On Sunday, October 23, 2011, I was rushed from the comfort of my home into the chilly morning air. It was early in the morning, and my mother ushered my four-year-old sister and I, eight at the time, out the door to my aunt’s house down the street. An hour later she appeared in my aunt's door frame with a pale face and shaky voice. My father passed away.
It was not unexpected. He was diagnosed with terminal brain cancer a year earlier. In some ways, our family lost him months before that morning. His cancer treatment was aggressive and changed his personality. With each radiation treatment that was combined with chemotherapy and high doses of steroids, my dad’s patience dwindled. Even though I was very young, I remember the frustration and anger that brewed inside him. I watched my kind, patient, and handsome father disappear. His treatment made him a different person.
2011 was hard, but the years that followed were not any easier. My community rallied for my family during my father’s illness but seemed to disappear after his death. As his funeral came and went, the shock of his death faded away and the grief started to sink in. Our lives would never be the same without him and that was a frightening realization. Our family fought, we were angry that he was gone. We felt isolated in our grief. After that storm came the gentle rain. Our tears flowed, we held each other, and the three of us decided that the most heart-wrenching experience we had lived through would not dictate our lives.
Resiliently, we carried on. In high school, I immersed myself in my studies, specifically chemistry and biology, to distract from the hardships that came with growing up in a single-parent household. Academics, while time-consuming, was not just another responsibility to juggle. It was my escape. My AP Biology teacher opened my eyes to cancer immunology research. This research included the invention of more dignified treatments for life-threatening cancers. This is where my journey in medical research began.
The next year, I committed to the University of Florida, where I am majoring in biochemistry. My freshman year, I became a research assistant in the department of infectious diseases at UF Health’s Shands Hospital.
Last summer, I continued research by interning in Dr. David Weiner’s lab at the Wistar Institute, which is a part of the University of Pennsylvania’s research complex. This internship included assisting brilliant scientists create vaccines for HIV and various cancers.
Upon my return to Florida, my classes became increasingly more challenging. I began new courses including organic chemistry, microbiology, and physics. I was challenged as I continued my research at UF Health, which occupied 20 hours of the week. Additionally, I committed six hours on weekends to Habitat for Humanity, where I gave back to the community, helping a single mother build her home. As I navigated this crowded schedule, I continued to prioritize my studies. I finished my classes with A’s, maintained a 3.9 GPA, and gained knowledge pertaining to immunology, drug development, and medicine.
I am extremely grateful for the support and knowledge that the University of Florida gave me, in addition to my resilient and encouraging mother, who believed in my ability to succeed in highly competitive programs.
I have persevered through my grief and accomplished these educational milestones because of my ability to find hope in academics and research. This scholarship would allow me to keep my focus on my dreams and lessen the hefty costs that comes with pursuing higher education.