The most influential educator I’ve ever had taught an elective course required for me to graduate that I took in my last semester of my undergrad. Toni Bisconti, my professor for Psychology of Hate, changed my outlook on my life and myself. I have never had a course challenge me in the ways that Hate did, and I am so incredibly grateful for what I was taught in Dr. B’s class.
On the first day of class, we did an exercise called a “Power Shuffle.” We were asked a long series of questions and told to raise our hands (virtually) if the question applied to us. Some questions were “are you a woman, are you a man, are you non-binary… are you straight, are you LGBT… etc.” The questions got increasingly more personal as it went on: “have you ever been assaulted by a romantic partner, have you ever assaulted a romantic partner?” It ended with questions about common “-isms” that we experience in our society: “are you racist, are you homophobic, are you ageist, are you classist, are you anti-Semetic, etc.” When we got to these questions, it was very rare for anyone to raise their hands, whether it was true or not, but Dr. B raised her hand admitting to being all of those things.
After the Power Shuffle was over, Dr. B explained that we are all inherently racist, homophobic, ageist, etc. because of the way our society is built. Just because you do not perform racist actions, for example putting on a white hood, but big black men are seen more frequently as dangerous criminals, while big white men are seen more frequently as heroes and protectors. Pay attention to your favorite shows and movies, even the ones you watched growing up, and you will learn that even without knowing it, we are all prejudiced in many different ways. Until we realize and act on our inherent prejudices, we will never move forward away from them.
The Power Shuffle is just one of the instances that we, as a class, were able to connect with each other in other ways than complaining about school and how much money we don’t have. We were able to see each other for who we all are: human beings. Starting this way was a perfect foundation for the relationships we would build with each other and all in all, become better people.
The content that we covered in class called out, loud and proud, all of the ways we are individually prejudiced, and showed us how we can improve ourselves and diminish that prejudice. All of our classes were discussions about the articles, videos, and other content we had viewed prior to class. We were able to talk about our feelings about the topic at hand, we were able to be vulnerable in our discussion, and we were able to overcome struggles in ways that I would have never been able to do in my regular classes.
Dr. B could have made us read articles, watch PowerPoint presentations in class, write our papers, and take our final as every other professor I’ve ever had has done, but instead she chose to thoroughly teach us material, and for the most part, she let us do it in the way we wanted to, not following an agenda or Table of Contents. I learned so much about myself and the people and world around me, and I personally think Psychology of Hate should be required for any major, any job, any person in the world.