I'm a single mom of 4. I have always done my best to set a good example for my kids by working to continuously improve myself and demonstrating determination in the face of challenges. I hope to show my children the importance of personal growth and the value of perseverance. I also hope to show them that everything in life that is worth achieving and that makes you feel accomplished and successful is something that you have to work hard for. It is important to me for them to know that challenges will come. They will fail. They will make choices that aren’t always right. My hope is that by never giving up on my dreams, and working hard to achieve them, they can learn from me and be inspired. Not because of my achievements, but because I have always worked towards being my greatest self and that is the legacy I want to leave behind.
I currently work full-time as a manager in a warehouse, I attend online college at SNHU pursuing my bachelor’s degree, and I homeschool two of my kids. I spend my free time making quilts and doing photography so that I can pay for college. I spent most of my life homeschooling my kids and being a stay at home wife. Two years ago, after 20 years of marriage, I went through a divorce, and both of my parents passed away. At first, I felt like my world was falling apart. I was living on my own for the first time in my life in a tiny one-bedroom apartment with all four of my kids. I quickly realized that even though what I was going through was hard, I still had to move forward, for them. I got the first job of my life as a warehouse associate, soon became an assistant manager and moved to a bigger apartment. I started doing photography and sellig crafts as a second income. I listened to motivational videos, and read books to learn how to be my best self. I decided to go back to college to get my degree so that I could move up in my company. And eventually own my own business. I am about to complete my first year of college with a 3.84 GPA, made the president's list for the spring, summer and fall terms, and also was promoted to manager at my job. My first son recently left for college on a full scholarship having scored a perfect score on his ACT, and my daughter got scholarship for her singing talent.
Becoming the person that I am today and the person I want to be isn't an easy road. Recently I had to cut back to just one class per term because of my work schedule preventing me from being able to raise the money to pay for more than one class per term. But I am determined to keep pushing forward, no matter what obstacles I face and I want to instill that into my children as well. I will always strive to be my best self. To be someone they can be proud of and to achieve my goals. It has been my lifelong dream to have a college degree, and I may not have started in the traditional time frame, but I will have one, even if takes me longer to get there than it has others. I think in this way I am teaching them that no matter what life brings, or how long it takes, with determination they can persevere and they can live their dream.