My name is Demetrius Aberi, and I am a senior at Union High School. In college, I intend to do everything I can to encourage other young boys and girls to make a difference in the world and achieve whatever goals they set for themselves, or so they thought. Because I am pursuing an architecture degree, I can, for example, create residential homes that are inexpensive, comfortable, fashionable, and family-friendly. In addition, I can volunteer, participate in peaceful protests, and form support groups for individuals in need by joining different clubs that advocate for and help those in need. Following graduation, I intend to work as a certified architect. Then I'd like to gain more experience and work my way up to senior architect/designer, project manager, department head, and other positions.
Growing up black in America has simply forced me to learn how to deal with racism, which is a huge issue. Contrary to common beliefs, I've been encouraged not to make a scene in certain situations only to avoid being seen as the aggressor. I've also generally learned to keep my feelings to myself in order to prevent making others feel uncomfortable.
I remember one time when I went to the store and a tall white man accusingly asked “Hello, are you going to pay for that?”. I was a fifteen-year-old boy whose first “mistake” was shopping while being black. “Yes,” I answered. This is microaggression which is a comment, action, or incidence that is thought to be an example of indirect, subtle, or inadvertent discrimination against members of a marginalized group, such as a racial or ethnic minority. But the man’s racial profiling is something I will always remember and it still stings to this day. This may not seem like that big of a deal to some people, but that small incident leads to many more and it is not right.
This is why I am so connected to my family in such a huge way. They assist me in dealing with the outside world in a proper and positive way. Now that I'm transitioning to college, I'm optimistic that I'll be able to calmly challenge the new life ahead of me. Family is my source of strength, and it has taught me a lot about what relationships are and how to build them in today's environment.
I'm applying for this scholarship to help pay for college in a major way. As a high school senior and soon-to-be college student, I'm mainly trying to take advantage of every chance as early as possible, and I've already been accepted into universities. However, I need financial assistance to cover the remainder of my academic costs, which are, for all intents and purposes, hefty. I sincerely appreciate your thoughtfulness, and I hope that you will be able to assist me in pursuing a career in architecture in general. This is primarily my passion, and I am devoted to it.