Throughout my life, I’ve learned many lessons, but above all, to never take anything for granted and to seize every opportunity. This mindset grew from what I’ve experienced, especially involving my sister.
You only miss someone when they’re gone. I’ll never forget the scent of my sister’s “old lady perfume,” as she jokingly called it. While she never left this world, a part of her did. Her brain disease changed not just her but our entire family. The sister I knew seemed gone forever, and even after her recovery, she was different. For two months, I avoided her room, which felt like a museum, untouchable, frozen in time. The fear that “maybe she won’t come back” haunted me, and with each passing day, hope felt further away.
Eventually, after countless treatments, tests, and shots, chemotherapy brought her back to us. But she wasn’t the same. She had to relearn everything,reading, writing, walking, even speaking. My family has never been wealthy, but we’ve always gotten by. My mom once said, “I don’t care if we have to sell our house. If it means she’ll get better, we’ll sell it.” That stayed with me. Her words showed me that love outweighs any struggle. My sister’s illness taught me to give my best today because tomorrow is uncertain. Because of her, I push myself to take every opportunity, for her, and for myself.
Now, as college approaches, I see my family hesitating to support my dreams. Texas Tech is my goal, it has one of the best education programs, and I’ve worked hard to get there. But after my sister’s chemotherapy and ongoing recovery, money is tighter than ever. They’re torn between supporting her and helping me. This scholarship would lift the burden of “too much money” off my shoulders. While I plan to work in Lubbock to help my family, this support would let me focus on academics, join clubs, and volunteer, things I’ve loved doing in high school.
What I've been through has helped me in school, As a senior in high school. I've started to be more involved in clubs and in class. I've seen my grades change drastically and have started to be known as someone who is involved in school activities. What I've done now is thanks to what I've experienced in my life. I would never have become someone who does what I do now without my sister teaching me life lessons. Now that i've seen how fulfilling it is to be involved. In college, my goal is to build strong connections and participate in programs and internships that align with my passion for teaching while maintaining a strong GPA.
The challenges I’ve faced have shaped who I am. They’ve taught me resilience, gratitude, and the value of opportunity. But financial strain has limited my family’s ability to help me chase my dreams. With this scholarship, I could become the teacher I aspire to be without sacrificing my family’s stability.