“Yes!” I cried as the crowd behind me erupted into a cheering unison. Finally, the moment of success had come. I had waited months for this match; however, the true reason for celebration was in the matches leading up to this one.
It was a rocky start to my tennis career. I had just played the first match of my sophomore season, my first match at one doubles, and my first match with a girl, Lydia Sowles, who had been permitted to play on the boy’s team so that she was able to continue her soccer journey. We lost 6-1, 6-3, not quite a score to be proud of. Although, our coach reminded us that we cannot expect success instantaneously without being enormously disappointed. That being said, the second match did not go much better. We lost that one by an even more considerable margin: 6-3, 6-0. Things did not look up from there. Lydia and I, no matter how friendly we were, struggled to connect as a partnership, seeing not only was she the opposite sex in a boy’s sport, but she was also a senior while I was a sophomore. These differences did not improve our cohesiveness at one doubles. We lost match after match, struggling to obtain a singular victory. Our future outlook toward our win-loss ratio was grim; however, our coach gave us another precious lesson. Tennis, like other activities, is essentially mental. To flourish in tennis, especially doubles, it is vital that you maintain a positive attitude (toward not only your partner but yourself included) and you do not allow failures to let you down. Whether you are physically better than the other team is partially irrelevant, for we had lost to players much below our skill level. These elements Lydia and I learned flipped our lousy streak. It was not an immediate switch, for changing our entire mentality was not an easy feat, but we turned our losing record into a winning one. Our win-loss ratio became 12:11 come Conferences.
Although, there was one problem: the teams we needed to play in Conferences had already beaten us. Badly. Lydia and I were seeded fourth in Conferences because of our previous failures. Consequently, our attitudes heading into these matches were less than optimistic until we reminded ourselves of the advice from our coach and all those recent victories acquired from confident mentalities. We walked onto those courts, ignoring the past and sure of our future triumph. After hours of mentally draining matches, Lydia and I swept the competition out from under their feet, and the fourth-seed duo became Conference Champions.
My victory in high school tennis is something to be fond of, yet something more valuable was garnered from this season. The many losses I took in tennis created a mindset in which I was neither confident in my abilities nor happy about myself. My coach’s wisdom made me realize I was not a “bad” tennis player but a good tennis player with a destructive mindset. I learned that a positive attitude is imperative to success. I lost to many worse players than myself - but were they worse than me if I lost to them? No, because they had something I didn’t: a confident mentality. Now, this lesson would only be so helpful if it were exclusively applicable to tennis, but I have learned, through tests, AP classes, various sports, jobs, and more, that owning these elements will benefit you in multiple aspects of life. Owing to my high school sport, I attempt to look at everything in a more positive light.