In school, I have been discriminated against for having ADHD and autism. Students have bullied me, and teachers have been frustrated with me. Ridiculed for the time it takes for me to understand something and yelled at for my sensitive hearing. Blame me for my reactions to loud noises and overwhelming environments. Most of all are bothered by this, searching for cures. But what if they thought how I felt? If my disability bothers them, then why don't they think of how it bothers me? Why treat me differently for having a disability if I am a human and bleed red too? My brain functions differently, but we are still the same. You hear I have AuDHD and think I'm hyperactive, over-flawed, and too reactive. Maybe you might infantilize me and treat me like a child as everyone else. You may think I'm an idiot for having AuDHD, but there is no greater idiot than those who are ignorant. Trying to "cure" us by spanking, electrocution, unreasonable punishment, drugging us with stimulants, or putting us in sports we don't even like. There is no cure for me, for I was made like this by Higher Powers and genetics. Treating me differently from others won't do anything nor will it benefit anyone. However, this is not even half of what millions of people with autism, ADHD, and AuDHD experience.
What most don't realize is that my AuDHD makes me a stronger person. My mind is never quiet, which leaves room for much creativity that's not seen in neurotypicals. My hyperfocus and attention to detail are far from that of a neurotypical, which opens doors to motivation and special interests. These later become learning opportunities, inspirations, careers, sway, and personal growth. Like any other person, career growth is possible through only education and learning. My attention to detail and good memory will fit with any prestigious school or job that wants to welcome a neurodivergent with open arms.
The negativity that has been engraved in my already oddly-structured mind was difficult to overcome since they have been there for a long time. However, learning from life experiences gives coping mechanisms and life lessons. Loud noises and overstimulation became "tantrums", which then became insults and more triggers. With learning to cope with my triggers, meltdowns were scarce. By learning about my learning style, being "stupid" became a noticeable intelligence. By learning not to take things to heart, my social anxiety became strong social skills and benevolence. People with AuDHD can do anything they wish if they have the right kind of support. My education is motivated by my past and those currently experiencing what I have lived. I wish to inspire neurodivergent people to care for themselves and give them motivation to learn positive things with no limits. Having a brain that's made different won't make you any more or less successful. Success comes from motivation, not from brain structure or being "normal", which is what I want all neurodivergent people to understand.