My father — ‘dad’ as I call him — is among the most meaningful and inspirational people within my life. Dad is a driven, goofy, helpful guy who would do anything in the world for his two sons. He is constantly trying to shape myself and my brother to become the best, most successful versions of ourselves: which is something that I credit to his own upbringing.
Having grown up on a farm, my father has learned a number of lessons, all of which I have had the ‘pleasure’ of hearing. See, from what I know, my 58 year old dad has always been the driven, success-oriented man that he once was at 16. He makes it clear to me that a ‘can-do’ attitude is crucial to someone’s success, and that he is proof that you can accomplish so many things if you put your mind to them. I think that he is one of the most outgoing people I know, especially when it comes to my brother and I, as he will do anything in his power to help us out or make us happy.
He has done a lot, both for himself, and for us children. When my parents got a divorce he made sure to keep up with our lives, showing us support at our games, taking us out to eat, and helping us master our passions. He actually is the main reason why I am looking to get an undergraduate degree in the field of computer science, as he told me from a young age that coding was the future, and that I should start to learn. When he told me this at age eight or nine, I brushed it off, because I would rather have been drawing and playing with my Wii; he was fine with that, as he understood that I was still young, and had time to figure out my path in life, but he would continue to guide me down what he thought would be a route to success. In all honesty, computer science has not always been a degree that I have considered, in fact, I only came back to it a few months ago. Prior to this, I was leaning heavily into the field of architecture, which, as always, my dad was very supportive of me pursuing, but he couldn’t hide his excitement when I told him about my desire to learn to code and study computer science. I understand that it may not seem like a big deal for him to be so supportive of me, but I think that his attitude toward myself and my brother has truly shaped us into the people that we have become.
In all honesty, I hope to always remember the amazing things that my father has done for me, and I truly hope that I will one day become a father that is just as helpful, genuine, and supportive as him. But, he has set the bar pretty high.