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Destiny Melton

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Bio

My name is Destiny, and I am driven by a deep passion for helping others. I aspire to become a Speech Pathologist so I can support disabled children and adults in finding their voice and confidence. I am dedicated to my family, active in my church and community, and energized by my love for art, sports, history, music, traveling, and learning. I am committed to growing academically and personally so I can make a meaningful impact in the lives of others.

Education

Austin Community College District

Associate's degree program
2022 - 2027
  • Majors:
    • Liberal Arts and Sciences, General Studies and Humanities

Miscellaneous

  • Desired degree level:

    Doctoral degree program (PhD, MD, JD, etc.)

  • Graduate schools of interest:

  • Transfer schools of interest:

  • Majors of interest:

  • Not planning to go to medical school
  • Career

    • Dream career field:

      speech pathology

    • Dream career goals:

      Future Interests

      Advocacy

      Politics

      Volunteering

      Philanthropy

      Entrepreneurship

      Sandra West ALS Foundation Scholarship
      ALS has impacted me by helping me understand what it feels like to watch someone you love lose abilities they once depended on. When my mother battled cancer, one of the hardest parts was watching her slowly lose her ability to speak. Some days she could only whisper, and other days she couldn’t get any words out at all. My family and I taught her basic ASL so she could communicate when her voice failed her. Simple signs like “water,” “pain,” and “yes” became her way of staying connected to us. Seeing how much relief she felt when she could finally express herself again changed the way I understood communication. It also helped me empathize deeply with families affected by ALS, who face similar challenges with speech, mobility, and independence. That experience is a major reason I want to become a speech pathologist and serve disabled students who struggle to be understood. This scholarship would support my education by easing the financial pressure that has followed my family since my mother’s illness and passing. Medical bills shaped my childhood, and even now I balance school with work and responsibilities that make it difficult to focus fully on my studies. Receiving this scholarship would allow me to stay committed to my degree without constantly worrying about how I will afford tuition, books, and living expenses. It would give me the stability I need to continue pursuing my dream of becoming a speech pathologist and eventually creating a home for teen mothers who have been rejected by their families. My Christian faith teaches me to serve others with compassion and patience, and this scholarship would help me build a life centered on that purpose. I stay involved with ALS-related causes because I understand the emotional and physical toll that degenerative illnesses place on families. I support the ALS Association by sharing educational posts, participating in awareness campaigns, and helping spread information about early signs and caregiving resources. I have also taken part in Walk to Defeat ALS events, where I help raise awareness and support families who are currently navigating the disease. I stay connected to Project ALS through online advocacy and by helping share their research updates with others who may not know how quickly the disease progresses or how urgently support is needed. My goal is always to show up for people who feel overwhelmed by caregiving, grief, or fear, because I know how isolating it can feel when someone you love is losing abilities they once had. My dream is to use my education to help children find their voices, build confidence, and feel seen. I want to honor my mother’s memory by giving others the support she needed and by living a life rooted in service, faith, and compassion. This scholarship would not only support my education but also strengthen my ability to make a meaningful difference in the lives of others.
      Forever90 Scholarship
      A life of service is not just something I hope to live. It is something I feel called to embody. My Christian faith teaches me that service is an act of love, and that we are meant to lift others the way God has lifted us. That belief shapes every part of my future. I want to become a speech pathologist and work with disabled students who often feel unseen or misunderstood. I also dream of creating a home where teen mothers who have been rejected by their families can find safety, support, and a chance to rebuild their lives. These goals are rooted in the same foundation. I want to serve people who need compassion, patience, and someone who believes in them. My education will give me the tools to do that work with skill and purpose. Studying communication disorders will prepare me to help students who struggle to express themselves. Many of them face challenges that go far beyond speech. They deal with frustration, isolation, and the fear of being judged. I want to be someone who helps them find confidence and connection. When a student learns to communicate more clearly, they gain more than a skill. They gain a sense of identity and possibility. Higher education will allow me to understand their needs, advocate for them, and support them in ways that truly change their lives. My dream of building a home for teen mothers comes from the same place of faith and service. I have seen how quickly young mothers can be pushed aside when they need support the most. I want to create a space where they can feel loved, respected, and guided. A place where they can finish school, learn life skills, and raise their children in stability instead of fear. My education will help me understand child development, trauma informed care, and the systems that affect young families. It will also give me the knowledge I need to build programs that empower them instead of limiting them. I believe service is not measured by grand gestures. It is measured by consistency, compassion, and the willingness to show up for people who feel forgotten. My faith teaches me that every person has value and purpose. I want my life to reflect that truth. Whether I am helping a child speak their first clear sentence or helping a young mother take her first steps toward independence, I want my work to honor God by honoring the people He places in my path. Higher education is the bridge between my calling and my ability to carry it out. It will give me the training, credibility, and understanding I need to serve others with excellence. My goal is to use my education not just to build a career, but to build a life that uplifts others. I want to create spaces where people feel safe, supported, and capable of becoming who they were meant to be. That is how I hope to embody a life of service, and that is how I plan to use my education to make a lasting impact.
      Mary Jane Sanders Memorial Scholarship
      My family’s experience with ASL inspired my dream in a way that connects to everything I have lived through. ASL wasn’t something I grew up using every day, but it became meaningful because of how communication showed up during the hardest moments of my life. When my mom was fighting cancer, there were times when she struggled to speak. I was only seven, but I remember watching her try to communicate with her hands, her eyes, or small gestures when her voice wouldn’t come out. I didn’t understand the medical side of anything back then, but I understood the frustration of wanting to say something and not being able to. That memory stayed with me. My mom actually started improving for a while, but my dad stopped her final treatment because he didn’t believe in medicine. She passed away a few months later, and then he died too, leaving me an orphan. Losing both of my parents so young forced me to grow up fast. I had to learn how to take care of myself and how to keep going even when everything felt overwhelming. Through all of that, I became more aware of how important communication is, not just speaking, but being understood. ASL came into my life later, but when it did, it felt familiar. It reminded me of those moments with my mom when she couldn’t speak but still tried to express herself. ASL showed me that communication is more than sound. It is connection, dignity, and a way for people to express themselves even when their voice doesn’t work the way they want it to. That realization is one of the biggest reasons I want to become a speech pathologist. I want to help children who struggle with communication, especially disabled students. I know what it feels like to need someone patient. I know what it feels like to be misunderstood or overlooked. I want to be the person who listens and helps kids find their voice, whether that’s through speech, ASL, or alternative communication methods. My connection to ASL also ties into my long‑term dream. After I build my career, I want to create a home for teen mothers who have been rejected by their families. I know what it feels like to lose your support system. I know what it feels like to be alone, scared, and unsure of what comes next. I want to give those girls a place where they can breathe, finish school, and raise their children without judgment. Communication plays a huge role in that dream too. Teen mothers need someone who listens to them. Their babies need someone who understands early communication and development. And the mothers need to learn how to communicate with their children in healthy, supportive ways. ASL and speech therapy both fit into that vision because they are about connection, understanding, and giving people the tools they need to express themselves. My family’s experience with ASL didn’t come from a perfect place, but it gave me purpose. It taught me how powerful communication can be. It taught me how important it is to help people who feel unheard. And it pushed me toward a future where I can make a real difference, not just for myself but for others who need someone to believe in them.
      TOMORROW X TOGETHER (TXT) MOA Scholarship
      1. When did you find TXT? I found TXT during a time when I was really struggling! I was stressed with school and bills and just trying to keep myself together. I lost my mom to cancer when I was seven. She was getting better but my dad stopped her last treatment because he didnt believe in medicine. She passed a few months later and then he died too, so I ended up an orphan. Life always felt heavy and lonely. I was scrolling through old text messages of friends I no longer have and they mentioned TXT. I looked it up and listened to some of thier music and I was hooked! Their music felt like a break from my reality. It was the first thing in a long time that made me feel giddy. 2. What do you think is one of the most important characteristics of a MOA? I think being supportive is the most important! TXT is open about their feelings and struggles and MOAs give that same energy back. Just being kind and sticking with them. 3. Do you have a TXT bias, and if so, why did you choose them? Yes! My bias is Soobin. He has this soft calm vibe that makes me feel safe. He doesnt try to act perfect and I like that a lot. 4. Who is your ult bias, if any, of any group? Soobin(yes again:)) is my ult! I connect with him the most. 5. What is your favorite TXT song, and why? Blue Hour! It feels like sadness and hope mixed together. Thats how my life feels most days. It reminds me that even though things are confusing there are still moments that feel bright. 6. Have you had a chance to see TXT live in concert before? No! I have never been able to afford a concert in my life. I am too poor to travel or buy tickets. Between school and bills I barely keep up. But even without seeing them live they still give me joy. 7. What was your favorite album concept, and why? The Dream Chapter! It feels like growing up too fast and trying to figure out who you are. That matches my life a lot. 8. How are you currently paying for school? Financial aid, scholarships, and working while studying! It is stressful but I am trying my best. 9. How will the scholarship help you? What gaps can it fill? This scholarship would give me something I have never had which is a chance to experience something fun! I have never been to a concert. I grew up poor and after losing both my parents everything has been about survival. I always have to choose bills or school over anything else. This scholarship would let me have a moment of happiness! It would fill the gap between just surviving and actually feeling joy for once. 10. How has TXT influenced you for good? TXT helps me on days when life feels too heavy! Their music distracts me from stress and grief. They make me feel less alone. There like a big warm hug to me. 11. How will you use your education to do good in the world? I am studying to become a speech pathologist so I can help disabled kids find their voice! I also want to create a home for teen moms who got pushed out by their families. I know what it feels like to lose your support system. I want to give them the support I never had. My education is how I plan to turn everything I lived through into something that helps other people!
      Sharra Rainbolt Memorial Scholarship
      Cancer did not just affect my family. It reshaped my entire life. It took my mother when I was seven, left us in debt, and forced me to grow up long before I should have. It also taught me painful lessons about loss, responsibility, and the importance of advocating for the people you love. Those lessons continue to shape who I am and the future I am working toward. My mother fought cancer with everything she had. For a while, it seemed like she was getting better. She went through treatment, followed the medical advice she was given, and held onto hope. But when she reached her final round of treatment, my father made the decision to stop it. He did not believe in medicine, and he convinced himself that she did not need it anymore. Within a few months, she was gone. I was too young to understand the medical details, but I understood the consequences. I understood what it meant to lose the person who loved me most because someone else made a choice that should never have been theirs to make. Her death left us with emotional pain and financial hardship. The medical bills were overwhelming, and the debt followed us long after she passed. My father struggled, and instead of stepping up, he pulled away. I carried resentment toward him for years, not only for the decision he made, but for the way he handled everything after. When he died shortly after my mother, I became an orphan. I had to learn how to survive without either parent, and that experience shaped me more than anything else in my life. Cancer taught me how fragile life is, but it also taught me how strong I can be. I learned how to take care of myself, how to stay focused, and how to keep moving forward even when everything felt impossible. I learned that grief does not disappear, but it can be turned into purpose. Instead of letting my losses define me, I chose to let them guide me. Through this experience, I developed a deep sense of empathy for people who feel powerless or unheard. I know what it feels like to need someone to fight for you. That is one of the reasons I want to become a speech pathologist and work with disabled students. I want to help children who struggle to communicate, because I understand how painful it is when your voice is ignored or dismissed. I want to be the person who listens, who advocates, and who believes in their potential. My experience with cancer also shaped my dream of creating a home for teen mothers who have been rejected by their families. I know what it feels like to lose your support system. I know what it feels like to be alone. I want to give young mothers the stability my own mother never had and the support I needed after losing both parents. I want to help them finish school, build confidence, and create a future for themselves and their children. Cancer took a lot from me, but it also gave me clarity. It taught me that life is too short to live without purpose. It taught me that helping others is the most meaningful way to honor the people I lost. And it taught me that even after the deepest pain, it is still possible to build something better.
      Jill S. Tolley Scholarship
      I believe I am uniquely deserving of this award because everything I am working toward comes from a place of purpose, resilience, and a genuine desire to serve others. My goals are not just dreams I hope to reach someday. They are responsibilities I feel called to fulfill because of the experiences that shaped me. I am pursuing higher education not only to build a better future for myself, but to create opportunities for people who often feel unseen, unsupported, or forgotten. My “why” begins with my family and the challenges I grew up facing. Being raised by a single mother taught me early that strength is not about having an easy life. It is about choosing to keep going even when the odds are stacked against you. I watched my mom work tirelessly to provide for me, and her sacrifices became the foundation of my work ethic. I learned to be independent, determined, and focused because I saw firsthand what it looks like to fight for a better future. Her example is one of the biggest reasons I am committed to pursuing higher education. My purpose also grew from the losses I experienced. Losing my Aunt Tracy at a young age, and later losing my grandpa and grandma, changed the way I see life and opportunity. Their deaths pushed me to take my goals seriously and to honor them by becoming someone they would be proud of. Grief taught me empathy, patience, and the importance of showing up for people who feel alone. Those lessons guide every dream I have today. One of those dreams is becoming a speech pathologist and working with disabled students. I want to help children who struggle to communicate in ways the world easily understands. I know what it feels like to need someone who believes in you, and I want to be that person for my future students. Communication is more than speaking. It is confidence, connection, and the ability to be seen. Helping a child find their voice is helping them find their place in the world, and that is the kind of impact I want to make. My second dream is to create a home for teen mothers who have been rejected by their families. I want to offer them safety, stability, and the chance to continue their education. Many young mothers are judged instead of supported, and I want to change that. I want to help them build a future where they can succeed both as students and as parents. This dream comes from watching the struggles of single mothers and understanding how powerful support can be when someone feels alone. Higher education is the bridge between who I am now and the person I am working to become. It will give me the knowledge, training, and credibility to turn my purpose into real change. I am not pursuing a degree for the title or the recognition. I am pursuing it because I want to lift others the way I once needed to be lifted. I am deserving of this award because I am committed to using my education to create a positive impact. My “why” is rooted in compassion, shaped by experience, and driven by the belief that helping others is the most meaningful path I can take.
      Sola Family Scholarship
      Being raised by a single mother shaped me in ways that continue to influence every goal I set and every decision I make. My mom carried responsibilities that were meant for two people, yet she faced them with determination, sacrifice, and a kind of strength that I did not fully understand until I grew older. Watching her navigate life on her own taught me resilience, compassion, and the importance of creating a future that honors the struggles of the people who raised me. Growing up, I saw my mom work long hours, stretch every dollar, and still find the energy to show up for me. She never complained, even when I could see the exhaustion in her face. Instead, she taught me that challenges are not reasons to give up. They are reasons to push harder. Her example shaped my work ethic and my belief that I can overcome anything, even when the path feels overwhelming. Being raised by a single mother also taught me independence. I learned early how to take care of myself, how to stay focused, and how to keep moving forward even when things felt uncertain. I did not have the luxury of waiting for someone else to solve problems for me. I had to grow up faster, but that experience made me stronger and more capable. It taught me to trust myself and to believe that I can build the life I want. At the same time, being raised by one parent taught me empathy. I saw how hard life can be when support is limited, and that shaped my desire to help others who feel unseen or overwhelmed. It is one of the reasons I want to become a speech pathologist and work with disabled students. I know what it feels like to need someone who understands, someone who listens, and someone who believes in your potential. My mom was that person for me, and I want to be that person for others. My upbringing also influenced my dream of creating a home for teen mothers who have been rejected by their families. I watched my mom raise me alone, and I saw how isolating that can be. I want to give young mothers the support my mom never had. I want to help them finish school, learn life skills, and build confidence in themselves as parents and individuals. My purpose is rooted in the lessons I learned from watching my mom fight for our future. Being raised by a single mother shaped me into someone who is determined, compassionate, and committed to making a positive impact. It taught me that strength is not about having an easy life. It is about choosing to keep going, even when everything feels heavy. My mom showed me what resilience looks like, and now I carry that with me into every goal I pursue. Her sacrifices are the reason I am returning to school, the reason I want to serve others, and the reason I believe I can create a better future. Everything I am becoming is because of the foundation she built, one challenge at a time.
      Arin Kel Memorial Scholarship
      If I could start a business with my deceased sibling, I would build something rooted in compassion, healing, and second chances. Even though we never had the chance to grow up side by side, I often imagine the kind of person they would have been. I picture someone who understood struggle the way I do, someone who cared deeply about people who feel forgotten, and someone who would want to turn their own story into something meaningful. The business we would create together would reflect that spirit. We would open a community center focused on support for young mothers, disabled students, and families who feel like they have nowhere else to go. It would be a place where people are met with patience instead of judgment, and where every service is designed to help them rebuild their confidence and their future. My sibling would bring their own strengths, and I would bring my passion for speech pathology and working with students who communicate differently. Together, we would create a space where every person feels seen. The center would offer tutoring, childcare, life‑skills classes, and emotional support for teen mothers who have been rejected by their families. It would also include speech and language services for children who need help finding their voice. I imagine my sibling helping run the programs, greeting families at the door, and making sure everyone feels welcome. I would handle the therapeutic side, working with children who need someone to believe in their potential. This business would not just be a building. It would be a safe place for people who have been overlooked, misunderstood, or pushed aside. It would be a reflection of the kind of love I wish my sibling could have experienced in their own life. In a way, creating this business would allow me to carry them with me into the future. It would turn loss into purpose and grief into something that helps others heal. Starting this business with my sibling would be a way to honor them by giving families the support we both would have wanted to see in the world. Even though they are not here physically, the idea of building something meaningful with them gives me strength. It reminds me that love does not end, and that the people we lose can still shape the way we choose to help others. I don’t know who she would be now, but I know one thing for sure. If she could choose someone to give a brand new life to; she wouldn’t choose herself.
      Jerrye Chesnes Memorial Scholarship
      Returning to school has been one of the most meaningful and challenging decisions I have ever made. It was not a simple academic choice. It was a choice shaped by grief, responsibility, and the determination to rebuild myself after losing three people who meant everything to me. The deaths of my Aunt Tracy, my grandpa, and my grandma changed the way I saw my future and forced me to grow in ways I never expected. Their loss became both the hardest obstacle I have faced and the strongest motivation I carry with me. My Aunt Tracy died young, long before anyone was ready to say goodbye. She was the kind of person who believed in me even when I doubted myself. She encouraged me to dream bigger and reminded me that education could open doors that once felt out of reach. Losing her felt like losing a piece of my foundation. Not long after, I lost my grandpa and my grandma, two people who shaped my childhood and taught me what it means to be steady, patient, and kind. Grieving all three of them so close together left me feeling unanchored. It was hard to focus, hard to plan, and hard to imagine a future when the people who always pushed me forward were no longer here to see it. Going back to school meant facing that grief head‑on. It meant learning how to study again while carrying the weight of loss. There were days when concentrating felt impossible and days when motivation came and went without warning. I had to relearn how to balance my emotions with my goals. I had to remind myself that returning to school was not just about earning a degree. It was about honoring the people I lost by continuing to move forward. One of the biggest challenges was rebuilding my confidence. Grief has a way of making everything feel uncertain. I questioned whether I was strong enough, focused enough, or ready enough to return to school. But each time I doubted myself, I remembered the lessons my family left behind. My aunt taught me to believe in my potential. My grandparents taught me to keep going even when life becomes heavy. Their influence became the quiet push I needed to keep showing up. Another challenge was adjusting to the academic environment after being away. I had to relearn how to manage deadlines, stay organized, and trust my ability to succeed. It took time to find my rhythm again, but every small victory reminded me that I was capable. Returning to school while grieving taught me resilience in a way nothing else could. It showed me that strength is not about pretending everything is fine. It is about continuing to move forward even when it hurts. These losses also shaped my purpose. They made me more compassionate, more patient, and more determined to help others who feel unseen or unsupported. They strengthened my desire to become a speech pathologist and to work with disabled students who need someone to believe in them. They also deepened my dream of creating a home for teen mothers who have been rejected by their families. Experiencing loss taught me how important it is to have someone in your corner. I want to be that person for others. Returning to school has not been easy, but it has been transformative. I am learning, healing, and building a future that honors the people I lost. Their memory is the reason I keep going, and their love is the reason I will succeed.
      First Generation College, First Generation Immigrant Scholarship
      My personal experiences have shaped my sense of purpose by teaching me how powerful support can be. As a first generation college student, I grew up knowing that education could open doors, but I also knew I would have to figure out many steps on my own. My family encouraged me, but they couldn’t guide me through college decisions or academic pathways. This made me more determined to become the kind of support system I once needed. This understanding is what led me to speech pathology. I want to work with disabled students who struggle to communicate in ways the world easily understands. I have seen how quickly people make assumptions about a child’s abilities when they cannot express themselves clearly. I want to help students find their voice, build confidence, and feel understood. My purpose is to make sure they are not overlooked simply because they communicate differently. My experiences also shaped a second dream: creating a home for teen mothers who have been rejected by their families. I want to offer them safety, stability, and the chance to continue their education. Many young mothers are judged instead of supported, and I want to change that. I want to help them build a future where they can succeed both as students and as parents. Being first generation taught me that purpose grows from empathy. I want my education to become a tool for lifting others, especially those who feel forgotten. That is the impact I hope to make.
      WCEJ Thornton Foundation Low-Income Scholarship
      Higher education is more than a degree for me. It is the foundation I need to build the future I have dreamed about since I was young. I want to become a speech pathologist and work with disabled students, especially those who struggle to communicate in ways that the world easily understands. I have always believed that communication is more than words. It is connection, confidence, and the ability to be seen. Many students with disabilities are misunderstood not because they lack intelligence, but because they lack support. I want to be someone who gives them the tools, patience, and encouragement they deserve. Attending college will give me the clinical training, hands‑on experience, and professional knowledge I need to serve them well. My passion for speech pathology comes from watching how communication can change a person’s life. When a child finally expresses a thought clearly, or when a teenager gains the confidence to speak without fear, something shifts inside them. They begin to see themselves differently. They begin to believe in their own potential. I want to be part of that transformation. Higher education will allow me to study language development, communication disorders, and therapeutic techniques so that I can help students find their voice, both literally and emotionally. I want to work in schools, especially in communities where resources are limited, because every child deserves someone who believes in their ability to grow. But my dreams do not stop in the classroom. I also hope to create a home for teen mothers who have been rejected by their families. I want a space large enough to welcome both them and their children, a place where they can feel safe, supported, and valued. Many teen moms are pushed aside, judged, or left without guidance. I want to give them stability, education, and a chance to build a future they can be proud of. My goal is to help them finish school, learn life skills, and gain confidence as both students and parents. I want them to know that their story does not end with hardship. It can begin again with hope. Higher education will prepare me for this dream by teaching me how to advocate, lead, and understand the systems that affect young mothers. I want to learn about child development, trauma‑informed care, and community support programs. I want to understand how to build a nonprofit, how to manage resources, and how to create a safe environment that meets emotional and practical needs. College will give me the knowledge and credibility to turn this vision into something real. My goal is to create a positive impact by combining both of these passions: supporting disabled students through speech therapy and supporting young mothers through education and stability. In both cases, I want to help people who are often overlooked. I want to give them the tools to succeed, the confidence to grow, and the belief that they deserve a future filled with opportunity. I want to be someone who listens, someone who understands, and someone who shows up when others do not. Attending college is the first step toward building the life I want to live and the impact I want to make. It will give me the education, training, and experience I need to serve others with compassion and skill. My dreams are big, but they are rooted in a genuine desire to help people who need support, encouragement, and someone who believes in them. Higher education will not only shape my future, but it will allow me to shape the futures of others. That is the kind of difference I want to make.
      Charles B. Brazelton Memorial Scholarship
      Everyone has something that makes them feel a little out of place. For some people it is their height or weight. For others it is the way they talk, the hobbies they choose, or the things they get excited about. My own awkward thing was not something you could see right away. It showed up in the way I thought, the way I reacted to things, and the way I moved through the world. I was the kid who lived in my head a little too much, and it made me stand out in ways I did not always understand. My curiosity was the first thing people noticed. I asked questions constantly, not to be difficult, but because my mind never stopped trying to connect ideas. I wanted to know why rules existed, why people behaved the way they did, and why things worked the way they worked. Teachers usually found it entertaining, but classmates sometimes looked at me like I was speaking a different language. I could feel the shift in the room whenever I raised my hand again, and even though no one said anything unkind, I learned to shrink myself a little. I tried to ask fewer questions, even when they were bouncing around in my mind. Another thing that made me stand out was how easily I became obsessed with random topics. I would fall into deep research spirals about things that had nothing to do with school. One month I was memorizing constellations. Another month I was studying handwriting styles. Then I was learning everything I could about sea creatures. I talked about these things with way too much enthusiasm, and people did not always know how to respond. I used to feel embarrassed when I realized I had been talking for too long, but now I see that passion as something that makes me unique. It taught me how to learn on my own and how to stay curious about the world. I also had a habit of laughing when I was nervous. It was not intentional, and it definitely made serious moments even more awkward. If someone confronted me, or if I had to apologize, or if the room suddenly became tense, my mind chose laughter as a coping strategy. It confused people and made me look like I did not care, even when I cared a lot. Over time, I learned to explain it instead of hiding it. Once people understood it, the awkwardness faded and it became something the people close to me found endearing. All of these quirks shaped the way I saw myself. For a long time, I thought they were flaws that I needed to fix. I thought being different meant being wrong. But as I got older, I realized that everyone has something that sets them apart. The tall kid who never played sports. The left handed kid who held their pencil in a way that confused everyone. The swimmer who could not shoot a basketball to save his life. We all have something that makes us memorable. My curiosity, my enthusiasm, and my nervous laughter are not things I try to hide anymore. They help me learn, connect, and grow. They remind me that being different is not something to be embarrassed about. It is something that makes you who you are. Once you learn to embrace it, the awkwardness becomes something much more meaningful.
      Olivia Rodrigo Fan Scholarship
      Olivia Rodrigo’s music has always resonated with me because of the way she captures the emotional confusion of growing up, questioning yourself, and trying to navigate the world while carrying feelings that seem too heavy for your age. One lyric that has stayed with me comes from her song “Enough for You”: “I wore makeup when we dated ’cause I thought you’d like me more.” Even though the line is written about a relationship, it reflects a much broader struggle I’ve faced; changing myself to meet expectations that were never truly mine. That lyric captures the pressure to perform, to impress, and to mold yourself into someone you hope others will accept. For much of my life, I tried to be the version of myself that I thought people wanted. I softened my personality, hid my insecurities, and tried to appear more confident than I felt. I worried that being fully myself would make me stand out in the wrong ways. Rodrigo’s lyric made me realize how often I shaped my identity around other people’s comfort instead of my own truth. It wasn’t always about appearance; sometimes it was about pretending I wasn’t hurt, staying quiet when I wanted to speak, or acting like things didn’t bother me when they did. Hearing her express that same pressure helped me understand that I wasn’t alone in feeling that way. As I’ve grown, I’ve had to confront the ways I internalized those expectations. There were times when I felt like I was constantly falling short academically, socially, and emotionally. I struggled with the fear that if I showed my real self, people would pull away. Rodrigo’s music helped me see that vulnerability isn’t a flaw; it’s a sign of honesty. Her willingness to express insecurity and self‑doubt gave me permission to acknowledge my own without feeling weak or dramatic. Her songs also explore the painful but necessary process of letting go of people, of old versions of yourself, and of dreams that no longer fit. I’ve experienced that in friendships that drifted apart, opportunities that didn’t work out, and moments where I had to choose myself even when it meant disappointing others. Rodrigo’s music taught me that grief and growth often happen at the same time. She doesn’t pretend that healing is simple; she shows that it’s messy, imperfect, and deeply personal. At the same time, her work celebrates resilience. Even in her most vulnerable songs, there is an underlying message that you can rebuild, even when you feel lost or unsure. That message has shaped the way I approach my own challenges. Instead of seeing setbacks as proof that I’m not enough, I’ve learned to see them as part of becoming someone stronger and more grounded. I’ve learned to trust my voice, even when it shakes, and to value the parts of myself I used to hide. The lyric from “Enough for You” reminds me of how far I’ve come. I no longer feel the need to mold myself into someone else’s idea of “enough.” Rodrigo’s music helped me understand that authenticity is its own kind of triumph. My journey hasn’t been perfect, but it has been honest, and that honesty has become my greatest strength. Her work continues to remind me that I’m allowed to take up space, to feel deeply, and to grow at my own pace.