My dream home would be in Venice, Italy, on the edge of the city with the best windows to watch the beautiful birds and water and the people from all over the world. It would have flowers from all over the city plastered on the windows to give it the appearance of growing within it. The house would have high ceilings and a suspended swimming pool on the roof of the house so that if you looked up, you could see the water above. I would have a walk-in closet filled with outfits of the most beautiful colors so vibrant and unique. My walk-in closet would be stocked with clothing in the most stunning, and distinct colors. I will also have a speaker in my home that will start playing Italian music every day at 7:30 o'clock pm. I would have the most exquisite kitchen appliances, the most exquisite Florence Knoll decor in my rooms, and the most breathtaking views of the city and the picturesque seas of Venice, Italy. On my rooftop, there would be a pool, adjustable chairs for additional comfort, a ultraviolet motion sensor for sun protection, a display of drinks, and the most vibrant and exotic produce. My bedroom would have a king sized bed and it would be covered in the thickest duvet and silk linens, and the floors would be polished with the finest marble.

Their is a lack of women in leadership positions, as well as the prevalence of sexual harassment and discrimination. Women are often not taken as seriously as men in court, this can hinder their ability to succeed in the legal profession. Sources from “ENJURIS” say female lawyers earned 81 cents for every 1 dollar earned by male lawyers; that's a big difference given they're in the same career. Women face many challenges in the law field while trying to raise a family. This is especially difficult given the long hours and high stress levels associated with the profession. Also women of color face even greater challenges in the legal procession, as they are often subject to both gender and racial discrimination. Another important aspect of gender disparity in law careers is the lack of female judges and justices. Women are underrepresented in the judiciary, which can lead to decisions that do not always take into account the experiences of women. The legal profession can become more inclusive and welcoming to women through mentorship programs and increased representation in leadership positions . More ways to make the legal field more inclusive is by providing more flexible work arrangements. This could include things like remote work, part time schedules, and job sharing programs. Additionally law firms could implement policies, such as paid parental leave and on site childcare. Furthermore, it is important for the legal profession to address issues of sexual harassment and discrimination in the workplace, and to hold those who engage in those behaviors accountable. There are several ways to stop gender disparity. One is to educate people and raise awareness of the ways in which gender inequalities manifest in different areas of society. Another way is to implement policies and programs that promote gender equality, such as equal pay for equal work and the provision of paid parental leave. Additionally, it is important to challenge gender stereotypes and biases, and to encourage women to pursue careers in fields where they are currently underrepresented. Finally, it is important to hold individuals and organizations accountable for discriminatory behaviors and practices. I intend to make a change by advocating for gender equality as an attorney and supporting organizations that work to promote gender equality, and educating others about the issues of gender disparity. I will work to become a leader in my field of work and serve as a role model for other women who are looking to break into male-dominated industries; As well as build coalitions and networks with other individuals and organizations that are committed to promoting gender equality. Lastly, I can use my voice and platform to advocate policy changes in the state of Texas and national levels that support gender equality and work to eliminate gender disparities in areas like education, healthcare, and the workplace.

Since I was a child, I have known that my family was unique from everyone else's. Growing up, it was difficult for me to comprehend why my life was the way it was and why my parents couldn't be like other children's parents because my family was poor and my father was violent. Why did my mother always let my father in so that he could enter our home and beat her again? Why did me and my siblings contemplate on calling the police so our father couldn’t hurt our mom? Why did I have a dad that threatened to hurt us because he knew it was the only thing my mother cared about in the entire world? I only wished that things had turned out differently, but they did not. It was filled with my brothers and I pleading with our father to take his hands off our mother's neck and talking to our mother about whether or not she would let our dad enter the house when he was gone since we didn't feel comfortable and we were afraid of him. My life was raw and uncut; nothing was ever hidden the way kids are told their dads are on a work trip or in the military; instead, my dad was in prison where he's spending two decades and all the experiences a little girl is supposed to have i’d never receive. Even though the violence ended after my dad was arrested for attempted murder, the effect was still severe because other kids assumed I didn't have a father and frequently asked me where he was. Years would pass, and I would begin to believe that I was no longer impacted by it, but then I would see a father pick up his daughters from a sleepover, and I would hide my tears because it was occurring once more. Even though I've gone through the hardships as well, my mother is unaware of how it affected me. Of course, I wouldn't tell her because she struggled so much to get away from him, and it must be really difficult to hear that someone misses the abuser. despite the fact that I have felt both the desire for him to leave our lives and the want for him to remain. I know that my father won't be present when I graduate because he has been in prison since I was eight years old and I am eighteen and will be graduating on May 25, 2023. I don't hate my father; I just wish he had been a better man or father so that maybe my life wouldn't have been as difficult. Because I had several mental health problems as a child that still carry on into my adulthood, it has been extremely difficult to live with the knowledge that they were caused by my upbringing. In order to change the world and myself, I can only look ahead to a better future and act in a different way than my parents did.

My father was arrested for attempted murder, which has had a significant impact on me. Being unable to give my dad a hug, hold his hand for an extended period of time, or even just tell him I still loved him despite him being in prison though it was a painful experience. I used to be delighted for my dad to walk in the visitor area because it wasn’t the same angry man he was calm now . School was very difficult, especially during the holidays when all the other children had both their parents. When kids would ask me where my dad was, I would always feel sad because no kid wants to explain why their father is incarcerated. I used to get depressed whenever I seen young girls with their fathers, not out of jealousy but more because I knew that was something I would never be able to do. My heart still hurts when I see girls getting flowers or speaking of all the good things their dad can do. My dad was sentenced to 20 years in prison for his own actions, and as a child, I used to count the years that passed. It broke my heart to realize that by the time my dad is released, I will be a fully grown adult in my 30s, and my chances of having a good relationship with him are slim because he’s become a stranger with memories. I have resentment towards him because he missed all my birthdays and milestones like getting my first car, being accepted to college; however he won’t get to see me graduate. I got will always love my dad though it took me years to forgive him, but because of my determination, i’ll soon be my family’s first college student and lawyer, studying criminal law.