My cousin’s passing from suicide a week before her 18th birthday was a devastating turning point in in our family. Her young life and boundless potential were extinguished too soon, leaving our family grappling with countless unanswered questions. It was through this tragedy that I came to realize the profound impact mental health has on individuals and families, and how critical early intervention, understanding, and support can be. Her loss ignited a passion within me to ensure that others do not have to endure the same pain in silence. It will be 20 years this year that her light was extinguished and it still feels like we are struggling to change the mental health landscape in our country. As I am in my final year of grad school I am cognizant that I will be stepping out into a career where the waitlists are long and help is desperately needed. Mental health does not discriminate—it affects people of all ages, races, genders, and socioeconomic backgrounds. However, the impact of mental health challenges is disproportionately felt by certain populations. Factors such as systemic inequities, lack of access to care, cultural stigmas, and social determinants of health contribute to these disparities, leaving some groups more vulnerable to untreated or under-treated mental health conditions. Communities with limited resources often face barriers such as financial constraints, geographic isolation, and a shortage of mental health providers. Marginalized populations, including people of color, LGBTQ+ individuals, and those living in poverty, may experience heightened stressors like discrimination, intergenerational trauma, and economic instability, all of which exacerbate mental health challenges. Despite being equally deserving of care, these individuals are less likely to receive adequate support, further widening the gap. Addressing these inequities requires systemic change—ensuring mental health care is accessible, culturally competent, and inclusive. By recognizing and confronting the disproportionate impact of mental health issues, we can work toward a future where everyone has the opportunity to access the support they need, regardless of their circumstances. My cousin’s passing had initially opened my eyes to the urgency of mental health support, but my internship has opened my eyes to the personal struggles of many. I have witnessed how anxiety, fear, and isolation can affect not only the individual but the entire family system. These experiences solidified my resolve to pursue a career in mental health, with a focus on supporting individuals and families as they navigate the complexities of life’s challenges. Working in the mental health field has allowed me to channel my personal experiences into meaningful work. I strive to create a safe, empathetic space where clients feel seen, heard, and empowered to face their struggles. My cousin’s story fuels my desire to prevent loss and foster resiliency. Together, these experiences have shaped my vision of making mental health care more accessible, compassionate, and holistic. Through my work, I hope to honor my cousin by bringing hope and healing to those in need.

One of the most meaningful things I want to build is a supportive community for families navigating the challenges of receiving a chronic, lifelong, or terminal illness diagnosis. This vision stems from my own experience as a mother of five, one of whom was born with neurofibromatosis (NF), a genetic condition that brought constant health struggles, hospital visits, and medical complications during her early years. Throughout this time, I observed firsthand the emotional, physical, and social toll chronic illness can take not only on the individual but also on the entire family system. However, one of the most challenging aspects was the lack of integrative care that addressed both the emotional and medical needs of the family. My hope is to create a community where families can receive the support and resources they need to navigate this difficult journey. I envision a space that provides emotional support, practical resources, and connections to others who truly understand the experience of having a family member with a chronic or terminal condition. This community would serve as a place where families can share their stories, find solidarity, and access expert guidance in a compassionate and holistic manner. Whether it’s providing therapeutic support for family dynamics, offering respite care options, or helping families develop coping strategies, the goal would be to address the entire spectrum of their needs. Building this community would have a positive impact on both me and my community by providing a space for healing and connection. From a personal perspective, it would allow me to integrate my professional knowledge as a Marriage and Family Therapist Intern with my own lived experience as a mother facing the challenges of NF. This experience has fueled my passion for helping families who are struggling with the emotional burdens of chronic illness, and I hope to use my expertise to create positive change in their lives. For the families involved, this community would serve as a safe, understanding, and empowering space where they can find comfort, tools for resilience, and hope for the future. This support system would reduce feelings of isolation and help families focus on their emotional well-being while managing the ongoing demands of illness. It would foster a sense of belonging and shared experience, making it easier for families to seek help, develop coping strategies, and build a support network that can sustain them through difficult times. In building this community, I aim to create a lasting impact that extends beyond just the immediate needs of families. By supporting families on their unplanned journey, I believe we can foster a stronger, more resilient community that understands the importance of holistic care for both the body and mind. This, in turn, can lead to healthier, more connected families who feel empowered to face the challenges of chronic illness with strength and hope.

As a mother of five, my journey has been filled with both joy and challenges, but none as impactful as the birth of my youngest daughter. She was born with neurofibromatosis (NF), a genetic disorder that causes tumors to grow on nerve tissue. For the first two years of her life, she was in and out of the hospital, facing multiple complications stemming from NF. Our experience with her condition opened my eyes to the significant gaps in care for children and families facing chronic health challenges, and it became a driving force for my passion in the field of marriage and family therapy. Watching my daughter endure constant medical procedures and hospital stays was incredibly difficult, but it was also a wake-up call to the need for comprehensive, integrative care that supports not only the patient but also the entire family. It was clear that the emotional, psychological, and social aspects of managing a chronic condition were just as important as the physical health care. This realization propelled me to pursue higher education in a field where I could combine my personal experience and my desire to make a positive impact. I wanted to create a space for families to be supported holistically, addressing their emotional well-being alongside the medical aspects of their child’s care. In my pursuit of becoming a marriage and family therapist, I aim to support families who are facing similar struggles. My passion lies in helping families navigate the complexities of chronic illness, providing them with the tools to communicate effectively, manage stress, and cope with the unique challenges they face. I want to bring awareness to the fact that families, caregivers, and individuals living with conditions like NF need access to support that goes beyond traditional medical care. Integrative care that acknowledges the mental health aspects is crucial, and it is my goal to advocate for and provide that support. This scholarship would be immensely helpful in alleviating the financial strain of continuing my education while balancing the responsibilities of raising five children. The funds would allow me to focus on my studies and reduce the need for taking on additional student loans. It would also support me in accessing resources that would enhance my ability to serve families in the future, ensuring that I can create meaningful, lasting change for those who are navigating the difficulties of chronic illness and family dynamics. In conclusion, my daughter’s diagnosis with NF has shaped my understanding of the world and solidified my career path in therapy. I am motivated to pursue this field because of my personal experiences and my desire to create a positive impact on families. This scholarship would help me achieve that goal, and I am committed to giving back to my community through the work I do.

My experience with mental health has had a profound impact on my goals, relationships, and understanding of the world. Growing up, mental health was a topic not often discussed openly in my family. It wasn’t until my mother’s struggles with a personality disorder and somatic symptom disorder that I began to understand the complexities of mental health. Her diagnosis made it clear how mental health issues could shape not only an individual’s life but also the lives of those around them. Witnessing her challenges provided me with an intimate understanding of how mental health issues manifest and affect daily functioning, relationships, and overall well-being. It made me realize that mental health does not only impact the individual but also creates a ripple effect on family members and loved ones. My mother's struggles were not just about the symptoms she faced, but also about the toll it took on her ability to connect with others, to maintain a sense of stability, and to live a life free of fear and uncertainty. This experience sparked my interest in understanding mental health more deeply and advocating for those who are struggling in silence. In addition, my journey as a mother to five children has also contributed to my growing understanding of mental health. Parenting while balancing my own mental health challenges has taught me how crucial it is to nurture not only the emotional well-being of my children but also my own. It has highlighted the importance of creating an environment where mental health is not only accepted but prioritized. As I’ve worked toward becoming a Marriage and Family Therapist, my personal experiences have fueled my desire to support others in similar situations. Mental health has become central to my professional goals. It has led me to pursue a career in therapy, focusing on helping families and individuals overcome mental health challenges and improve their relationships. Through my work with clients, I have learned that healing often begins with acknowledgment and understanding. This insight has shaped my career aspirations to support others in creating healthier, more resilient lives by prioritizing mental and emotional well-being. My understanding of the world has also evolved as I’ve come to realize that mental health is an essential aspect of the human experience that is often overlooked or stigmatized. The more I learned about mental health, the more I recognized the importance of offering compassion, empathy, and support to those who are struggling. This has led me to be an advocate for better mental health care, as well as an advocate for creating spaces where individuals can speak openly about their mental health without fear of judgment. In my relationships, I’ve become more attuned to the emotional needs of others and more understanding of their struggles. I’ve learned that mental health is a spectrum, and we all navigate it in different ways. My experience with my mother’s diagnosis, combined with my own journey toward becoming a Marriage and Family Therapist, has shaped my approach to relationships by teaching me the importance of empathy, boundaries, and the acknowledgment of mental health as an integral part of a person's overall well-being. In conclusion, my experiences with mental health have profoundly shaped my understanding of the world and have given me a deep sense of empathy for others. They have also fueled my determination to work in a field where I can help others navigate their mental health challenges and improve their relationships, ultimately making a positive impact on the lives of those I work with.

Losing my cousin to brain cancer at the age of 29 was a life-altering experience. She was more than just family; she was a close friend, a mentor, and a constant source of love and positivity. Despite battling cancer, she always lived life to the fullest. Her selflessness was evident in how she loved and spoiled my five children, often providing them with a sense of joy and stability that we all cherished. It was hard to accept that she would never have the chance to become a mother herself. Her strength, resilience, and positivity in the face of such adversity taught me invaluable lessons about life and love. She always encouraged us to push forward despite the obstacles we faced. Her unwavering spirit, especially in such difficult circumstances, was a beacon of hope and inspiration for everyone around her. She embodied perseverance, showing us that even when faced with the harshest realities, we could continue to love and live life fully. This experience shaped my life in profound ways. It deepened my understanding of the fragility of life and the importance of cherishing each moment with those we love. It also strengthened my desire to help others through their struggles, particularly those facing life-altering challenges. The pain of losing her is something I will carry with me forever, but the lessons she taught me continue to shape my career goals. I am pursuing a path in marriage and family therapy to honor her legacy, using her example of love, strength, and perseverance as a guide. In my pursuit of my graduate degree to become a Marriage and Family Therapist, I hope to offer others the same support, empathy, and guidance that she gave to me and so many others. No matter the length of time one spends on earth, their life matters and makes an impact. Experiencing this loss has provided me with the perspective that life is fragile and precious. Spreading love and hope through random acts of kindness is a way I try to honor her memory and pay her sense of joy forward. Keeping her legacy alive through action is important for me while I raise my children and work with clients. In this way I can cope and celebrate the beauty she brought to this world even though she is now physically absent. Despite her passing, the impact of her life continues to resonate in the way I approach both my personal life and my future career.

Throughout my journey as a mother of five and a student pursuing a career as a Marriage and Family Therapist (MFT), I have faced numerous challenges in balancing work, caregiving, and academic commitments. However, these challenges have also been transformative, shaping not only my personal growth but also my professional aspirations. The intersection of work and caregiving has provided me with valuable insights into the complexities of family dynamics, emotional resilience, and the importance of support systems—insights that directly influence my goals as a future therapist. One of the most significant challenges I face is time management. Between raising children, supporting my husband, and attending graduate school, the demands on my time can be overwhelming. I often find myself balancing academic deadlines, family needs, and my own well-being. During busy periods, such as when assignments or family obligations overlap, it can feel like I’m constantly juggling competing priorities. This requires constant adjustment and flexibility, as well as a strong commitment to self-care to prevent burnout. Another challenge has been navigating the emotional toll of caregiving. Being a mother is both a rewarding and demanding role, and it requires me to continuously assess my emotional capacity. There are times when I feel stretched thin—supporting my children, caring for a partner with health concerns, and attending to my own mental health. These moments have tested my resilience and forced me to reflect on how I can best serve those I love while also maintaining the energy needed to pursue my goals. It has taught me the importance of setting boundaries, asking for help, and prioritizing tasks that align with my core values. Despite these challenges, caregiving has deeply influenced my career goals. It has given me a firsthand understanding of the emotional and relational dynamics within families, which I now apply to my studies and internship as an MFT. My experiences have taught me how vital emotional support is for families under stress, and how complex caregiving relationships can be. This has fueled my desire to work with families, couples, and individuals facing similar pressures. I aim to help others navigate the challenges of caregiving, work-life balance, and the emotional toll of maintaining relationships while managing personal responsibilities. The significance of my experiences balancing work and caregiving is also reflected in my approach to therapy. Having been in the trenches of family life, I understand how important it is to listen without judgment and provide space for clients to explore their emotions and challenges. My personal journey has shaped my ability to empathize deeply with others and recognize the subtle ways stress and caregiving can impact one’s mental health and relationships. I strive to incorporate these insights into my practice, offering clients a compassionate, non-judgmental space to process their struggles and work toward healthier family dynamics. Moreover, my experiences have solidified my career goal of advocating for better resources and support for caregivers. I am particularly passionate about working with individuals and families who struggle with caregiving responsibilities, whether for children, elderly parents, or spouses. Through my work, I hope to provide practical tools for managing stress, improving communication, and fostering resilience within families. In conclusion, the challenges I’ve faced in balancing work and caregiving have been difficult but profoundly meaningful. They have shaped my career goals as a Marriage and Family Therapist by teaching me the importance of empathy, resilience, and the power of support systems. As I continue on my journey, I remain committed to helping others navigate their own caregiving challenges while working to create healthier, more supportive family environments.

Mental health is foundational to every aspect of my life as a student, parent, and future therapist. Balancing academics, family, and personal growth requires emotional resilience, self-awareness, and effective coping strategies. Pursuing a degree in Marriage and Family Therapy has heightened my awareness of how vital mental health is—not just for myself but for those around me. By maintaining my own mental health, I am better equipped to manage the demands of graduate school, support my family, and prepare for a career centered on helping others. As a student, mental health is my cornerstone for academic success. The rigorous nature of my graduate program, combined with the responsibilities of raising five children, could easily lead to burnout without prioritizing self-care. I have learned to recognize signs of stress and employ proactive measures, such as mindfulness practices, time management, and setting realistic expectations. These habits enable me to stay present in my studies while remaining an engaged and attentive mother. This balance is only possible because I prioritize my mental well-being as much as my academic responsibilities. Advocating for mental health extends beyond my personal practices. Within my community, I strive to be a voice for breaking stigma and fostering open conversations about emotional well-being. For instance, I create opportunities to educate others about the importance of mental health through volunteer work and informal discussions with friends and family. By normalizing these conversations, I encourage others to seek help and embrace mental health care as an essential aspect of their lives. At home, I model healthy coping strategies for my children, teaching them the importance of expressing emotions and seeking support when needed. We practice mindfulness together and openly discuss our feelings, which helps build emotional intelligence and resilience. I believe this foundation is crucial for raising children who can navigate life’s challenges with confidence and self-awareness. In my school community, I am committed to creating a supportive environment by connecting with peers and sharing resources. Whether it’s recommending counseling services or simply offering a listening ear, I strive to create spaces where others feel heard and valued. My journey as an MFT intern has further amplified my advocacy, as I now work directly with clients who face the challenges of anxiety, depression, and relational stress. This experience underscores the transformative power of mental health support and inspires me to continue championing these efforts. Mental health is important to me because it shapes every aspect of our lives—how we learn, connect, and grow. By prioritizing my own well-being and advocating for others, I hope to contribute to a culture where mental health is seen as an integral part of overall wellness. My commitment to this mission extends to my studies, my family, and my community, as I work toward creating a world where everyone feels empowered to care for their emotional health.

As a Marriage and Family Therapy (MFT) intern, I have had the privilege of walking alongside couples, families, and individuals as they navigate life’s challenges. Many of the clients I work with face immense pressures—whether from strained relationships, personal struggles, or societal expectations. My role is to provide a safe, nonjudgmental space where they can explore their emotions, identify patterns, and reconnect with their strengths. For couples, I facilitate open communication and help them rebuild trust and intimacy. I guide them in understanding each other’s needs and perspectives, creating a foundation for healthier dynamics. With families, I work to foster connection and understanding, especially in environments where conflict or miscommunication has caused division. For individuals, my focus often lies in addressing the weight of anxiety, depression, and life transitions. Many of these clients feel overwhelmed by societal and personal pressures, and my aim is to help them reframe their narratives and develop coping strategies. Through this work, I’ve witnessed the power of empathy, active listening, and tailored interventions in promoting emotional well-being. My passion for helping others has deepened as I see clients begin to embrace hope and make meaningful progress toward their goals. In my future career as a licensed therapist, I plan to continue this work by integrating what I have learned with a holistic approach that supports the mind, body, and spirit. I aspire to create a practice that not only addresses immediate concerns but also empowers individuals and families to build resilience and thrive. Beyond direct therapy, I am committed to advocating for mental health awareness in my community. I hope to design workshops and resources that destigmatize mental health care and offer accessible support. I also aim to mentor future therapists, sharing my experiences to inspire others to pursue this transformative work. My studies have equipped me with the tools to understand the complexities of human behavior, while my internship has shown me the profound impact of compassion and connection. By combining these experiences, I hope to continue helping others untangle the pressures they face and guide them toward a place of emotional healing and growth.

Mental health plays a crucial role in shaping how I navigate both my academic performance and personal life while pursuing graduate school. As a mother of five, including a child with a genetic condition, and as a student working toward becoming a Marriage and Family Therapist, I often find myself juggling multiple responsibilities. The stress of managing family demands, coursework, and personal well-being can feel overwhelming, making it essential to prioritize my mental health. In my academic life, the state of my mental health directly impacts my ability to focus, retain information, and complete assignments effectively. When I am mentally overwhelmed or anxious, it becomes harder to concentrate on lectures or engage in meaningful discussions. The weight of perfectionism—wanting to excel academically while managing everything at home—can lead to feelings of burnout. However, I’ve learned to identify these patterns early and take steps to address them, ensuring that my mental health doesn’t hinder my ability to succeed in school. In my personal life, the challenges of graduate school sometimes spill into my role as a mother and wife. There are moments when the stress of deadlines and expectations affects my mood and energy, making it harder to be present for my family. This can lead to feelings of guilt, as I want to give my best to both my academic and family life. Acknowledging this struggle has been an important first step in finding ways to balance the two. To make my mental health a priority, I’ve adopted several strategies that help me manage stress and maintain emotional well-being. One of the most effective tools has been practicing mindfulness and grounding techniques. Simple activities like deep breathing, journaling, or taking a short walk help me stay present and reduce feelings of anxiety. Time management has also become an essential part of maintaining my mental health. By planning my days and setting realistic goals, I can allocate time for schoolwork, family, and self-care without feeling overwhelmed. I’ve learned to embrace flexibility, understanding that some days won’t go as planned—and that’s okay. Another key aspect of prioritizing mental health has been leaning on my support system. Whether it’s confiding in my husband, seeking advice from a professor, or connecting with peers who share similar challenges, I’ve found strength in community. I also make it a point to schedule time for activities that bring me joy, such as reading, spending quality time with my children, or engaging in creative hobbies. Pursuing a degree in counseling has deepened my understanding of the importance of mental health and how it shapes every aspect of life. I view my own mental health journey as an opportunity to grow and model the principles of self-care and resilience for my children and future clients. By prioritizing my well-being, I’m not only ensuring my success in school but also fostering a more balanced and fulfilling personal life.

Continuing my education was a decision inspired by a deeply personal experience: the birth of my fifth child, who was diagnosed with a rare genetic condition. That moment was a profound awakening, motivating me to not only advocate for my child but also for others navigating the complexities of family life. It was then I realized my calling to become a Marriage and Family Therapist. I wanted to turn the lessons I’ve learned as a mother into a professional career that could make a meaningful difference in the lives of other families. The journey to higher education has not been without obstacles. Balancing the responsibilities of raising five children, including one with special needs, has been an ongoing challenge. Each day brings a unique set of demands—from coordinating school schedules and doctor appointments to managing a household full of different personalities and needs. Additionally, my husband’s career requires frequent travel, which often leaves me shouldering the majority of the caregiving responsibilities. Financial concerns have also been a significant hurdle. Pursuing a graduate degree comes with substantial costs, and managing tuition alongside the everyday expenses of raising a family has required careful planning and sacrifice. There have been moments of doubt when the weight of my responsibilities felt overwhelming, but my passion for making a difference and providing a better future for my family has kept me moving forward. Managing my dual roles as a student and mother requires intentionality and a willingness to adapt. Organization is key. I live by my calendar, meticulously planning each day to ensure that schoolwork, children’s activities, and family time are all accounted for. Early mornings and late nights have become my allies—quiet times when I can focus on assignments and readings without interruptions. I’ve also learned to lean on my support network, whether it’s asking for help from family members or relying on my older children to pitch in when needed. One of the most valuable lessons I’ve learned is the importance of self-care. While it’s easy to put everyone else’s needs ahead of my own, I’ve come to understand that I can’t pour from an empty cup. Simple practices, like taking a walk, journaling, or even enjoying a cup of coffee in peace, help me recharge and show up fully for my roles as both mother and student. Through all the challenges, my children have been my greatest source of inspiration. They see me pursuing my dreams, and I hope it teaches them the value of perseverance and the importance of education. They’ve also become my biggest cheerleaders, celebrating my small victories along the way. Continuing my education is about more than earning a degree; it’s about creating a legacy of resilience and advocacy. It’s about showing my children—and myself—that with determination and support, we can overcome any obstacle to build a future filled with purpose and possibility.

The birth of my fifth child was a transformative moment in my life, not only as a mother but also as an individual searching for deeper purpose. My child was born with a rare genetic condition that required immediate and ongoing care, pushing me to redefine what it means to advocate, connect, and provide support. The experience ignited a passion within me to expand my role from being a parent to becoming a professional who could offer guidance, healing, and hope to others navigating challenges. This life-changing event led me to pursue a master’s degree in Marriage and Family Therapy—a field that aligns with my desire to support individuals and families as they strive to overcome life’s obstacles. The journey to this decision wasn’t an easy one. Balancing the demands of raising five children has taught me resilience, patience, and resourcefulness. I’ve had to become an expert in juggling schedules, advocating within the healthcare system, and finding creative ways to nurture each of my children’s individual needs while maintaining a sense of stability at home. These experiences deepened my empathy and strengthened my resolve to be a source of stability and empowerment for others, particularly those who feel overwhelmed or alone. As a Marriage and Family Therapist, I hope to integrate my personal experiences and professional training to support families facing their own unique struggles. Families, like individuals, are living systems, and I aim to help clients strengthen the connections that foster resilience, love, and understanding. The decision to return to school for this purpose was fueled by my desire to be part of the healing process—not just for my own family, but for countless others seeking clarity and support during challenging times. Financially, returning to school has been a leap of faith. Raising five children comes with its own set of financial responsibilities, and the cost of graduate school has added to this burden. The funds from this opportunity would provide relief, alleviating some of the financial pressure that comes with pursuing higher education. With these funds, I could focus more fully on my studies and fieldwork without the added stress of taking on additional loans. This financial support would not only help me succeed academically but also enable me to show up as my best self for my clients, my family, and my community. My vision as a Marriage and Family Therapist is to integrate mind, body, soul, and spirit into my work, recognizing that true healing requires a holistic approach. Mental health does not exist in isolation—it is deeply connected to physical wellness, emotional fulfillment, and spiritual grounding. I plan to incorporate mindfulness practices to help clients manage stress and anxiety, promote physical wellness by encouraging healthy lifestyle choices, and explore spiritual or existential questions that may arise during therapy. By honoring the interconnectedness of these elements, I hope to help clients achieve a sense of wholeness that extends beyond symptom management to genuine personal transformation. My child’s genetic condition has taught me to find strength in the unexpected, to embrace growth through adversity, and to seek joy even in the midst of uncertainty. Through this work, I hope to give back to families and individuals who, like my own family, are navigating life’s complexities. This degree is more than a professional goal—it is a calling born out of love, perseverance, and a desire to make a difference. With the financial support offered by these funds, I am one step closer to fulfilling that calling and building a future that honors the mind, body, soul, and spirit of every client I serve.

As a child, I often found myself imagining a future centered around helping others. Whether it was pretending to be a teacher to an imaginary classroom, a doctor treating her stuffed animals, or a caretaker ensuring her younger cousins were always smiling, I knew one thing for certain: I wanted to make a difference in the lives of children and families. That dream never wavered; it simply evolved as I grew and discovered the depth of my passion for understanding relationships, nurturing emotional well-being, and advocating for systemic change. Today, my career path as a Marriage and Family Therapist reflects the heart of that childhood vision, combining my love for children, my drive to support families, and my determination to foster meaningful advocacy. In many ways, becoming a mother solidified my decision to pursue this career. As a parent, I witnessed firsthand how vital healthy relationships and emotional connections are to a child’s growth and resilience. Every hug, every bedtime story, every difficult conversation about disappointments or fears felt like a small piece of a much larger puzzle: the building of strong foundations for future generations. I began to see not only the beauty of family bonds but also the challenges that can fracture them—challenges I wanted to help others navigate with strength and grace. This realization spurred my pursuit of becoming a Marriage and Family Therapist. I envisioned myself working closely with families to untangle the knots that life can create, providing a safe space for parents and children to heal, grow, and rediscover their connections. My studies have deepened my understanding of the complex dynamics that shape relationships, particularly in areas where I hope to drive change: access to mental health services for underserved communities, support for single parents, and advocacy for family-centered policies that prioritize children’s emotional well-being. While my childhood dream was initially rooted in the simplicity of wanting to help, my journey has taught me the power of advocacy. Beyond individual families, I aspire to be a voice for systemic change—whether that means creating programs to support children in crisis, advocating for better mental health resources in schools, or working to reduce the stigma surrounding therapy within diverse communities. I believe that small actions ripple outward, and by supporting one family at a time, we can begin to reshape how society values and nurtures its youngest members. The road to becoming a Marriage and Family Therapist has been one of discovery and affirmation. It has reminded me of the innocence and hope that inspired my childhood dreams and shown me the depth and complexity of what it means to truly help others. As I continue on this path, I am grateful for the opportunities to learn, to grow, and to give back. While the dream has evolved, its essence remains the same: to be a compassionate presence in the lives of children and families and to create a better, more connected world for them to thrive in.

Life is a balancing act, especially when you are a parent of five, a student working toward becoming a Marriage and Family Therapist, and an active member of your community. For me, the thread that ties these roles together is my commitment to giving back and exemplifying a spirit of excellence in all I do. As a youth coach in dance, volleyball, and basketball, I have found a meaningful way to pour into the lives of young people, fostering their growth while also modeling the values of discipline, teamwork, and resilience that I hope to instill in my own children. Coaching youth sports and activities is not just about teaching skills—it is about building character. In dance, I encourage creativity and self-expression, teaching young dancers to embrace their unique talents while pushing themselves to improve. On the volleyball and basketball courts, I focus on teamwork and perseverance, helping players understand that success is not only measured by wins but also by the effort and camaraderie they bring to the game. By showing up with enthusiasm, patience, and dedication, I aim to lead by example, demonstrating the power of hard work and a positive attitude. Balancing my coaching responsibilities with raising five children and pursuing a career in Marriage and Family Therapy has not been easy, but it has been incredibly rewarding. My children are often present during practices and games, giving them a firsthand view of what it means to give back. I want them to see that excellence isn’t about perfection—it’s about showing up, being consistent, and giving your best in every moment. These lessons transcend the playing field and apply to every aspect of life, including my work as a parent, a student, and a future therapist. Pursuing my MFT degree has added another layer of purpose to my life and my coaching. As a therapist-in-training, I understand the importance of connection and emotional support, and I bring that perspective to my role as a coach. I strive to create a safe and encouraging environment for my athletes, recognizing that sports and dance can be a refuge for young people facing challenges in other areas of their lives. Coaching is an opportunity to be a positive influence, to listen, and to inspire confidence in the next generation. Giving back to my community is more than an action—it’s a value that drives everything I do. Whether I’m volunteering my time as a coach, mentoring a young athlete, or supporting my children in their pursuits, I am committed to fostering a spirit of excellence and service. My goal is to lead a life that inspires others to believe in their potential and to contribute to the world in meaningful ways. Through coaching, parenting, and studying to become an MFT, I have learned that excellence is not about achieving perfection—it’s about persistence, passion, and the willingness to uplift others. In every role I play, I strive to give back, knowing that the seeds I plant today will grow into a stronger, more connected community tomorrow.

Returning to school is a journey often filled with anticipation, excitement, and a renewed sense of purpose. However, when layered with the responsibilities of raising five children, caring for a mother in hospice, and managing a household with a husband who frequently travels, the challenges can feel monumental. Despite these hurdles, I have discovered a depth of resilience and adaptability I never knew I possessed—all in pursuit of my goal to become a Marriage and Family Therapist (MFT). One of the most significant challenges I’ve faced is time management. As a mother of five, my daily routine is already packed with school drop-offs, meals, activities, and the emotional support that children need. The coursework, my role as a mother, and wife all compete. Another challenge has been the emotional toll of supporting my mother in hospice care. This chapter of life is one that no amount of preparation can soften. Balancing the grief and anticipatory loss of my mother has been emotionally draining. There are moments when it feels impossible to focus on an assignment because my heart is elsewhere. However, I’ve come to view this experience as a lesson in compassion and presence—qualities essential for a future therapist. Spending time with my mother has deepened my understanding of the complexities of family dynamics and the importance of emotional connection, both of which will serve me in my work as an MFT. Adding to the complexity of my situation is the fact that my husband’s job often requires him to travel. His absence creates additional pressure to manage everything at home on my own. While this can be overwhelming, it has also forced me to rely more on my support network. Friends, extended family, and even my older children have stepped in to help, teaching me the importance of asking for and accepting help when needed. This realization will inform how I guide future clients in navigating their own support systems and managing overwhelming life circumstances. Self-care has been another hurdle in this process. With so many competing demands, it’s easy to put my own needs on the back burner. However, I’ve learned that taking time for myself is not selfish—it’s essential. Whether it’s a quiet cup of coffee before the kids wake up, a quick walk around the block, or a stolen hour to read a book for pleasure, these moments recharge me and remind me why I embarked on this journey in the first place. Despite the obstacles, returning to school has been a deeply fulfilling experience. It has allowed me to model perseverance and determination for my children. They see me balancing responsibilities and striving for something greater, and I hope it inspires them to chase their own dreams. My pursuit of becoming an MFT is also a testament to the value of hard work and the belief in creating meaningful change—both in my life and in the lives of others. This journey has taught me to celebrate small victories. Every completed assignment, every encouraging word from a professor, and every moment of clarity amidst the chaos reminds me that I am capable of more than I often give myself credit for. Working toward becoming an MFT has given me a sense of purpose, as I imagine helping others navigate their own challenges and strengthen their relationships. In returning to school, I am not only pursuing a degree—I am building the foundation for a career that will allow me to help families and individuals thrive. This process is a reminder that even in the face of overwhelming responsibility, growth and progress are always possible.

When my infant daughter's feeding tube came out during the family party, it meant an immediate trip to the hospital where it would need to be surgically placed again. I watched my other four children immediately fall into their roles. One went into action to gather my suitcase, another ran to her room to make a picture to decorate the hospital room, my son piled onto the couch to cry, and the last sat there trying to hold back her emotions. I squeezed them tight, all of us knowing I would be gone at least 3-4 nights caring for Sarah in the hospital. Amongst all the social workers, nurses, and doctors, no one had spoken to us as a family about how we were functioning, coping, and managing our lives with the diagnosis of Sarah's genetic condition. It was that moment I knew I needed to finish my degree to help other families navigate these situations. I decided to return to school to finish my bachelors degree at Arizona State University and am now pursuing my masters in Marriage and Family Therapy, with a specialization in Medical Family Therapy at Loma Linda University. The challenges I face as a student, wife, mother, preschool teacher, dance instructor, basketball and volleyball coach are unique due to my age and number of responsibilities I have. I am one of two in my cohort over the age of 40. My perspective due to my age and experiences allows me to approach the material and apply it from a different viewpoint than my classmates. My children have been witnesses, study helpers, and dinner makers due to my return to school. It has become a family effort and the life lessons and skills they are learning and observing, first hand, are invaluable. Time management, discipline, and sacrifice are among them. My support system is greater and I have the wisdom to ask for help that I never did in my earlier years. I am often humbled by the helping hands and investment those around me have made into cheering me on and ensuring I reach my end goal. I hope to give back what I have learned and received by working with families and children who have received a chronic, lifelong, or terminal illness. The challenges these families face are many, but the strength and hope of the family system can help alleviate many stressors and improve the quality of life for each family member. What my family was missing was someone to help tie and bring us together. We discovered leaning into one another, when we felt the medical condition was driving us further apart, was what we needed. We also learned everyone had a voice and feelings that deserved to be heard. Having support and tools to cope during times of fight or flight can strengthen an individual's and family's resiliency to be prepared for the next time. This scholarship would help in funding my education so I can graduate and enter the workforce into the field of mental health where the wait lists are ongoing. There is an immediate need and I am eager to serve. As I prepare to graduate in 2025, my oldest daughter will be preparing to launch into her college journey, Fall of 2026. Taking the financial pressure off of the student loans I need to repay can help me save to launch my daughter to be a change and way-maker too.

When my infant daughter's feeding tube came out during the family party, it meant an immediate trip to the hospital where it would need to be surgically placed again. I watched my other four children immediately fall into their roles. One went into action to gather my suitcase, another ran to her room to make a picture to decorate the hospital room, my son piled onto the couch to cry, and the last sat there trying to hold back her emotions. I squeezed them tight, all of us knowing I would be gone at least 3-4 nights caring for Sarah in the hospital. Amongst all the social workers, nurses, and doctors, no one had spoken to us as a family about how we were functioning, coping, and managing our lives with the diagnosis of Sarah's genetic condition. It was that moment I knew I needed to finish my degree to help other families navigate these situations. I decided to return to school to finish my bachelors degree at Arizona State University and am now pursuing my masters in Marriage and Family Therapy, with a specialization in Medical Family Therapy at Loma Linda University. The challenges I face as a student, wife, mother, preschool teacher, dance instructor, basketball and volleyball coach are unique due to my age and number of responsibilities I have. I am one of two in my cohort over the age of 40. My perspective due to my age and experiences allows me to approach the material and apply it from a different viewpoint than my classmates. My children have been witnesses, study helpers, and dinner makers due to my return to school. It has become a family effort and the life lessons and skills they are learning and observing, first hand, are invaluable. Time management, discipline, and sacrifice are among them. My support system is greater and I have the wisdom to ask for help that I never did in my earlier years. I am often humbled by the helping hands and investment those around me have made into cheering me on and ensuring I reach my end goal. I hope to give back what I have learned and received by working with families and children who have received a chronic, lifelong, or terminal illness. The challenges these families face are many, but the strength and hope of the family system can help alleviate many stressors and improve the quality of life for each family member. What my family was missing was someone to help tie and bring us together. We discovered leaning into one another, when we felt the medical condition was driving us further apart, was what we needed. We also learned everyone had a voice and feelings that deserved to be heard. Having support and tools to cope during times of fight or flight can strengthen an individual's and family's resiliency to be prepared for the next time. This scholarship would help in funding my education so I can graduate and enter the workforce into the field of mental health where the wait lists are ongoing. There is an immediate need and I am eager to serve. As I prepare to graduate in 2025, my oldest daughter will be preparing to launch into her college journey, Fall of 2026. Taking the financial pressure off of the student loans I need to repay can help me save to launch my daughter to be a change and way-maker too.