"Socrates: Once more, if you fear the fickleness of friendship, consider that in any other case a quarrel might be a mutual calamity; but now, when you have given up what is most precious to you, you will be the greater loser, and therefore, you will have more reason in being afraid of the lover, for his vexations are many, and he is always fancying that everyone is leagued against him. Wherefore also he debars his beloved from society; he will not have you intimate with the wealthy, lest they should exceed him in wealth, or with men of education, lest they should be his superiors in understanding; and he is equally afraid of anybody's influence who has any other advantage over himself. If he can persuade you to break with them, you are left without a friend in the world; or if, out of a regard to your own interest, you have more sense than to comply with his desire, you will have to quarrel with him. But those who are non-lovers, and whose success in love is the reward of their merit, will not be jealous of the companions of their beloved, and will rather hate those who refuse to be his associates, thinking that their favorite is slighted by the latter and benefited by the former; for more love than hatred may be expected to come to him out of his friendship with others." (Phaedrus, Plato) In the quoted paragraph, Socrates dives into analogies centered around social isolation and self-worth, two topics that still hold prevalence today in 2024. In asking"...if you fear the fickleness of friendship...", Socrates addresses those who have given up on trying to interact with society, as he is essentially calling out to those who find friendship unimportant or feel it is unnecessary. He then says "... a quarrel may be a mutual calamity...", attempting to demonstrate that the negative, angry, empty emotions one may feel after a bad interaction, and show that the other person likely feels similarly to you in that moment. Socrates then alludes to the vitality connection as he refers to it as "...what is most precious to you..." and says that without it "...you will be the greatest loser...". Socrates never directly mentions connection as the topic of these quotes and the sentences that accompany them, but it is obvious as to what he is alluding. He then says "...his vexations are many, and he is always fancying that everyone is leagued against him.", which implies that one who isolates himself from connection feels like the world is against him. It's like a rabbit hole, by allowing oneself to lose the connections we have with others, the amount of isolation and loneliness felt will continue to compound as you slip further and further. Socrates then delves into a realm of discussion focused on surrounding oneself with people who will inspire growth and positive change, using "...he debars his beloved from society..." as his example. One who "debars his beloved'' tries to isolate you in a way that makes you rely on only them, in an attempt to get a level of control over you. Socrates builds on this idea, saying "If he can persuade you to break with them, you are left without a friend in the world...", attempting to express how important establishing multiple connections and a support system is. I find it astonishing that most of our emotional problems are so human that people who lived multiple thousands of years ago struggled with the almost the same things that we do today. Socrates then begins his transition to discussions of realizing the value of oneself and being in touch with our true selves, saying "...and whose success in love is the reward of their merit...". In saying this, Socrates was trying to show the value in being comfortable in one's own skin, and advise to put forth one's best in everything they do to achieve the desired results. He then advises to stay away from jealousy, as it brings unnecessary hatred and negativity into life that is completely avoidable. Jealousy is something that I personally feel has become much more prevalent for me now than at any other point in my life, mainly because of social media. But, comparison is the thief of joy, so by loving oneself and truly being comfortable in your own skin, jealousy is something that we can overcome. By living in a way that attracts positivity and encourages connection with others, we will live a happier and more fulfilled life as "...for more love than hatred may be expected to come to him out of his friendship with others.".