My journey as a single mother pursuing higher education has not been linear or easy; it has been raw, unexpected, and, at times, overwhelming yet deeply purposeful.
I became pregnant at 27 under circumstances that, I did not expect. I had been told by doctors that I might never be able to have children, and I was taking precautions. Still, I found myself in a high-risk pregnancy. In the process of forming a family, I experienced both loss and miracle: I lost a second pregnancy, underwent chemotherapy, and, against all odds, conceived my second child. Those experiences grounded me and reshaped how I understand perseverance and purpose.
Not long after, I became a single mother (financially, physically, and emotionally). My children’s father struggled with substance use and ultimately chose a different path. At the same time, my support system was limited. My mother was on dialysis, my father worked constantly, and my siblings live all over the world. The friends I once had disappeared, and I found myself navigating motherhood largely on my own.
Despite having already completed a master’s degree in education and having had opportunities to travel and work internationally, I found myself in a very vulnerable position. At one point, I was at risk of living in my car with my two children. It was a sobering experience that showed me how quickly stability can disappear.
In the middle of that reality, I made a decision that defines me to this day: while still breastfeeding, I began my doctoral studies at the University of Puerto Rico, Río Piedras campus, in a combined PhD/EdD program in Administration, Public Policy, Social Work, and Educational Leadership. I have always believed that education is a pathway to well-being and transformation, not just for individuals, but for families and communities.
What followed required endurance. I worked three jobs while raising my children and caring for my mother until her passing last year. I paid for my doctoral studies out-of-pocket to avoid debt in an already fragile situation. After years of sacrifice, I reached the point of being ready to defend my dissertation.
At that moment, I encountered a barrier outside my control as there were no available faculty members to direct my dissertation. After years of waiting, I was told that I would have to restart the program because too much time had passed. That experience was devastating.
After continuing to advocate for myself without resolution, I decided to continue my doctoral journey at Gwynedd Mercy University. I am proud to be the first Puerto Rican residing in Puerto Rico to participate in their doctoral remote program, reflecting representation and access. The institution has been supportive, but the financial burden has been significant. My children and I have had to move from one family member’s home to another without long-term stability.
Still, I remain committed to finishing what I started. My work is rooted in the belief that education can transform lives, especially for those navigating trauma and instability. Completing this degree is not only about personal achievement but about creating stability for my children and supporting others in doing the same.
This scholarship would be life-changing. It would allow me to complete my degree, reduce financial pressure, and move toward securing a safe and stable home for my family. More importantly, it would allow me to continue supporting others in navigating similar challenges.
My path has been difficult, but it has also been meaningful. I am committed to seeing it through for myself, for my children, and for the communities I hope to continue serving.