Music has changed every single person's life. Some people realize that they enjoy it, others just can't live without it. And then there are others who can live without it. There are also a lot of people who, without music, probably would not still be with us anymore. I am more of a can't live without it type of person. Music has just been there with me for so long, I don't know how I'd function without it. I would spend the rest of my life trying to remember songs I listened to or played (I play the trumpet) just to remember what it's like to have music in my life. But my passion for music didn't come from nowhere. It came from my mom, my friends, and, to me most importantly, my grandfather.
Most of my childhood I remember is with my mom. My mom used to be a single mother and for a big part of my childhood, it was just my mom and I living in Connecticut. When I was a newborn, my grandparents took care of me in Texas (more on that later). I vividly remember a weekly routine my mom and I had on Fridays when it was just the two of us living in Connecticut. My mom would pick me up from school and we would go to Pizza Hut and get to eat these things they used to sell called Pizza rolls. I don't really know how to explain the concept, all I know is that it was delicious. Although I miss those days and the pizza rolls (they were discontinued a couple of years later), my favorite part is that I got to play songs both of us liked and sing-a-long to them. If it were not for that, I wouldn't have such a good relationship with my mom as I do now. My mom and I still do that to this day, keeping us connected still.
I am an introvert, which means that it is harder for me to be more social or start a conversation. So naturally, I don't have that many friends and I am fine with that. But the friends I do have all have one thing in common with me. Their love for music. There is a difference between liking, loving, and really loving music. All of my friends are the really loving music type of people, and I wouldn't have it any other way. Most of the friends I've made have been through music. My best friends and I were in the same Drumline for our school and that's how we met. My girlfriend and I met through a musical, which includes a lot of music. Almost every friend I know started out as strangers, but through music, we became friends.
When I was just a baby, my mom went off to New York for college so she could get her sociology degree. Since I was just a baby, my mother left me in the care of my grandparents. My family is from El Salvador, and therefore via the name of the country and statistics of ethnicity, my family is also Catholic. So I would go to chruch every Sunday with my grandparents and uncles and aunts. I have very little memory of my childhood before I moved to Connecticut, but I do know one thing. My grandfather loved to sing for the church. I'd join him just because it looked fun. My grandfather recently passed away, and as a way of reviving his love for music, I want to practice my skills for him.