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Ethan Washburn

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I was taught to be a good person and to ensure that my fellow humans are taken care of, if it is within my ability to do so. My mother and I typically clean out closets and ask others for any extra clothing, supplies or food they may have for students who are at a disadvantage. My mother, a high school teacher, brings many of these items to the less fortunate students in her school. When she tells me the reactions and gratitude that her students illustrate as a result, I feel overwhelmed with joy, as I know I had a hand in helping humanity. She also runs The Cold Case Club at the high school, seeking justice for victims and their families. I am on this team and we explore all avenues and questions surrounding missing children, adults and cold cases. I enjoy being a part of something big and sending a message that even though I haven’t experienced it firsthand, it still matters and should. I have been an assistant wrestling coach helping and volunteering my time to the younger, junior wrestlers, who are not only in need of wrestling technique, but a person to look up to as well. I try to be a role model for many of these young wrestlers and have been asked to train them at their homes because of the trust that I have built and relationships I have made. I enjoy coaching these kids because it also means that I can help set them in the right direction, but also gives me an opportunity to show how wrestling is not only a sport, but a discipline and mindset. Teaching them to work for goals is not only crucial to the sport, but also effective in their lives as well.

Education

Wilkes University

Bachelor's degree program
2023 - 2027
  • Majors:
    • Business, Management, Marketing, and Related Support Services, Other
  • Minors:
    • Psychology, Other

Bergen Catholic High School

High School
2019 - 2023

Miscellaneous

  • Desired degree level:

    Bachelor's degree program

  • Graduate schools of interest:

  • Transfer schools of interest:

  • Majors of interest:

    • Clinical, Counseling and Applied Psychology
    • Law
    • Finance and Financial Management Services
  • Not planning to go to medical school
  • Career

    • Dream career field:

      Law Practice

    • Dream career goals:

    • Lifeguard

      2021 – Present3 years

    Sports

    Wrestling

    Varsity
    2013 – Present11 years

    Research

    • missing people

      Suspect Zero Podcast — Researcher
      2021 – Present

    Arts

    • Suspect Zero Podcast

      Videography
      Suspect Zero Podcast
      2021 – Present

    Public services

    • Advocacy

      The Cold Case Club — Researcher
      2021 – Present
    • Volunteering

      Lakeland Jr. Wrestling — Assistant Coach
      2022 – Present

    Future Interests

    Advocacy

    Volunteering

    Entrepreneurship

    RonranGlee Literary Scholarship
    Selected Paragraph (from Meditations by Marcus Aurelius, Book 4, Paragraph 3): "When you wake up in the morning, tell yourself: The people I deal with today will be meddling, ungrateful, arrogant, dishonest, jealous, and surly. They are like this because they cannot tell good from evil. But I have seen the nature of good and the nature of evil, and the nature of the wrongdoer, who is my brother, not by blood, but by reason. And so, none of them can hurt me. No one can implicate me in ugliness. Nor can I be angry with my brother, or hate him. We were born to work together, like the feet, the hands, the eyelids, and the rows of the upper and lower teeth. To work against one another is unnatural. To feel anger at someone, to turn your back on him, these are unnatural." In this passage, Marcus Aurelius offers a profound contemplation on the nature of human relationships and the role of the Stoic philosopher in navigating them. His central premise is that individuals, especially those who act negatively or harmfully, are constrained by their own lack of understanding of virtue and goodness. Their wrongdoings are not personal attacks, but rather manifestations of their failure to discern right from wrong. This insight forms the basis of the Stoic approach towards others: instead of being angered or offended by negative behavior, the wise person recognizes the shared human condition and remains unperturbed by it. Aurelius' emphasis on acknowledging the flaws of others, before engaging with them, reveals a deep commitment to self-discipline and acceptance of the imperfections inherent in human nature. When he describes people as "meddling, ungrateful, arrogant, dishonest, jealous, and surly," he is not simply listing common shortcomings, but pointing to the core of human behavior: the absence of moral clarity. For the Stoic, such behavior is not to be taken personally, as the wrongdoer's actions reflect their own moral confusion, not an intentional harm to the individual targeted. Aurelius introduces an important distinction here, suggesting that those who wrong us are, in fact, our "brothers," not in the biological sense, but in a rational one. This connects to the Stoic idea of the interconnectedness of all human beings through reason. The irrationality and immorality of others do not diminish our shared nature, but rather reveal the struggles of the human experience. This perspective compels the Stoic to respond with compassion and understanding, rather than anger. Anger, for Aurelius, is unnatural, as it disrupts the harmony between individuals, much like how discord among the body's parts would disturb its proper function. Aurelius' choice of metaphor—comparing people to parts of the body working in harmony—underscores his vision of human interdependence. Just as the feet, hands, eyelids, and teeth must cooperate for the body to function, so too must humans work together in society. The idea of turning against one another or harboring anger is, therefore, a violation of the natural order. Anger not only harms the individual feeling it but also disrupts the communal fabric. This Stoic perspective transforms the experience of being wronged into an opportunity for self-mastery. Instead of reacting emotionally, the Stoic individual focuses on how to respond virtuously—aligning themselves with reason and harmony rather than succumbing to the chaotic impulse to retaliate. The key takeaway from this passage is the Stoic ideal of equanimity in the face of adversity. Aurelius encourages us to accept the flaws of others without allowing them to disturb our inner peace. This perspective does not deny the existence of wrongdoing or the impact of negative behavior; rather, it shifts the focus to our response to it. The wrongdoer, in Aurelius' view, is not our enemy, but someone whose ignorance of virtue we must recognize and meet with understanding. In this way, Stoicism teaches a radical form of empathy—one that arises not from shared feelings but from shared reason.
    Stephan L. Wolley Memorial Scholarship
    As a current Undergrad at Wilkes University, I have had many opportunities to reflect on my past actions, my current situation, and my future plans. With that said, I realize that the essence of life is making sure that you are a good human being. I was raised to be someone who is cognizant of the shortcomings of other people. For example, if I see anyone begging for food or clothing, I make sure that I am a person who does not ignore the needs of the unfortunate. Additionally, I go out of my way for anyone who needs me whether they simply need a favor, a listening ear, or rational advice, I make myself available. Because I am a wrestler, my time has been completely taken up by this sport. Many students dedicate just three months to their sport per year, but I wrestle all year round to maintain my commitment and to push myself to my limits. Outside of high school sports, I am active in my community. I am a youth wrestling coach, where I volunteer my time to the junior athletes. I help coach the young children and the less fortunate during the time in my schedule that allows me to commit. We were always a struggling family financially, but my parents worked so hard to make sure me and my siblings never went without. It has taught me fortitude and has been a privilege seeing life through that lens. My mother is a high school English teacher, who turned her curriculum into a True Crime curriculum in order to help her students become more engaged. As a result, we started a Cold Case Club, where we try to help solve cold cases and find missing people and children in order to find justice for families and victims. This work has been the most rewarding, as families, who felt they had nope, start to feel that people care and there is a light in the hearts of people who care. This is ongoing, so in any free time that I have, this is what I am doing to help research and find new evidence. At times, we just console the families and allow them to vent their emotions about their situation. It's hard to say how much time is put into each of these things, as there is no set time. I try to dedicate as much time as I can to these endeavors. It has been difficult being a student athlete and keeping up with what I have dedicated myself to, but any chance I have, I try to ensure that I keep my commitments.
    John Young 'Pursue Your Passion' Scholarship
    As a current Undergrad at Wilkes University, I have had many opportunities to reflect on my past actions, my current situation, and my future plans. With that said, I realize that the essence of life is making sure that you are a good human being. I was raised to be someone who is cognizant of the shortcomings of other people. For example, if I see anyone begging for food or clothing, I make sure that I am a person who does not ignore the needs of the unfortunate. Additionally, I go out of my way for anyone who needs me whether they simply need a favor, a listening ear, or rational advice, I make myself available. I believe these attributes are what also makes a good attorney. I was taught to be a good person and to ensure that my fellow humans are taken care of, if it is within my ability to do so. My mother and I typically clean out closets and ask others for any extra clothing, supplies or food they may have for students who are at a disadvantage. My mother, a high school teacher, brings many of these items to the less fortunate students in her school. When she tells me the reactions and gratitude that her students illustrate as a result, I feel overwhelmed with joy, as I know I had a hand in helping humanity. She also runs The Cold Case Club at the high school, seeking justice for victims and their families. I am on this team and we explore all avenues and questions surrounding missing children, adults and cold cases. I enjoy being a part of something big and sending a message that even though I haven’t experienced it firsthand, it still matters and should. With that being said, there are many victims whose families want answers. In one case, my mother’s podcast, “Suspect Zero,” covered the Tiffany Valiante case, where a young girl was killed by a train and the NJ Transit deemed her death a suicide. The facts surrounding her case are undeniably questionable and do not make sense. The family knew that there needed to be a better outcome, but because NJ Transit doesn't have the resources or know-how on investigating murder, the case was closed. The family hired a lawyer to help fight for Tiffany's justice. Their lawyer is doing this work pro bono and fighting diligently for Tiffany and her family. There would be no justice without him. The importance of this man in their lives supersedes everything else for them. They feel validated, and the closure they seek can only come from this kind hearted soul who knew immediately that this case needed to be reopened. My family went to visit Tiffany's parents, who were begging for help. We offered some more clues into the murder of Tiffany, along with some suspects who were lurking around them. I want to continue to use my degree to help people in any facet of life.
    Coach "Frank" Anthony Ciccone Wrestling Scholarship
    As a current Undergrad at Wilkes University, I have had many opportunities to reflect on my past actions, my current situation, and my future plans. With that said, I realize that the essence of life is making sure that you are a good human being. I was raised to be someone who is cognizant of the shortcomings of other people. For example, if I see anyone begging for food or clothing, I make sure that I am a person who does not ignore the needs of the unfortunate. Additionally, I go out of my way for anyone who needs me whether they simply need a favor, a listening ear, or rational advice, I make myself available. As a student athlete, I know that my roots and how I was raised dictates the person I have grown to be. My grandfather started Bergen Catholic Wrestling as a club in the 70’s. He grew the program into the powerhouse it is today. My grandfather was inducted into the Hall of Fame for not only his ability to take the team to the highest levels of success, but because he was a father figure to many of his students. Wrestling is in our blood, so when my brother, Daniel started wrestling for Lakeland Jr. Wrestling with the Recreation Department, I knew I had to follow his lead. It was a great decision. I not only loved the sport even more, but I navigated through some tough matches, good coaching, and teammates who cared. While on the Varsity team with my brother, we were honored by the Mayor of Wanaque for winning the championship. It was a great year to have done that with my brother. With that said, none of this came without a cost. I have used wrestling and training to push myself through much adversity that life has thrown at my young life, as well as my family’s. When I filled out my application to Bergen Catholic H.S, I knew that it was going to be a struggle financially. I also knew that if I didn’t keep my grades as high as I did, my parents would reconsider my attending there. Wrestling was seven days a week and I knew I had a tough road ahead of me. During Freshman year, I was hesitant to take any honors classes because of the intense training. I also didn’t want to lose my scholarship, so I played it safe. After the first semester, I was shocked to see that I made the Principal's list. In addition, I made all the Honor’s lists every year and was inducted into the National Honors Society. I tried to remain a humble person who showed gratitude to the school, as well as my parents for pushing through their own adversity in order to make our lives better with four children in tow. I was also acknowledged as one of the hardest working student/athlete in the school. As I am now a Freshman in college, I am working on improving myself every day. I want to be a leader to others. It is important to be a leader who transforms another person’s life, perspective, or trajectory. I pay attention when I am being asked to help. I make myself available whenever I can and I try to get involved even if I am not always asked to do so. I find the need and I help to make it happen, because I can and God gave me the gifts to do so because overcoming my own adversity wasn’t something I did alone.
    Let Your Light Shine Scholarship
    As a current Undergrad at Wilkes University, I have had many opportunities to reflect on my past actions, my current situation, and my future plans. With that said, I realize that the essence of life is making sure that you are a good human being. I was raised to be someone who is cognizant of the shortcomings of other people. For example, if I see anyone begging for food or clothing, I make sure that I am a person who does not ignore the needs of the unfortunate. Additionally, I go out of my way for anyone who needs me whether they simply need a favor, a listening ear, or rational advice, I make myself available and know that my future business will involve the same. I am part of a Cold Case team on this team and we explore all avenues and questions surrounding missing children, adults and cold cases. I enjoy being a part of something big and sending a message that even though I haven’t experienced it firsthand, it still matters and should. There are many victims whose families want answers. In one case, my mother’s podcast, “Suspect Zero,” covered the Tiffany Valiante case, where a young girl was killed by a train and the NJ Transit deemed her death a suicide. The facts surrounding her case are undeniably questionable. The family hired a lawyer to help fight for Tiffany's justice. Their lawyer is working pro bono and fighting diligently for Tiffany and her family. There would be no justice without him. Part of how lawyers make the world a safer place is by creating a safe environment. With crime increasing and removing a sense of security, it's important for lawyers to facilitate the difference between right and wrong by adding a sense of security to society. Without lawyers, society wouldn't be able to diplomatically respond to a situation using mere facts and solutions. As a rising attorney, I would not only create that sense of security, but I would also work a pro bono program for people who are unable to pay such a large retainer. Many times people don't follow through because of the cost of an attorney. I want to take things a step further and not only offer peace of mind, but also a financial peace as well for people who qualify. The efforts of one lawyer can undoubtedly change everything for their client, actually changing a destiny, whether through ties to family or school, or possibly by overturning a decision to remove a child from their home when there was no safety danger. The role of a lawyer takes on so many meanings for a variety of situations. Lawyers create that bridge between the legal system and society. If the lawyer is ethical and uses their knowledge for the greater good, then their role becomes even more valuable. When people feel as though we “are all in this together” then the goal becomes clear. When looking at the Tiffany case, much of the family's peace came from knowing there was someone fighting for the justice of their child. By doing the work pro bono, it solidifies the role of the attorney as not just a hired professional, but someone who took stock in Tiffany's death. That can go a long way for a family who can't get their child's death out of their minds. This is the kind of lawyer/entrepreneur I want to be. If life takes me through that journey, then I will make a promise to keep society safe and show the passion I have for every case I cover.
    Natalie Joy Poremski Scholarship
    As a current Undergrad at Wilkes University, I have had many opportunities to reflect on my past actions, my current situation, and my future plans. With that said, I realize that the essence of life is making sure that you are a good human being. I was raised to be someone who is cognizant of the shortcomings of other people. For example, if I see anyone begging for food or clothing, I make sure that I am a person who does not ignore the needs of the unfortunate. Additionally, I go out of my way for anyone who needs me whether they simply need a favor, a listening ear, or rational advice, I make myself available. I was taught to be a good person and to ensure that my fellow humans are taken care of, if it is within my ability to do so. My mother and I typically clean out closets and ask others for any extra clothing, supplies or food they may have for students who are at a disadvantage. My mother, a high school teacher, brings many of these items to the less fortunate students in her school. When she tells me the reactions and gratitude that her students illustrate as a result, I feel overwhelmed with joy, as I know I had a hand in helping humanity. She also runs The Cold Case Club at the high school, seeking justice for victims and their families. I am on this team and we explore all avenues and questions surrounding missing children, adults and cold cases. I enjoy being a part of something big and sending a message that even though I haven’t experienced it firsthand, it still matters and should. Moreover, I have been an assistant wrestling coach helping and volunteering my time to the younger, junior wrestlers, who are not only in need of wrestling technique, but a person to look up to as well. I try to be a role model for many of these young wrestlers and have been asked to train them at their homes because of the trust that I have built and relationships I have made. I enjoy coaching these kids because it also means that I can help set them in the right direction with God as my coach, but also gives me an opportunity to teach them to work for themselves and others. Part of how lawyers make the world a safer place is by creating a safe environment. With crime increasing and removing a sense of security, it's important for lawyers to facilitate the difference between right and wrong by adding a sense of security to society. Without lawyers, society wouldn't be able to diplomatically respond to a situation using mere facts and solutions. As a rising attorney, I would not only create that sense of security, but I would also work a pro bono program for people who are unable to pay such a large retainer. Many times people don't follow through because of the cost of an attorney. I want to take things a step further and not only offer peace of mind, but also a financial peace as well for people who qualify. It is important to be a leader who transforms another person’s life, perspective, or trajectory. I pay attention when I am being asked to help. I make myself available whenever I can and I try to get involved even if I am not always asked to do so. I find the need and I help to make it happen, because I can and God gave me the gifts to do so.
    Phillip Robinson Memorial Scholarship
    As a current student at Wilkes University, I have had many opportunities to reflect on my past actions, my current situation, and my future plans. With that said, I was raised to be someone who is cognizant of the shortcomings of other people. For example, if I see anyone begging for food or clothing, I make sure that I am a person who does not ignore the needs of the unfortunate. I believe these attributes are what also makes a good attorney. My mother, a high school teacher, brings many of these items to the less fortunate students in her school. When she tells me the reactions and gratitude that her students illustrate, I feel overwhelmed, as I know we had a hand in helping humanity. She also runs The Cold Case Club at the high school, seeking justice for victims and their families. I am on this team and we explore all avenues and questions surrounding missing children, adults and cold cases. I enjoy being a part of something big. With that being said, there are many victims whose families want answers. In one case, my mother’s podcast, “Suspect Zero,” covered the Tiffany Valiante case, where a young girl was killed by a train and the NJ Transit deemed her death a suicide. The facts surrounding her case are undeniably questionable and do not make sense. The family knew that there needed to be a better outcome, but because NJ Transit doesn't have the resources or know-how on investigating murder, the case was closed. The family hired a lawyer to help fight for Tiffany's justice. Their lawyer is going this work pro bono and fighting diligently for Tiffany and her family. Part of how lawyers make the world a safer place is by creating a safe environment. With crime increasing and removing a sense of security, it's important for lawyers to facilitate the difference between right and wrong by adding a sense of security to society. Without lawyers, society wouldn't be able to diplomatically respond to a situation using mere facts and solutions. As a rising attorney, I would not only create that sense of security, but I would also work a pro bono program for people who are unable to pay such a large retainer. Many times people don't follow through because of the cost of an attorney. I want to take things a step further and not only offer peace of mind, but also a financial peace as well for people who qualify. Attorneys hold people responsible for their wrongdoings. They protect the rights of citizens, businesses, and the accused. Getting a good lawyer can change the game for many people. A good lawyer will be so passionate about a case that they cannot sleep until they have found justice. They become the victim and fight for those rights. An experienced, educated, and genuinely caring attorney will encapsulate a platform of security that can give society hope, for many this could be enough. The efforts of one lawyer can undoubtedly change everything for their client, actually changing a destiny, whether through ties to family or school, or possibly by overturning a decision to remove a child from their home when there was no safety danger. T Lawyers create that bridge between the legal system and society. If the lawyer is ethical and uses their knowledge for the greater good, then their role becomes even more valuable. If life takes me through that journey, then I will make a promise to keep society safe and show the passion I have for every case I cover.
    Morgan Levine Dolan Community Service Scholarship
    As a current Undergrad at Wilkes University and a student athlete, I have had many opportunities to reflect on my past actions, my current situation, and my future plans. With that said, I realize that the essence of life is making sure that you are a good human being. I was raised to be someone who is cognizant of the shortcomings of other people. For example, if I see anyone begging for food or clothing, I make sure that I am a person who does not ignore the needs of the unfortunate. Additionally, I go out of my way for anyone who needs me whether they simply need a favor, a listening ear, or rational advice, I make myself available. As an aspiring lawyer, I plan to use my skillset to benefit the less fortunate. My mother, a high school teacher, tells me the reactions and gratitude that her students illustrate as a result, I feel overwhelmed with joy, as I know I had a hand in helping humanity. She also runs The Cold Case Club at the high school, seeking justice for victims and their families. I am on this team and we explore all avenues and questions surrounding missing children, adults and cold cases. I enjoy being a part of something big and sending a message that even though I haven’t experienced it firsthand, it still matters and should. Moreover, I have been an assistant wrestling coach helping and volunteering my time to the younger, junior wrestlers, who are not only in need of wrestling technique, but a person to look up to as well. I try to be a role model for many of these young wrestlers and have been asked to train them at their homes because of the trust that I have built and relationships I have made. I enjoy coaching these kids because it also means that I can help set them in the right direction, but also gives me an opportunity to show how wrestling is not only a sport, but a discipline and mindset. Teaching them to work for goals is not only crucial to the sport, but also effective in their lives as well. As a student athlete, I know that my roots and how I was raised dictates the person I have grown to be. My grandfather started Bergen Catholic Wrestling as a club in the 70’s. He grew the program into the powerhouse it is today. My grandfather was inducted into the Hall of Fame for not only his ability to take the team to the highest levels of success, but because he was a father figure to many of his students. As a result, I not only loved the sport even more, but I navigated through some tough matches, good coaching, and teammates who cared. While on the Varsity team with my brother, we were honored by the Mayor of Wanaque for winning the championship. It was a great year to have done that with my brother, but also all my teammates, who I am still in touch with today. It is important to be a leader who transforms another person’s life, perspective, or trajectory. I pay attention when I am being asked to help. I make myself available whenever I can and I try to get involved even if I am not always asked to do so. I find the need and I help to make it happen, because I can and God gave me the gifts to do so. Making myself available and volunteering has fulfilled my life in so many ways.
    TJ Crowson Memorial Scholarship
    As a current Undergrad at Wilkes University, I have had many opportunities to reflect on my past actions, my current situation, and my future plans. With that said, I realize that the essence of life is making sure that you are a good human being. I was raised to be someone who is cognizant of the shortcomings of other people. For example, if I see anyone begging for food or clothing, I make sure that I am a person who does not ignore the needs of the unfortunate. Additionally, I go out of my way for anyone who needs me whether they simply need a favor, a listening ear, or rational advice, I make myself available. I believe these attributes are what also makes a good attorney. I was taught to be a good person and to ensure that my fellow humans are taken care of, if it is within my ability to do so. She also runs The Cold Case Club at the high school, seeking justice for victims and their families. I am on this team and we explore all avenues and questions surrounding missing children, adults and cold cases. I enjoy being a part of something big and sending a message that even though I haven’t experienced it firsthand, it still matters and should. There are many victims whose families want answers. In one case, my mother’s podcast, “Suspect Zero,” covered the Tiffany Valiante case, where a young girl was killed by a train and the NJ Transit deemed her death a suicide. The facts surrounding her case are undeniably questionable and do not make sense. The family knew that there needed to be a better outcome so the family hired a lawyer to help fight for Tiffany's justice. He took the case pro bono. Part of how lawyers make the world a safer place is by creating a safe environment. With crime increasing and removing a sense of security, it's important for lawyers to facilitate the difference between right and wrong by adding a sense of security to society. As a rising attorney, I would not only create that sense of security, but I would also work a pro bono program for people who are unable to pay such a large retainer. Many times people don't follow through because of the cost of an attorney. I want to offer a financial peace as well for people who qualify. Attorneys hold people responsible for their wrongdoings. They protect the rights of citizens, businesses, and the accused. Getting a good lawyer can change the game for many people. A good lawyer will be so passionate about a case that they cannot sleep until they have found justice. They become the victim and fight for those rights. An experienced, educated, and genuinely caring attorney will encapsulate a platform of security that can give society hope, for many this could be enough. The efforts of one lawyer can undoubtedly change everything for their client, actually changing a destiny, whether through ties to family or school, or possibly by overturning a decision to remove a child from their home when there was no safety danger. . Lawyers create that bridge between the legal system and society. If the lawyer is ethical and uses their knowledge for the greater good, then their role becomes even more valuable. This is the kind of lawyer I want to be. If life takes me through that journey, then I will make a promise to keep society safe and show the passion I have for every case I cover.
    TEAM ROX Scholarship
    As a current Undergrad at Wilkes University, I have had many opportunities to reflect on my past actions, my current situation, and my future plans. With that said, I realize that the essence of life is making sure that you are a good human being. I was raised to be someone who is cognizant of the shortcomings of other people. For example, if I see anyone begging for food or clothing, I make sure that I am a person who does not ignore the needs of the unfortunate. Additionally, I go out of my way for anyone who needs me whether they simply need a favor, a listening ear, or rational advice, I make myself available. I was taught to be a good person and to ensure that my fellow humans are taken care of, if it is within my ability to do so. My mother and I typically clean out closets and ask others for any extra clothing, supplies or food they may have for students who are at a disadvantage. My mother, a high school teacher, brings many of these items to the less fortunate students in her school. When she tells me the reactions and gratitude that her students illustrate as a result, I feel overwhelmed with joy, as I know I had a hand in helping humanity. She also runs The Cold Case Club at the high school, seeking justice for victims and their families. I am on this team and we explore all avenues and questions surrounding missing children, adults and cold cases. I enjoy being a part of something this big. Moreover, I have been an assistant wrestling coach helping and volunteering my time to the younger, junior wrestlers, who are not only in need of wrestling technique, but a person to look up to as well. I try to be a role model for many of these young wrestlers and have been asked to train them at their homes because of the trust that I have built and relationships I have made. I enjoy coaching these kids because it also means that I can help set them in the right direction, but also gives me an opportunity to show how wrestling is not only a sport, but a discipline and mindset. Teaching them to work for goals is not only crucial to the sport, but also effective in their lives as well. As a student athlete, I know that my roots and how I was raised dictates the person I have grown to be. My grandfather started Bergen Catholic Wrestling as a club in the 70’s. He grew the program into the powerhouse it is today. I not only loved the sport, but I navigated through some tough matches, good coaching, and teammates who cared. While on the Varsity team with my brother, we were honored by the Mayor of Wanaque for winning the championship. It was a great year to have done that with my brother, but also my teammates, who I am still in touch with today. We continue to volunteer and give back to the program. It is important to be a leader who transforms another person’s life, perspective, or trajectory. I pay attention when I am being asked to help. I make myself available whenever I can and I try to get involved even if I am not always asked to do so. I find the need and I help to make it happen, because I can and God gave me the gifts to do so. Making myself available and volunteering has fulfilled my life in so many ways.
    Margot Pickering Aspiring Attorney Scholarship
    As a current Undergrad at Wilkes University, I have had many opportunities to reflect on my past actions, my current situation, and my future plans. With that said, I realize that the essence of life is making sure that you are a good human being. I was raised to be someone who is cognizant of the shortcomings of other people. For example, if I see anyone begging for food or clothing, I make sure that I am a person who does not ignore the needs of the unfortunate. Additionally, I go out of my way for anyone who needs me whether they simply need a favor, a listening ear, or rational advice, I make myself available. I believe these attributes are what also makes a good attorney. I was taught to be a good person and to ensure that my fellow humans are taken care of, if it is within my ability to do so. My mother and I typically clean out closets and ask others for any extra clothing, supplies or food they may have for students who are at a disadvantage. My mother, a high school teacher, brings many of these items to the less fortunate students in her school. When she tells me the reactions and gratitude that her students illustrate as a result, I feel overwhelmed with joy, as I know I had a hand in helping humanity. She also runs The Cold Case Club at the high school, seeking justice for victims and their families. I am on this team and we explore all avenues and questions surrounding missing children, adults and cold cases. I enjoy being a part of something big and sending a message that even though I haven’t experienced it firsthand, it still matters and should. With that being said, there are many victims whose families want answers. In one case, my mother’s podcast, “Suspect Zero,” covered the Tiffany Valiante case, where a young girl was killed by a train and the NJ Transit deemed her death a suicide. The facts surrounding her case are undeniably questionable and do not make sense. The family knew that there needed to be a better outcome, but because NJ Transit doesn't have the resources or know-how on investigating murder, the case was closed. The family hired a lawyer to help fight for Tiffany's justice. Their lawyer is going this work pro bono and fighting diligently for Tiffany and her family. There would be no justice without him. The importance of this man in their lives supersedes everything else for them. They feel validated, and the closure they seek can only come from this kind hearted soul who knew immediately that this case needed to be reopened. My family went to visit Tiffany's parents, who were distraught and begging for help. We offered some more clues into the murder of Tiffany, along with some suspects who were lurking on the Facebook page. Her lawyer was more than inviting when offering the information. He accepted our explanations and believed we were on to something. Part of how lawyers make the world a safer place is by creating a safe environment. With crime increasing and removing a sense of security, it's important for lawyers to facilitate the difference between right and wrong by adding a sense of security to society. Without lawyers, society wouldn't be able to diplomatically respond to a situation using mere facts and solutions. As a rising attorney, I would not only create that sense of security, but I would also work a pro bono program for people who are unable to pay such a large retainer. Many times people don't follow through because of the cost of an attorney. I want to take things a step further and not only offer peace of mind, but also a financial peace as well for people who qualify. Attorneys hold people responsible for their wrongdoings. They protect the rights of citizens, businesses, and the accused. Getting a good lawyer can change the game for many people. A good lawyer will be so passionate about a case that they cannot sleep until they have found justice. They become the victim and fight for those rights. An experienced, educated, and genuinely caring attorney will encapsulate a platform of security that can give society hope, for many this could be enough. The efforts of one lawyer can undoubtedly change everything for their client, actually changing a destiny, whether through ties to family or school, or possibly by overturning a decision to remove a child from their home when there was no safety danger. The role of a lawyer takes on so many meanings for a variety of situations. Lawyers create that bridge between the legal system and society. If the lawyer is ethical and uses their knowledge for the greater good, then their role becomes even more valuable. When people feel as though we “are all in this together” then the goal becomes clear. When looking at the Tiffany case, much of the family's peace came from knowing there was someone fighting for the justice of their child. By also doing the work pro bono, it solidifies the role of the attorney as not just a hired professional, but someone who took stock in Tiffany's death. That can go a long way for a family who can't get their child's death out of their minds for even a second. This is the kind of lawyer I want to be. If life takes me through that journey, then I will make a promise to keep society safe and show the passion I have for every case I cover.
    William A. Stuart Dream Scholarship
    As a current Undergrad at Wilkes University, I have had many opportunities to reflect on my past actions, my current situation, and my future plans. With that said, I realize that the essence of life is making sure that you are a good human being. I was raised to be someone who is cognizant of the shortcomings of other people. For example, if I see anyone begging for food or clothing, I make sure that I am a person who does not ignore the needs of the unfortunate. I was taught to be a good person and to ensure that my fellow humans are taken care of, if it is within my ability to do so. My mother, a high school teacher, brings many of these items to the less fortunate students in her school. When she tells me the reactions and gratitude that her students illustrate as a result, I feel overwhelmed with joy, as I know I had a hand in helping humanity. She also runs The Cold Case Club at the high school, seeking justice for victims and their families. I am on this team and we explore all avenues and questions surrounding missing children, adults and cold cases. I enjoy being a part of something big and sending a message that even though I haven’t experienced it firsthand, it still matters and should. Moreover, I have been an assistant wrestling coach helping and volunteering my time to the younger, junior wrestlers, who are not only in need of wrestling technique, but a person to look up to as well. I try to be a role model for many of these young wrestlers and have been asked to train them at their homes because of the trust that I have built and relationships I have made. I enjoy coaching these kids because it also means that I can help set them in the right direction, but also gives me an opportunity to show how wrestling is not only a sport, but a discipline and mindset. As a student athlete, I know that my roots and how I was raised dictates the person I have grown to be. My grandfather started Bergen Catholic Wrestling as a club in the 70’s. He grew the program into the powerhouse it is today. My grandfather was inducted into the Hall of Fame for not only his ability to take the team to the highest levels of success, but because he was a father figure to many of his students. I not only loved the sport even more, but I navigated through some tough matches, good coaching, and teammates who cared. While on the Varsity team with my brother, we were honored by the Mayor of Wanaque for winning the championship. It was a great year to have done that with my brother, but also all my teammates, who I am still in touch with today. It is important to be a leader who transforms another person’s life, perspective, or trajectory. I pay attention when I am being asked to help. I make myself available whenever I can and I try to get involved even if I am not always asked to do so. I find the need and I help to make it happen, because I can and God gave me the gifts to do so. Making myself available and volunteering has fulfilled my life in so many ways. I will use this scholarship to pay for my college expenses in order to get my degree and help more people in need.
    Colby R. Eggleston and Kyla Lee Entrepreneurship Award
    I have had many opportunities to reflect on my past actions, my current situation, and my future plans. With that said, I realize that the essence of life is making sure that you are a good human being. I was raised to be someone cognizant of the shortcomings of other people. For example, if I see anyone begging for food or clothing, I make sure that I am a person who does not ignore the needs of the unfortunate. Additionally, I go out of my way for anyone who needs me whether they simply need a favor, a listening ear, or rational advice, I make myself available. I believe these attributes are what also makes a good business owner. I was taught to be a good person and to ensure that my fellow humans are taken care of if it is within my ability to do so. My mother and I typically clean out closets and ask others for any extra clothing, supplies or food they may have for students who are at a disadvantage. My mother, a high school teacher, brings many of these items to the less fortunate students in her school. When she tells me the reactions and gratitude that her students illustrate as a result, I feel overwhelmed with joy, as I know I had a hand in helping humanity. She also runs The Cold Case Club at the high school, seeking justice for victims and their families. With that being said, there are many victims whose families want answers. In one case, my mother’s podcast, “Suspect Zero,” covered the Tiffany Valiante case, where a young girl was killed by a train and the NJ Transit deemed her death a suicide. The facts surrounding her case are undeniably questionable and do not make sense. The family knew that there needed to be a better outcome, but because NJ Transit didn't have the resources or know-how to investigate the murder, the case was closed. There would be no justice without their lawyer who is working pro bono. The importance of this man in their lives supersedes everything else for them. Part of how business owners make the world a safer place is by creating a safe environment. As a rising attorney/business owner, I would not only create that sense of security, but I would also work a pro bono program for people who are unable to pay such a large retainer. Many times people don't follow through because of the cost of an attorney. I want to take things a step further and not only offer peace of mind but also financial peace as well for people who qualify. When people feel as though we “are all in this together” then the goal becomes clear. When looking at the Tiffany case, much of the family's peace came from knowing someone was fighting for the justice of their child. By also doing the work pro bono, it solidifies the role of the attorney as not just a hired professional, but someone who took stock in Tiffany's death. That can go a long way for a family who can't get their child's death out of their minds for even a second. This is the kind of lawyer I want to be. If life takes me through that journey, then I will make a promise to keep society safe and show the passion I have for every case I cover. Because my major is Finance, I am trying to incorporate the two degrees and lifestyles so that when I become a business owner, I can model this for my team.
    Jorian Kuran Harris (Shugg) Helping Heart Foundation Scholarship
    I was taught to be a good person and to ensure that my fellow humans are taken care of if it is within my ability to do so. My mother and I typically clean out closets and ask others for any extra clothing, supplies or food they may have for students who are at a disadvantage. My mother, a high school teacher, brings many of these items to the less fortunate students in her school. When she tells me the reactions and gratitude that her students illustrate as a result, I feel overwhelmed with joy, as I know I had a hand in helping humanity. She also runs The Cold Case Club at the high school, seeking justice for victims and their families. I am on this team and we explore all avenues and questions surrounding missing children, adults and cold cases. I enjoy being a part of something big and sending a message that even though I haven’t experienced it firsthand, it still matters and should. With that being said, there are many victims whose families want answers. In one case, my mother’s podcast, “Suspect Zero,” covered the Tiffany Valiante case, where a young girl was killed by a train and the NJ Transit deemed her death a suicide. The facts surrounding her case are undeniably questionable and do not make sense. The family knew that there needed to be a better outcome, but because NJ Transit didn't have the resources or know-how to investigate the murder, the case was closed. The family hired a lawyer to help fight for Tiffany's justice. Their lawyer is doing this work pro bono and fighting diligently for Tiffany and her family. There would be no justice without him. The importance of this man in their lives supersedes everything else for them. They feel validated, and the closure they seek can only come from this kind-hearted soul who knew immediately that this case needed to be reopened. My family went to visit Tiffany's parents, who were distraught and begging for help and there was no better feeling than humanitarian work. With my degree, I want to continue doing this type of work through any business I pursue. I would like to extend my services to people who are not able to afford it and be a person who understands the struggles of others and helps to make it more manageable by any means necessary.
    Frank and Nelcie Williams Memorial Scholarship
    As a current Senior at Bergen Catholic High School, I have had many opportunities to reflect on my past actions and my plans for the future. With that said, I realize that the essence of life is making sure that you are a good human being. I was raised to be someone cognizant of the shortcomings of other people. I go out of my way for anyone who needs me whether they simply need a favor, a listening ear, or rational advice. I believe these attributes are what also make a good attorney. I was taught to ensure that my fellow humans are taken care of if it is within my ability to do so. My mother and I typically clean out closets and ask others for any extra clothing, supplies or food they may have for students who are at a disadvantage. My mother, a high school teacher, brings many of these items to the less fortunate students in her school. When she tells me the reactions and gratitude that her students illustrate as a result, I feel overwhelmed, as I know I had a hand in helping humanity. She also runs The Cold Case Club, seeking justice for victims and their families. I am on this team and we explore all avenues and questions surrounding missing children, adults and cold cases. I enjoy being a part of something bigger. With that being said, there are many victims whose families want answers. In one case, my mother’s podcast, “Suspect Zero,” covered the Tiffany Valiante case, where a young girl was killed by a train and the NJ Transit deemed her death a suicide. The facts surrounding her case are undeniably questionable and do not make sense. The family hired a lawyer to help fight for Tiffany's justice. Their lawyer is doing this work pro bono and fighting diligently for Tiffany and her family. There would be no justice without him. The importance of this man in their lives supersedes everything else for them. They feel validated, and the closure they seek can only come from this kind-hearted soul who knew immediately that this case needed to be reopened. Part of how lawyers make the world a safer place is by creating a safe environment. With crime increasing and removing a sense of security, lawyers need to facilitate the difference between right and wrong by adding a sense of security to society. Without lawyers, society wouldn't be able to diplomatically respond to a situation using mere facts and solutions. As a rising attorney, I would not only create that sense of security, but I would also work a pro bono program for people who are unable to pay such a large retainer. Many times people don't follow through because of the cost of an attorney. I want to take things a step further and not only offer peace of mind but also financial peace as well for people who qualify. When people feel as though we “are all in this together” then the goal becomes clear. When looking at the Tiffany case, much of the family's peace came from knowing someone was fighting for the justice of their child. By also doing the work pro bono, it solidifies the role of the attorney as not just a hired professional, but someone who took stock in Tiffany's death. This is the kind of lawyer I want to be. If life takes me through that journey, then I will make a promise to keep society safe and show the passion I have for every case I cover.
    Sean Carroll's Mindscape Big Picture Scholarship
    Ironically, my mother has been teaching me about the law of attraction and how to remain positive about my life and what I want out of my life. As she has recently been instilling small ideas in my head to understand how this works. Since I've started, strange, but miraculous things have been happening. I prayed for college money to allow me to pursue my goals and my coach showed up at my door to tell me I won a 1500 scholarship. Although not enough, I was so appreciative and suddenly realized that I have the power to dictate what the universe has to offer me. I've also noticed that nature is the source of all our needs. I have been learning how to forage various plants, as well as how to ground myself in nature to help heal my own body. When humans begin to realize how powerful we are, especially when working together, the opportunities are endless. With that being said, my house is the equivalent to a treehouse. We live on a lake that has offered much to our family, both mentally and physically. The universe has given much abundance and unless we are aware of what it has to offer, we are at a disadvantage. To be ignorant to what has been given would be a detriment. Humans have the ability to heal through nature and it's gifts. My grandmother passed away from brain cancer and before she died my mother felt helpless. She wanted to save her, but didn't know what to do. After educating herself on the healing properties the universe provides, she regrets not knowing this before. There are so many ways to encourage this education. Our school systems should be teaching children at a young age how to survive in nature and heal themselves naturally. Working on our mental and physical state is crucial for our survival. If more people were made aware, the energy we spend in the negative mindframe would dissipate and we could live more positively. I would work at instilling this mindset into the minds of the young. I would have benefitted from learning how the universe and nature work in complete sync with the human body. We don't even realize how much we rely on those two things for survival. Kids today are way too focused on material wealth, when it's rwsllybsterijgvusvin the face everyday..,and it's free.
    Liv For The Future Scholarship
    As a current Senior at Bergen Catholic High School, I have had many opportunities to reflect on my past actions, my current situation, and my future plans. With that said, I realize that the essence of life is making sure that you are a good human being. I was raised to be someone who is cognizant of the shortcomings of other people. For example, if I see anyone begging for food or clothing, I make sure that I am a person who does not ignore the needs of the unfortunate. Additionally, I go out of my way for anyone who needs me whether they simply need a favor, a listening ear, or rational advice, I make myself available. I was taught to be a good person and to ensure that my fellow humans are taken care of, if it is within my ability to do so. My mother and I typically clean out closets and ask others for any extra clothing, supplies or food they may have for students who are at a disadvantage. My mother, a high school teacher, brings many of these items to the less fortunate students in her school. When she tells me the reactions and gratitude that her students illustrate as a result, I feel overwhelmed with joy, as I know I had a hand in helping humanity. She also runs The Cold Case Club at the high school, seeking justice for victims and their families. I am on this team and we explore all avenues and questions surrounding missing children, adults and cold cases. I enjoy being a part of something big and sending a message that even though I haven’t experienced it firsthand, it still matters and should. Moreover, I have been an assistant wrestling coach helping and volunteering my time to the younger, junior wrestlers, who are not only in need of wrestling technique, but a person to look up to as well. I try to be a role model for many of these young wrestlers and have been asked to train them at their homes because of the trust that I have built and relationships I have made. I enjoy coaching these kids because it also means that I can help set them in the right direction, but also gives me an opportunity to show how wrestling is not only a sport, but a discipline and mindset. Teaching them to work for goals is not only crucial to the sport, but also effective in their lives as well. As a student athlete, I know that my roots and how I was raised dictates the person I have grown to be. My grandfather started Bergen Catholic Wrestling as a club in the 70’s. He grew the program into the powerhouse it is today. My grandfather was inducted into the Hall of Fame for not only his ability to take the team to the highest levels of success, but because he was a father figure to many of his students. Wrestling is in our blood, so when my brother, Daniel started wrestling for Lakeland Jr. Wrestling with the Recreation Department, I knew I had to follow his lead. It was a great decision. I not only loved the sport even more, but I navigated through some tough matches, good coaching, and teammates who cared. It is important to be a leader who transforms another person’s life, perspective, or trajectory. I find the need and I help to make it happen, because I can and God gave me the gifts to do so.
    TJ Crowson Memorial Scholarship
    My family struggles financially. I used to complain and make my parents feel badly that we didn't have enough to do a lot of what the other kids in my affluent high school were doing. What I failed to recognize was the very fact that I made it to an affluent school while my parents worked two jobs each, was something I didn't appreciate at the time. Looking back, I would hear my mother cry in her room because of the challenges she faced. We are still experiencing the same as we enter college. I have 20k to pay per semester and the college wants a 2000 dollar payment a month. My parents are killing themselves. I can remember my mother needing legal advice and the lawyer asking for a 400 dollar an hour retainer. My parents raised me to be resourceful and figure out how to do things on a minimal budget. With that being said, after law school, I want to make legal advice, as well as legal help available to struggling families. I want to offer pro bono services to give back to the community and to humankind. Lawyers are there to help, but that help always comes with a huge price tag. I want my clients to know that there are people out there who are willing to help. My goal is to provide as much help as I can, while still being reasonable about my own finances. I believe people need to start helping others to gain the true rewards that life has to offer. This is an important cause for me because I know how my own family needed help and no one used their law degree for anything other than making sure their bill was paid first. I'm not unrealistic about being paid, but I'm also not unrealistic about how our society is suffering from unnattainable goals. Humankind needs to kick in and show their true superpowers. All other causes will be addressed once we understand how to unselfishly make the world work. I look back now with an acute understanding of the importance and value that my parents instilled in me and my siblings. We didn't have much, but what we do have are caring hearts, understanding minds, and attainable goals. I'm proud of how far I've gone and have confidence on where I am going. I appreciate having an open mind and and open heart.
    Coach "Frank" Anthony Ciccone Wrestling Scholarship
    It has been a long journey as a student athlete. Wrestling for one of the top wrestling high schools in NJ challenged every belief and hope I had in the sport. Many overly inflated students and coaches didn't take the time to see the value in wrestlers that didn't make it to states, but failed to recognize that actual coaching would have built on kids who could have made it, instead of burning out the kids already being used for the wind and school recognition. I have been an assistant wrestling coach helping and volunteering my time to the younger, junior wrestlers, who are not only in need of wrestling technique, but a person to look up to as well. I try to be a role model for many of these young wrestlers and have been asked to train them at their homes because of the trust that I have built and relationships I have made. I enjoy coaching these kids because it also means that I can help set them in the right direction, but also gives me an opportunity to show how wrestling is not only a sport, but a discipline and mindset. Teaching them to work for goals is not only crucial to the sport, but also effective in their lives as well. As a student athlete, I know that my roots and how I was raised dictates the person I have grown to be. My grandfather started Bergen Catholic Wrestling as a club in the 70’s. He grew the program into the powerhouse it is today. My grandfather was inducted into the Hall of Fame for not only his ability to take the team to the highest levels of success, but because he was a father figure to many of his students. Wrestling is in our blood, so when my brother, Daniel started wrestling for Lakeland Jr. Wrestling with the Recreation Department, I knew I had to follow his lead. It was a great decision. I not only loved the sport even more, but I navigated through some tough matches, good coaching, and teammates who cared. While on the Varsity team with my brother, we were honored by the Mayor of Wanaque for winning the championship. It was a great year to have done that with my brother, but also all my teammates, who I am still in touch with today. It is important to be a leader who transforms another person’s life, perspective, or trajectory. I pay attention when I am being asked to help. I make myself available whenever I can and I try to get involved even if I am not always asked to do so. I find the need and I help to make it happen, because I can and God gave me the gifts to do so. At the end of senior year, I finally received a standing ovation for making the most progress as well as being the most humble and hardest worker. I felt like Rudy.
    Christian Dunbar Athletics Scholarship
    As a current Senior at Bergen Catholic High School, I have had many opportunities to reflect on my past actions, my current situation, and my future plans. With that said, I realize that the essence of life is making sure that you are a good human being. I was raised to be someone who is cognizant of the shortcomings of other people. For example, if I see anyone begging for food or clothing, I make sure that I am a person who does not ignore the needs of the unfortunate. Additionally, I go out of my way for anyone who needs me whether they simply need a favor, a listening ear, or rational advice, I make myself available. I was taught to be a good person and to ensure that my fellow humans are taken care of, if it is within my ability to do so. My mother and I typically clean out closets and ask others for any extra clothing, supplies or food they may have for students who are at a disadvantage. My mother, a high school teacher, brings many of these items to the less fortunate students in her school. When she tells me the reactions and gratitude that her students illustrate as a result, I feel overwhelmed with joy, as I know I had a hand in helping humanity. She also runs The Cold Case Club at the high school, seeking justice for victims and their families. I am on this team and we explore all avenues and questions surrounding missing children, adults and cold cases. I enjoy being a part of something big and sending a message that even though I haven’t experienced it firsthand, it still matters and should. Moreover, I have been an assistant wrestling coach helping and volunteering my time to the younger, junior wrestlers, who are not only in need of wrestling technique, but a person to look up to as well. I try to be a role model for many of these young wrestlers because of the trust that I have built and relationships I have made. I enjoy coaching these kids because it also means that I can help set them in the right direction, but also gives me an opportunity to show how wrestling is not only a sport, but a discipline and mindset. Teaching them to work for goals is not only crucial to the sport, but also effective in their lives as well. As a student athlete, I know that my roots and how I was raised dictates the person I have grown to be. My grandfather started Bergen Catholic Wrestling as a club in the 70’s. My grandfather was inducted into the Hall of Fame for not only his ability to take the team to the highest levels of success, but because he was a father figure to many of his students. Wrestling is in our blood, so I not only loved the sport even more, but I navigated through some tough matches. While on the Varsity team with my brother, we were honored by the Mayor of Wanaque for winning the championship. It was a great year to have done that with my brother, but also all my teammates. It is important to be a leader who transforms another person’s life, perspective, or trajectory. I pay attention when I am being asked to help. I make myself available whenever I can and I try to get involved. I find the need and I help to make it happen, because I can and God gave me the gifts to do so.