Being authentically me is something that I'm still trying to figure out myself. People change, grow, and find all kinds of new paths and ventures as they grow older; there's never a moment where you ever get to truly stop growing, and that's probably for the best. We can always strive to become better people, better friends, better citizens, and better students. I can't describe all of me without going over every experience I've had so far, not to mention the experiences I'll have in my future. If there's anything I can describe, though, it's who I am now, who I want to be, and how I want to get there. To be authentically me, I can't really just choose this singular point in time and leave out anything before or after where I am today because I acknowledge the constant change that is life, but that certainly doesn't stop me from trying to give a summary of so far.
For one thing, change and growth are a big part of my mindset in both that I appreciate change and also try to avoid it. In a sense, some change is great and worthwhile in pursuing; becoming a better person, learning more about the world, and finding new depths in seemingly surface-level aspects of life are all good changes. All the same, though, there exist many negative changes. What happens when things get difficult? What happens when something gets out of hand? That's where prevention and awareness of these negative changes come in; doing what you can for those around you and preparing for the worst are important because you can make the right changes now to lessen the impact of the wrong changes later.
Another aspect of my mindset is balance. Balance can be seen anywhere. How much money am I spending compared to how much I actually have? How much time am I spending relaxing in comparison to the time I spend getting something done? How much do I value the people around me in comparison to the value I give to my academic or professional career? Life is a big balancing act; there's no one way to keep every aspect of life perfectly in check at all times, but you can try and juggle how much time, energy, and resources you allot to certain things. As long as you can upkeep this balance, you'll be able to succeed. Sometimes, it might be tempting to drop everything and only focus on one thing, but it can put a lot of stress on you. I put a lot of stress on trying to get the best grades, and it's made it to where sometimes I feel I can't relax, but that's an opportunity to grow and learn how I want to get things done while giving myself time to be a person.
Finally, be there for others. Life is challenging. Life has a lot of problems that, even if you keep everything in check, you can still see yourself dealing with. Some of the greatest minds of our time know this to be true: you can do everything right and still fail. Something important to know about that fact is that you aren't the only person dealing with problems. Everyone around you, whether you know them or not, could be having a great day, or they could have some kind of genuine problem to sort out. If you get the opportunity, try to do what you can, especially if you care about them. As Robin Williams once put it, "Be kind. Always." I personally believe that's excellent advice because there's no telling what someone's dealing with.
In general, there are a lot of things that being an authentic 'me' entails, and the 'me' I am now is not going to be the same one later on. People change as life does, for better or worse. However, I believe if I hold these values true, I can succeed in life and help others around me do so too. I want to live a life where I make a difference, and even if it's just being there for just a few people while I can, I can appreciate that. If you want to be authentically me, acknowledge the depth of change, keep life in balance, and be there for the world, because you never know what's coming next.