I am a 38-year-old mother, working full time while attending school full time, pursuing a career in the automotive trade. Balancing family responsibilities, work, and school is challenging, but these challenges have shaped me into a resilient, disciplined, and determined person. I am motivated by the desire to provide a better future for my family while pursuing a career that I am passionate about. Choosing to enter the automotive field has been a significant decision, but it comes with its own set of adversities, particularly as a woman in a male-dominated trade.
One of the most significant challenges I have faced is gaining respect in environments where some people assume women cannot be skilled technicians. From classmates to customers, I have encountered skepticism and doubt regarding my abilities. Early in my automotive training at Kauaʻi Community College, I remember being tasked with a complex engine repair. Some people assumed I would struggle or fail simply because of my gender. It was discouraging at first, but I refused to let their assumptions define me. Instead, I focused on demonstrating my abilities through hard work, attention to detail, and persistence. I carefully studied every aspect of the repair, applied my skills precisely, and successfully completed the task. The respect I earned from instructors, classmates, and even skeptical customers showed me that perseverance and competence could overcome bias.
Being a full-time student, working full time, and raising a family adds another layer of adversity. There are days when balancing responsibilities feels overwhelming, and the pressure can be intense. I have learned to manage my time carefully, prioritize tasks, and stay organized. I’ve learned that perseverance is not just about facing one challenge, but consistently pushing forward despite fatigue, stress, or doubt. These experiences have taught me discipline, patience, and determination, all of which are critical in both life and the trades.
This adversity has shaped me into someone who is confident, persistent, and unafraid to break barriers. I understand that challenges are not obstacles meant to stop me but opportunities to grow and prove my abilities. They have taught me that success is built through preparation, dedication, and refusing to give up when faced with skepticism or difficulty. These lessons extend beyond the automotive trade—they guide how I parent, work, and engage with my community.
My advice to anyone facing similar circumstances is to believe in yourself, focus on your goals, and let your work speak louder than words. People will doubt you, underestimate you, or treat you unfairly, but your determination, skill, and perseverance can overcome almost anything. Use adversity as motivation rather than discouragement. Every challenge is an opportunity to learn, grow, and demonstrate your strength. I hope my story encourages other women, parents, or anyone facing barriers in their path to continue pursuing their dreams, no matter how difficult the journey may seem.
By choosing to continue in the automotive trade, I am not only building a career for myself but also setting an example for others who might face similar adversities. I want to show that hard work, persistence, and confidence can break stereotypes and open doors for future generations. Adversity has not held me back—it has made me stronger, more capable, and even more determined to succeed.