"Coming out is about letting people in." I was struggling at the time with the tangled emotions of uncovering and claiming my own identity as a bisexual woman. One day, my friend's words had a profound effect on me, shifting my thinking from that of a possible confrontation. My coming-out process to the rest of my friends and family has been an act of opening a door that is pulling back. My close group of friends was the first that I chose to let in. But there was no fear to be found. Releasing this part of myself with them felt like letting out a prolonged breath I had been holding for too long. Fortunately, their responses were overwhelmingly positive. There were questions, of course, a natural interest with part of me that they did not know. But the questions were asked in a context of love and genuine interest. They came to understand me more fully. Our conversation expanded, we came to know and understand each other better, and I felt seen for the first time in these significant relationships. Informing my family was more of a struggle and, yes, a more anxiety-ridden process. My mother's side was steeped in some old-fashioned ways, and I wasn't sure if my truth would be accepted. I started with my cousins, who hugged me tightly. They accepted me unconditionally, providing a powerful reassurance that I used in getting ready to inform my parents. With them, it wasn't one dramatic declaration. There were moments of initial confusion and a need for them to absorb what I was sharing with them. But their affection for me eventually got the better of any old ways and values. What I was most astonished by was how coming out allowed my family to learn more about me. They started to understand some of the fears I had carried with me, the motivations behind some of my decisions, and the inner strength it had taken to reach this place of self-acceptance. It was about revealing an essential part of who I was, something that had influenced the experiences I had had and the way I saw the world. They saw my sense of vulnerability, my courage, and my sheer sense of self. In return, they offered their sense of vulnerability, their fears, and hopes for my well-being. This was a new height of honesty and intimacy in our family life. By revealing myself, I was not simply declaring a fact about myself; I was introducing my loved ones to my inner world. I allowed them to understand that my capacity for love is as anyone else's, that my values of kindness and compassion are integral to my very self, and that what I have gained as a bisexual woman. "You have to tell them eventually." Those were my friend's words that started this whole thing. Being open with my family and friends, I've not only been accepted but understood in a richer, deeper way. They view the layers of my identity that underpin it. This opening up has not only strengthened my most important relationships but also provided me with the authority to be more authentic and to become a truth that is part of who I am.

Some favorite memories are tied to food, thanks to the privilege of growing up in two different cultures. This background allowed for experiences with delicious traditional Puerto Rican dishes from my father, especially during holidays: “Arroz con Gandules” (Puerto Rican Rice with Pigeon Peas), and homemade “Pasteles” (a type of tamal made with malanga, pumpkin, green banana, and plantain, filled with savory pork and wrapped in banana leaves). My mother’s wonderful Pupusas, a cornerstone of Salvadoran cuisine, also contributed to these cherished moments. These experiences sparked an interest in the art of cooking. However, challenges arose during freshman year, including difficulties with reading and the loss of a family member, which caused a significant setback in daily motivation and triggered feelings of depression. Thankfully, with my parents' love and support, overcoming those obstacles became possible. During sophomore year, an opportunity to enroll in the Jacobson Culinary Arts Academy (JCAA) Magnet program arose, marking the beginning of a culinary journey and igniting a passion for cooking. This exposure fostered a love for bringing people together to share their creations. Enjoying the process of helping others in the kitchen and creating delicious dishes became a driving force. This passion fueled my determination to graduate from JCAA, despite challenges in catching up with other students. Throughout this time, exceeding the required volunteer hours through school became a focus. Volunteering to prepare and serve breakfast for the elderly at multiple churches and assisting with the JCAA school luncheon to help raise funds for student competitions (SkillsUSA) were important contributions. Additionally, volunteering for two consecutive years at “Evening with the Chefs” by The Ryan Wells Foundation provided unique experiences, including working closely with Southern Bay Bakery in 2023, while in 2024, serving in the VIP section was an exciting opportunity. Participation is planned again for the upcoming event in May 2025. Chef Tiffany Camacho and Chef Vincenzo Pesce were assisted in preparing the Academy for recertification by the American Culinary Federation Education Foundation Accrediting Commission (ACFEFAC), resulting in JCAA earning Exemplary Accreditation, which is valid until 12/31/2028. SkillsUSA Courtesy Corps offered experiences at both the State and National levels. During this time, working vigorously under pressure to meet demanding goals became a valuable lesson. These experiences and involvement with SkillsUSA helped in overcoming previous challenges in interacting with others. Encouragement from Chef Tiffany Camacho and my father led me to pursue the SkillsUSA regional 4 officer role for 24-25, and now the position of Regional Officer for Region 4 has been achieved. Excitement grows for making new connections with students and industry professionals while expanding networks and gaining a deeper understanding of the remarkable opportunities available. A leader embodies responsibility, decision-making, and motivation for others to work together effectively. Setting a good example while listening to others and valuing their opinions is crucial. These experiences have underscored the importance of clear communication and teamwork. This passion has led to setting future goals, with short-term objectives of graduating from TSHS and JCAA. By gaining more hands-on experience through internships and volunteer opportunities, furthering education at your university, and earning a Bachelor's Degree in Baking & Pastry Arts with an option to focus on the Food and Beverage Industry. After graduation, intentions include working in a Bakery, Restaurant, or Corporate setting, creating new flavors and ideas, showcasing sharpened culinary skills, and envisioning a place where customers happily enjoy food while trying something new and trending. In the long term, aspirations include becoming a Corporate Food and Beverage Director, collaborating with others, and providing leadership and strategies to create a stellar customer experience.