be a role model for many of these young wrestlers and have been asked to train them at their homes because of the trust that I have built and relationships I have made. I enjoy coaching these kids because it also means that I can help set them in the right direction, but also gives me an opportunity to show how wrestling is not only a sport, but a discipline and mindset. Teaching them to work for goals is not only crucial to the sport, but also effective in their lives as well. As a student athlete, I know that my roots and how I was raised dictates the person I have grown to be. My grandfather started Bergen Catholic Wrestling as a club in the 70’s. He grew the program into the powerhouse it is today. My grandfather was inducted into the Hall of Fame for not only his ability to take the team to the highest levels of success, but because he was a father figure to many of his students. Wrestling is in our blood, so when my brother, Daniel started wrestling for Lakeland Jr. Wrestling with the Recreation Department, I knew I had to follow his lead. It was a great decision. I not only loved the sport even more, but I navigated through some tough matches, good coaching, and teammates who cared. While on the Varsity team with my brother, we were honored by the Mayor of Wanaque for winning the championship. It was a great year to have done that with my brother, but also all my teammates, who I am still in touch with today. It is important to be a leader who transforms another person’s life, perspective, or trajectory. I pay attention when I am being asked to help. I make myself available whenever I can and I try to get involved even if I am not always asked to do so. I find the need and I help to make it happen, because I can and God gave me the gifts to do so. At the end of senior year, I finally received a standing ovation for making the most progress as well as being the most humble and hardest worker. I felt like Rudy.

As a current Senior at Bergen Catholic High School, I have had many opportunities to reflect on my past actions, my current situation, and my future plans. With that said, I realize that the essence of life is making sure that you are a good human being. I was raised to be someone who is cognizant of the shortcomings of other people. For example, if I see anyone begging for food or clothing, I make sure that I am a person who does not ignore the needs of the unfortunate. Additionally, I go out of my way for anyone who needs me whether they simply need a favor, a listening ear, or rational advice, I make myself available. I was taught to be a good person and to ensure that my fellow humans are taken care of, if it is within my ability to do so. My mother and I typically clean out closets and ask others for any extra clothing, supplies or food they may have for students who are at a disadvantage. My mother, a high school teacher, brings many of these items to the less fortunate students in her school. When she tells me the reactions and gratitude that her students illustrate as a result, I feel overwhelmed with joy, as I know I had a hand in helping humanity. She also runs The Cold Case Club at the high school, seeking justice for victims and their families. I am on this team and we explore all avenues and questions surrounding missing children, adults and cold cases. I enjoy being a part of something big and sending a message that even though I haven’t experienced it firsthand, it still matters and should. Moreover, I have been an assistant wrestling coach helping and volunteering my time to the younger, junior wrestlers, who are not only in need of wrestling technique, but a person to look up to as well. I try to be a role model for many of these young wrestlers because of the trust that I have built and relationships I have made. I enjoy coaching these kids because it also means that I can help set them in the right direction, but also gives me an opportunity to show how wrestling is not only a sport, but a discipline and mindset. Teaching them to work for goals is not only crucial to the sport, but also effective in their lives as well. As a student athlete, I know that my roots and how I was raised dictates the person I have grown to be. My grandfather started Bergen Catholic Wrestling as a club in the 70’s. My grandfather was inducted into the Hall of Fame for not only his ability to take the team to the highest levels of success, but because he was a father figure to many of his students. Wrestling is in our blood, so I not only loved the sport even more, but I navigated through some tough matches. While on the Varsity team with my brother, we were honored by the Mayor of Wanaque for winning the championship. It was a great year to have done that with my brother, but also all my teammates. It is important to be a leader who transforms another person’s life, perspective, or trajectory. I pay attention when I am being asked to help. I make myself available whenever I can and I try to get involved. I find the need and I help to make it happen, because I can and God gave me the gifts to do so.