I can still vividly remember that moment like it was yesterday. I had just completed seventh grade and as I was planning my summer trips to the waterpark, my parents made this absurd declaration: my brother and I would be spending the summer in Nigeria – yes, Nigeria! They wanted us to connect with our family and appreciate our roots. My first thought was, “Family roots! What about the waterpark?!” But my brother and I just looked at each other, silently, in utter disbelief. As the initial shock wore off, I began to realize that going to Nigeria would make for a much more interesting summer vacation story than the waterpark. I didn’t know it at the time, but this unexpected jaunt halfway across the world, would forever change my life.
After a long, thirteen-hour flight we landed in Lagos, Nigeria where we were greeted by the most intense heat I have ever experienced. I instantly wished I was at the waterpark. Visiting my family and forming relationships with my relatives, observing the bustling of the immensely packed cities, and seeing the breathtaking landscape of the countryside, was amazing and I savored every moment. At the same time, I was struck by seeing children hawking goods on the dangerous roads for money so they could eat; college students roaming the streets because their teachers were on strike for working without pay; and how I was constantly jolted out of my seat as the car drove over endless potholes. It was starkly different from America. As the summer came to an end, I was excited to be going home, yet a little sad to be leaving this country I had grown to love.
I had no time to ponder my conflicting emotions; my parents sprung one of their last-minute declarations informing us that we would be staying in Nigeria to attend boarding school! Once again, stunned, I was forced to quickly deal with my mixed feelings and prepare myself for my new adventure. When I started school, I was placed into a class that was two grades ahead of where I should have been, and my classmates felt like they were years ahead. Fitting in presented its own problems. Besides sticking out with my American accent, my lack of knowledge about their customs made life difficult. Over time though, I became a natural; I learned how to fetch water for baths, how to hand-wash clothes, and even how to speak with a Nigerian accent. Nigeria had finally begun to feel like home.
Before I knew it, one month turned into a year and a year turned into two years and it was time to return to America. Reflecting on what I had seen and experienced, I had many questions. Why were so many people going hungry? Why were those responsible for fixing roads and paying teachers so corrupt? Why was I surrounded by the smartest people I have ever known, but many ended up jobless? It was at TeenSHARP that I first started to grapple with the painful consequences of African colonization that continue to rob the continent of its natural wealth. Taking college courses every Saturday beginning in 10th grade, I read the works by our contemporaries such as Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie and Sophie Oluwole, as well as Africa’s intellectual giants such as Kwame Nkrumah and Patrice Lumumba. As a Social Change Fellow, I have been applying these theories of African Reconstruction to design a blueprint for Nigeria’s economic prosperity.
Coming back from Nigeria showed me that not everyone is as fortunate as I am and I should use the resources I have and my voice to make a big difference. That is why I have taken up a project where I research and document experiences of women and children in displacement camps in Nigeria. These camps are made as safe houses for people who are refugees or victims of terrorism or internal strife and is a shelter they can stay at until it’s safe to go home but unfortunately they don't get the support they need to reintegrate back into society and get back to a sense of normalcy. I plan to be of aid to this situation by publishing an article that will bring awareness to this issue and crowdsource funding to support these people as they find their way back home. I also have future goals and dreams to advance environmentally sustainability in Nigeria so I plan to study environmental engineering in college. This scholarship will be a big help and will bring me one step closer to my goal.
Proving the saying that your parents know best, I will be forever grateful for the absurd declaration they made many years ago. Connecting with my roots and experiencing the beauty and socioeconomic inequity of my birth country, gave me a sense of purpose, direction, and a challenge to conquer. In due time, I will return to my birth country with knowledge and skills ready to make a change in my community.