My mother raised us mostly on her own, carrying more weight than any one person should have to bear. I was too young to fully understand court dates, paperwork, or the system deciding where we belonged. I only understood absence, my father was never at the court meetings. My mother never stopped fighting for us, the only one fighting.
She worked endlessly, proving again and again that we were worth bringing home and that she wanted us back. When we were finally reunited, I wasn't expecting perfection and I definitely didn't get it. My father was like a sturdy tree with dry branches, solid but fragile in some places. All it took was the wrong breathe for him to love or hate you.
I remember being shaken awake in the middle of the night, the world still dark and quiet outside our windows. My mother’s voice was low but urgent as she told us to get up and go to the car. I remember seeing all the bags already packed in the trunk, I remember thinking she must've planned this, and I remember being scared he would wake up.
We didn’t know where we would sleep or what tomorrow would bring. All we knew was that we were together in the car, driving.
There were periods of homelessness when food felt like something other families had but we were still searching for. Some nights were defined by exhaustion, cramped spaces, and uncertainty about what tomorrow would look like. Yet even during those hardest moments, my mother made one thing clear: our education would not be sacrificed.
She worked day and night, sometimes holding multiple jobs, running on little sleep so we could have opportunities she never did. No matter how tired she was, she asked about homework, grades, and school days. Education, she believed, was the one thing no one could take from us.
After seven years without seeing my father, the next time I saw him was on an operating table in a morgue. There were no conversations left to have, no reconciliation, only silence and apologies. It was a moment filled with complicated emotions — grief mixed with distance, closure mixed with unanswered questions. None of these experiences broke me. Instead, they built me.
Growing up, teachers became more than educators to me. They were stability when life felt chaotic, always there and encouraging. Some teachers saw past my circumstances and recognized my potential before I fully believed in it myself, whether in art or reading or musical instruments. Their kindness stayed with me long after the school bell rang.
That is why I want to become a teacher.
I want to be the adult who notices when a student is struggling quietly. I want to create a classroom where children feel safe, valued, and understood — especially those carrying heavy burdens. I know what it feels like to need patience instead of judgment, encouragement instead of assumptions, and consistency.
My past has never been an obstacle to my future. Every challenge from foster care, homelessness, and loss has strengthened my purpose. These experiences did not stop me from dreaming; they clarified my dream. They showed me exactly how powerful multiple supportive adults can be in a child’s life.
I am pursuing teaching not despite my story, but because of it. I want to become someone important to children — someone who reminds them that their circumstances do not define their potential.