Rugby isn’t just a sport for me; it’s my second family. My team has been there for me through everything, from early morning practices to tough games, and the bonds I’ve formed with my teammates are some of the strongest relationships in my life. These are the people who have celebrated my highs, lifted me through my lows, and some I know will even be my bridesmaids. Being part of this team has shown me that rugby is about so much more than athleticism. It is about trust, loyalty, and lifting each other in every way. We fight for each other on the field, and we support each other in life, and that is what makes being part of this team so meaningful.
To me, there is rugby, and there is men’s rugby. When I think of rugby, I don’t think about boys playing. I think about the women I play with, the teammates who push me, challenge me, and inspire me to be stronger every day. Women’s rugby has taught me what it means to be fearless. On our team, strength, determination, and heart have nothing to do with gender. We support each other, celebrate each other, and grow together on and off the field. Rugby has given me confidence in my abilities, pride in my voice, and a deep appreciation for the incredible power of women supporting women. Every time we take the field, we are proving that women can be just as tough, committed, and skilled as anyone else.
Being part of my college rugby team has been one of the most meaningful experiences of my life. I get to practice, compete, and grow alongside teammates who are not only amazing athletes but also my closest friends. We encourage each other, laugh together, learn from each other, and cheer each other on in ways that go far beyond the pitch. Some of my favorite moments have nothing to do with tries or wins. They are the late-night rides home after a tough game, the inside jokes that last for months, and the meals we share after practice where we talk about everything from exams to life. Rugby has given me lifelong friendships, a support system I can always rely on, and memories I will carry forever.
What makes my rugby family so special is how we support each other in life, not just in the game. I have seen teammates help each other through the loss of parents, the passing of friends, breakups, and other challenges that feel impossible to face alone. We lift each other during heartbreak, celebrate milestones, and comfort each other in ways that matter. These experiences have taught me that being part of a team is about more than practice and games. It is about showing up for people, listening, and being present. Some of my closest friends started as teammates, and now they are people I can count on for anything.
Rugby has shaped me in ways beyond the field. It has taught me resilience, leadership, and the value of true friendship. My team has given me a sense of belonging, a place where I can be myself, and people who constantly inspire me to push my limits. Being part of this rugby family fills my life with joy, purpose, and connection. Rugby is not just a sport. It is a family, a community, and a way of life, and I am all in.