Athletics in my life has shaped me to be who I am today. Through the sport of softball, I have learned the qualities of being an effective leader, communication through a team, and working with others for an end goal. I have found myself more confident, assertive, determined, and cooperative over the years of playing. I have found myself taking the role of a leader, both vocally and by example, on my high school and travel ball teams. As a pitcher, many look to me to take control of the game and set the tone. This can be mentally challenging, but it is something I have had to overcome through the years and has only benefitted me. In the dugout and on the field, I am the loudest, cheering on my teammates, and providing calls for our next play or move. My participation in this sport has allowed me to see people who try to lead in the wrong way and others who are effective leaders. I wanted to be an effective leader when I started playing, and I feel that I have accomplished this, though I look forward to learning more from other leaders as I go on to play in college. Through cross country, I have also learned the importance and beauty of self-drive and having the will to go on even when it is hard. Cross country is a sport that not only physically but mentally pushes you to go on and be better each time. Many times during practices or meets, I would think to myself "It would be so much easier if we just stopped to walk." Yet, to reach my goals, I knew that I would need to push myself further to accomplish anything. It is a hard thing to be able to do, but everything worthwhile is hard. The feeling of self-pride when I reach my goals at the end of a race, knowing I pushed myself to keep going, is the best feeling I have experienced.
Relationships are the most important thing in life. My participation in athletics has led me to the best relationships I have in my life, allowing me to surround myself with people who are good to me. Not only have I found some of my best and closest friends through experiences as teammates, but I have also built strong relationships with coaches. Many of the coaches I have had have changed my life in so many ways: teaching valuable lessons, believing in me and providing another figure in my life that I can go to with anything. In contrast, I have also had coaches who haven't believed in me or allowed me to grow. These coaches taught me a valuable lesson that not everyone around you is going to be on your side, and yet you can still grow by focusing on everything else that you have.
Sports have defined my life and given me everything I need to grow. I am grateful for the lessons I have learned, the people I have met, and the experiences I have had. I look forward to continuing with a degree in sports management and design to surround myself with people who have an interest in sports as much as I do and build strong relationships with them!