As a young black woman in a predominantly white area, I have noticed that my white peers are given more opportunities than I am. Maybe it’s because of the color of their skin, or coming from parents with deep pockets, but it's like every opportunity presented to them is served on a platter. In recent years, this issue has been addressed and discussed in schools. I hoped for a change, but things remained the same. That was my wake-up call to make things happen for myself. So the quote that means a lot to me is, "Don't sit down and wait for the opportunities to come. Get up and make them." - Madame CJ Walker.
When I read this quote, the message I receive is to work hard. Actually, scratch that. The message I receive is to grind hard like nobody’s watching. To do that, I look at the talents, gifts, resources, and education that I’ve been blessed with, and figure out how to use them to the best of my ability. Whether it's staying up late at night, joining numerous clubs, lots of practice (and coffee), getting direction from the people in my life, etc., I try my best to utilize the things I’ve been blessed with. With every step I make in my life, questions I ask myself are, “how can I do better in this area?”, “am I maximizing my potential?”, and among others. By asking those questions, I’m able to see my areas in need of growth and the progress that I’ve made.
To me, this quote has a deeper meaning. And it’s that challenges are guaranteed. Many trials and obstacles have been presented before me in the process of making my own opportunities. Some of them include racial discrimination, many “no’s”, frustration, and feeling stuck (almost to the point of wanting to give up). So while I’m at my lowest (and highest), I turn to God because I know He has my back, a plan, and more!
This quote has allowed me to realize to have a positive attitude, to strive for my goals, to have strength, courage, passion, love, joy, and most importantly to have faith in God in all I do. I can’t give up when things don’t go the way that I would like them to go, but to give it my all (while remembering to breathe). If I had sat back and waited for the opportunities, I probably would’ve gotten nowhere and wasted precious time. But because I made my own opportunities, I’m able to maximize my potential, look at every challenge, take it head-on with no regrets, and be able to see what I’m capable of! That’s why that quote is so special to me!